I love trying out new things, and I want to try more, but is there a limit for toys/extras? I'm so open to buying new things and just trying to have some fun. But would my future partner be put off by how many items I have?
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Is it possible to have too many toys?
09/01/2021
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Well, it is hard to answer your question. Everything is individual, and your future partner's reaction can be different depending on how open the person is. Anyway, I don't think it is a good idea to show all your arsenal on the first date .
09/02/2021
I say, the more toys you own the more opportunities you have to be sexually creative. If I was your partner, I would be excited to see your toy collection! You know the ole' saying "You show me yours and I'll show you mine!"
09/02/2021
Yes, too many. Too many charging cords, not enough places to store them. A variety is nice though. Too many dildos mean using a bunch each time playing.
09/02/2021
Batman24577
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No. It’s good to have a selection!
Originally posted by
Luvluna499
I love trying out new things, and I want to try more, but is there a limit for toys/extras? I'm so open to buying new things and just trying to have some fun. But would my future partner be put off by how many items I have?
09/02/2021
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That is an absolute no. Get you a good storage container for them and keep them clean.
Originally posted by
Luvluna499
I love trying out new things, and I want to try more, but is there a limit for toys/extras? I'm so open to buying new things and just trying to have some fun. But would my future partner be put off by how many items I have?
09/02/2021
There is no limit, its personal preference. I have bought so many to try but I dont like them all an I'd hate to just throw away so I keep around just in case. I definitely dont use them all. I have my favorites and keep them close by. Than I have a to-go bag for when I'm being summoned to play. As someone mentioned, the kicker is storing them all and for me hiding from innocent eyes in the house. Between the toys, blow up furniture, shoes, wigs and enticing outfits I need a whole new dresser or closet to store everything! LOL...what can I say, this lady likes to PLAY!
09/07/2021
Personally I think so. You can only get so much of a variety before toys start to essentially be the same thing but different brands. And you'll pick your favorites from each "category" because while 2 things may look the same, one will be better and you'll eventually end up with stuff you don't even touch. But then again you won't know what's better than the other until you *do* end up with similar things, so who knows lol
09/09/2021
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Nah, I don't think so. We have a lot of toys here but we keep most of them to one room in the house. I suppose anyone who is really turned off by lots and lots of toys and implements isn't really someone that my Master or me would really be interested in playing with anyway. If someone was really a match for you, then they're not going to be upset by the type of toys you keep in your house. I think it's not necessarily the type or amount of toys, but the presentation of and how you use them. It's your life, have fun with it!
Originally posted by
Luvluna499
I love trying out new things, and I want to try more, but is there a limit for toys/extras? I'm so open to buying new things and just trying to have some fun. But would my future partner be put off by how many items I have?
09/10/2021
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Absolutely not, although I agree with the other folks that not all of these will be your go-to implements of orgasm. After trying a new toy we like to sort them into storage bins which can be discreetly hidden in the closet. For example, we have a bin for BDSM, a bin for him, a bin for her, etc. Of course the ones that score big go directly into the night stand for easy access!
Originally posted by
Luvluna499
I love trying out new things, and I want to try more, but is there a limit for toys/extras? I'm so open to buying new things and just trying to have some fun. But would my future partner be put off by how many items I have?
09/22/2021
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As already written earlier, it all depends on your partner, maybe he will be so relaxed that he will advise you something else. ??
Originally posted by
Luvluna499
I love trying out new things, and I want to try more, but is there a limit for toys/extras? I'm so open to buying new things and just trying to have some fun. But would my future partner be put off by how many items I have?
10/09/2021
If your partner judges you for that, they sound like a jerk anyways! Just make sure you don't spring it on them too early in the relationship, and if they're a keeper, it should be fine.
I voted "NO" but maybe that's just the collector in me. I've had similar styles of dildos and they all feel noticeably different to me, so even if it's a big white realistic and another big white realistic, both could be worth having. Small differences in sculpting, size, material, etc can feel like big ones.
Though... I definitely do get some people's qualms, like storage problems, and the fact you're gonna end up playing favourites. Hey though, if you end up with some you use less, that just makes it all the more exciting to bring them back.
I voted "NO" but maybe that's just the collector in me. I've had similar styles of dildos and they all feel noticeably different to me, so even if it's a big white realistic and another big white realistic, both could be worth having. Small differences in sculpting, size, material, etc can feel like big ones.
Though... I definitely do get some people's qualms, like storage problems, and the fact you're gonna end up playing favourites. Hey though, if you end up with some you use less, that just makes it all the more exciting to bring them back.
11/03/2021
There's absolutely no shame in exploring your sexuality and what you enjoy! If it's brought up at an appropriate time I'm sure your partner would be perfectly fine with it, if they're really an advocate for your pleasure and confidence that is. If they aren't then...that's probably the biggest red flag I've seen!
11/17/2021
Definitely not! There are some people who are collectors of different brands and own a bunch of different toys (Bad Dragon collectors, usually). I used to have a huge collection, and my partner thought that it was hot. Personally, I think having a big collection just shows that you know what you like and that you're in tune with your body.
03/01/2022
Absolutely not. My happiest and healthiest sexual relationships were with partners, where we had open communication about what we liked, and for me, that includes sharing that I have a rather large collection of toys that I like to share if my partner is open to it. As long as you share this information at the appropriate time and are open to discussion if your partner has questions, I don’t see anything wrong with it at all - having a collection shows that you’re open to exploring your body and sexuality and for those, I have shared this information with, it’s always been overwhelmingly positive. However, everyone is different, and you don’t know until you have that conversation.
03/01/2022
The only time it would be a "problem" is if you yourself feel it's too many (or run out of space for them). If a partner is put off by your collection, that's their own problem - and they probably aren't a partner you want in your life!
Over the years I've collected a lot of toys but typically only have a few favorites that I use frequently, so recently I gave some of the toys I don't ever use to some friends who didn't have any sex toy experience and didn't have the budget to create their own collection. That way they could experiment, I could free up space in my toy box, and no toys end up in a landfill. But as long as you are having fun with them, go crazy!
Over the years I've collected a lot of toys but typically only have a few favorites that I use frequently, so recently I gave some of the toys I don't ever use to some friends who didn't have any sex toy experience and didn't have the budget to create their own collection. That way they could experiment, I could free up space in my toy box, and no toys end up in a landfill. But as long as you are having fun with them, go crazy!
03/07/2022
No such thing as too many toys! The more the merrier provided you have room to store them all!
09/10/2022
Honeydipper66
It’s a personal preference to have as many toys to choose from.
09/29/2022
H & J
We dont think so because all of them differ slightly or drastically from each other and so they suite a different need or focus on a specific area unlike others we have. It can get confusing sometimes but variety is a great tool to help keep things interesting over long term relationships.
12/27/2022
I arguably have too many now. I have a file box dedicated to anal toys, all my soft-body strokers are in an old plastic ammo box, vibrators in a file box, others in other plastic crates. Though some will need replaced at some stage, and there's a couple gaps in my inventory; I lack an everyday-wear anal plug that's a decent size, for example.
12/05/2023
cumtastic
Never!
Jan 18, 3:03 am
Rustic.Coastal
I agree with the other folks…if your partner doesn’t like your collection, that sounds like a them problem and not a you problem. I am never one to yuck someone else’s yum and like to experience lots of things so I can better understand what my partner needs. I certainly have a few tried and true toys, it I am open to all of them.
Jan 20, 10:32 am
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