If your partner turned you down for sex and later you found them masturbating, how would you react?
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11/22/2010
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11/22/2010
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I would probably give them a light smack on the back of the head. Be a little hurt, but not let it effect the rest of the evening if could help it. If it was a regular thing, I might be upset though. Unless there was a good reason, ie: If they were not turned on AND they smelled from work and were too tired to go jump in the shower so they wouldnt feel disgusting fucking me. Or if they were too tired to be able to please me back and didn't want to fuck unless they could for sure get me off too.
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
If your partner turned you down for sex and later you found them masturbating, how would you react?
11/22/2010
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Girl with fire... You're too nice, more mature obviously, but I'd sulk for a week. That's a harsh way to find out you're not cutting it in the sack. After I was done being a child about it though, I think I might come around... You know, see if I could get back in sync with them. It could just be one of those things though, you're not exactly hungry so you turn down dinner and a couple hours later you kicking yourself in the ass because you're starving but too uncomfortable to mention it, maybe go grab a snack or whatever.
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
If your partner turned you down for sex and later you found them masturbating, how would you react?
11/23/2010
I got turned down in favor of world or warcraft once. we had some words about that later.
12/16/2010
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I have acted like a child; threown fits, withheld affection, and generally did everything that you should never do to your partner(s).
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
If your partner turned you down for sex and later you found them masturbating, how would you react?
I have learned that the mature thing to do is share the hurt feelings, and try to ascertain if this was a true with holding of sex or something different. Sometimes a partner will turn down sex due to whatever reason (genuine fatigue, pain, emotional distress) and still desire a quick release. For some people masturbation is an emotional as well as physical release. To punish a partner for this is to do terrible damage to your relationship.
Also to deny a partner's pain at having been turned dow is to do the same damage back. If you feel the need to turn down full on sex it is always better to be upfront and honest about both the reason and your need for release.
When my partner(s) and I implemented this type of behavior we gained the right to admit that what we wanted was to be totally selfish and "get off" rather than full, intimate love making. From that level of equality we are able to compromise and often make everyone happy!
12/16/2010
I would be disapointed but not all that much. The only reason why my partner would ever do that would be bcs I am indisposed. I could have gone to school, or fell asleep. He would never turn down sex to masturbate. If I'm available he usually wants me to take care of him.
If he turned down sex and 5 minutes later he masturbated, I would definitely talk to him about it. I would want him to explain why he would do somethign like that, knowing he could have had sex. If he has a valid reason I would let it go, if it was some other reason that wouldn't make sense then I would have a hard time letting it slide.
If he turned down sex and 5 minutes later he masturbated, I would definitely talk to him about it. I would want him to explain why he would do somethign like that, knowing he could have had sex. If he has a valid reason I would let it go, if it was some other reason that wouldn't make sense then I would have a hard time letting it slide.
12/16/2010
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Aww hell as long as it's ot an attempt to tell you that you suck in bed more than likely there is a less insulting reason for the whole event.
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jb1walker
Girl with fire... You're too nice, more mature obviously, but I'd sulk for a week. That's a harsh way to find out you're not cutting it in the sack. After I was done being a child about it though, I think I might come around... You
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Girl with fire... You're too nice, more mature obviously, but I'd sulk for a week. That's a harsh way to find out you're not cutting it in the sack. After I was done being a child about it though, I think I might come around... You know, see if I could get back in sync with them. It could just be one of those things though, you're not exactly hungry so you turn down dinner and a couple hours later you kicking yourself in the ass because you're starving but too uncomfortable to mention it, maybe go grab a snack or whatever.
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Still as I admitted I also acted like a total spoiled brat until it became a battle of wills.
12/16/2010
I'd probably be a little upset, but I'd know that it meant more that he need time for himself, rather than bonding time and that's okay. But later, I'd totally jump him. ;3
12/19/2010
My ex would turn me down for sex all the time, just say "he wasn't in the mood", and then use MY computer to look at (underage) porn. I dumped him.
12/19/2010
I should say, I dumped him after much conversation of, "are you OK?" and "is there something wrong?" for over a year. He just denied looking at porn altogether!
12/19/2010
I'd be more than a little disappointed, but I see a lot of very mature answers on here. You all seem a lot more responsible and considerate than I would be..
12/19/2010
Under sexed
Turned on by lots of things. But she’s not
08/28/2020
Under sexed
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Want to have really nasty sex. But she don’t want to . Stay horny all the time
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Under sexed
Turned on by lots of things. But she’s not
08/28/2020
This happened with my husband and I YEARS ago. I wanted it badly, got turned down, went to work, came back and joked about it that he Jerked off when I was at work. Well, when I joked about it, he actually said he did. Personally I don't care if he were to jerk off, but it made me feel like crap that he chose that over sex.
08/28/2020
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That has never worked for me. I have a high sex drive..... and everybody that I’ve dated knows that I’m sexually open-minded. One or a few times is okay.... but make it a habit and I’ll just leave and you’ll find yourself single.
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
If your partner turned you down for sex and later you found them masturbating, how would you react?
08/30/2020
KinsleyMajesty
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That’s time to go, for me. Maybe, if you really care about that person you might give them a chance to explain, but at that Point, to me, something is seriously wrong. It would mean that they either lied to you or are hiding their desire from you, and are denying you themselves. Yeah, I’m not into that. To me, that means: end of the relationship.
Originally posted by
celibacysucks
If your partner turned you down for sex and later you found them masturbating, how would you react?
03/06/2021
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