How okay are you with a partner proposing a threesome?

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pandasauce

I am curious about how each gender and sexuality looks at this question. If your partner proposed a threesome with you two and either a man or a woman, how would you respond?

Please pick two answers in your gender/sexuality, one for a threesome with an extra man and one for a threesome with an extra woman. (There is a category for straight women, straight men, gay women, gay men, bi women, bi men and "other" so I think everyone should be covered)

Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):

I am a straight woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a straight woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a straight woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a straight woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a straight woman and it depends on the man.

I am a straight woman and it depends on the woman.

I am a straight man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a straight man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a straight man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a straight man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a straight man and it depends on the man.

I am a straight man and it depends on the woman.

I am a bisexual woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a bisexual woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a bisexual woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a bisexual woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a bisexual woman and it depends on the man.

I am a bisexual woman and it depends on the woman.

I am a bisexual man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a bisexual man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a bisexual man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a bisexual man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a bisexual man and it depends on the man.

I am a bisexual man and it depends on the woman.

I am a gay woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a gay woman and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a gay woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a gay woman and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a gay woman and it would depend on the man.

I am a gay woman and it would depend on the woman.

I am a gay man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a gay man and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a gay man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am a gay man and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am a gay man and it would depend on the man.

I am a gay man and it would depend on the woman.

I am some other gender/sexuality and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am some other gender/sexuality and I would be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am some other gender/sexuality and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a man.

I am some other gender/sexuality and I would not be okay with my partner proposing a threesome with us and a woman.

I am some other gender/sexuality and it would depend on the man.

I am some other gender/sexuality and it would depend on the woman.

Total votes: 90 (43 voters)

Poll is closed

12/01/2012

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panthercat23

We have had threesomes in the past which he proposed. Though they only happen if I approve of the individual.

12/01/2012

Beck

I went ahead and voted that I was a straight women because my relationship is a heterosexual one. I should have voted for the some other option. Anyhow, it wouldn't matter to me what the sex of the third was, I would be open to it depending on the person.

Though, I think that if a threesome is going to happen in our relationship....it' ;s gonna be someone I pick.

I don't think anyone should take offense to their partner asking them to fulfill a fantasy. Granted the fantasy isn't unlawful.

12/01/2012

Hallmar82

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Originally posted by pandasauce

I doubt my wife would propose either but I would certainly listen to whatever she's interested in.

12/01/2012

Sinfully

I am bisexual and I would be ok with this. Man or woman, doesn't matter to me.

12/01/2012

Sweet-n-Playful

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Originally posted by pandasauce

I'm up for threesomes either way, as long as I get to help pick out the person

12/01/2012

Gunsmoke

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Originally posted by Hallmar82

I doubt my wife would propose either but I would certainly listen to whatever she's interested in.

I voted against any type 3-some mostly because like you, my wife would not typically be interested. However as you say, if she did, I would listen.

12/02/2012

KinkyNicki92

Im too jealous for another woman to be on my fiance

12/02/2012

invisiblehat

I'd be okay with it as long as I get to approve the person.

12/02/2012

Beautiful-Disaster

I wouldnt be okay with it... at all.

12/02/2012

SiNn

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Originally posted by pandasauce

im bisexual and im down with threesomes and all depends on the other person

12/02/2012

naturegirl

I consider myself straight though I have dabbled with my own gender, so I voted as a straight person. We have had both MFM and FMF threesomes, both permutations were good in their own way, but from my point of view I found the MFM act more satisfying.

12/02/2012

PropertyOfPotter

I'm a straight woman and I wouldn't be okay with either.

12/02/2012

Taylor

They can propose whatever they want, but I'm not going to agree to it. I've had a threesome before and it was a terrible experience for me, and not something I wish to try again.

12/02/2012

bayosgirl

Straight woman, would NOT be ok with any kind of a threesome between myself, husband and any other person. Our sex life is for us alone. I'm glad he agrees with me on this.

12/02/2012

ne1469694u

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Originally posted by pandasauce

nice as olng as its girl girl guy

12/03/2012

ShadowedSeductress

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Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter

I'm a straight woman and I wouldn't be okay with either.

I'm with you on this one.

12/03/2012

DrowsRose

I would not be ok with it

12/03/2012

Moniqua

I wouldn't be ok with either.

12/03/2012

kev

Okay, as long as the other one is not a man. That would be quite a turn off.

12/04/2012

pandasauce

The reason I brought this up was that my partner recently proposed a threesome with us and a man, which I thought was interesting (as a straight female). Up to this point, all of my male partners have been really adamant about turning down my fantasy of bringing a guy into the bedroom, even to the point of being rude about it.

12/05/2012

Martiniman

Where we are with this topic, I'd be ok with certain suggestions while not so much with others, but this has been put to bed and I'd really be shocked for her to suggest it.

12/05/2012

Beaners

I'm okay with him suggesting anything. Following through with it is another thing. Har har!

12/09/2012

travelnurse

My husband cannot keep up with me so him suggesting a three some would definitely be a laughable matter.

12/09/2012

hanjonatan

i would never want to have a threesome regardless of who it was with.

12/09/2012

gloomybear

we had a friend who wanted to participate in a threesome with my bf and i but he did not ask either of us instead he touched me inappropraitely and my bf kicked him out and hasnt talked to him since

12/09/2012

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