Is your sex life better when in a long term relationship?

Is your sex life better when in a long term relationship?

CaliGirl CaliGirl
Is no commitment sex better than when your in a committed long term relationship?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes
19  (37%)
No
10  (20%)
Depends on the partner
22  (43%)
Total votes: 51
Poll is closed
06/25/2012
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Geogeo Geogeo
I think my best sex is when it's a no-commitment f*** buddy that knows you well enough to know what you like so isn't a one-night stand but isn't someone you're bored with because it's been so long
06/25/2012
EvilHomer EvilHomer
I'd like to point out that the poll is a little confusing.

The link you click to get in here says

"Is your sex life better when in a long term relationship?"

then the question in the poll is

"Is no commitment sex better than when your in a committed long term relationship?"

Yes or No to those two question are very different, some people might be confused (I was almost guilty of not reading the short interior text and assuming it was the same as the thread title.) Still I am not sure which question I should have answered.
06/25/2012
indiglo indiglo
I much prefer my sex life now, with my long-term, committed partner. There is nothing like someone who knows your body, knows your sounds, knows what you like, and does it all. Plus we can talk about our issues together, feel safe, and just be ourselves. I like feeling loved for all my parts - both my body and the rest of me.
06/25/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Funny, but I've had no sex in long-term relationships. I'd like to try it sometime. Maybe with someone who has a libido and lives closer (the two things I lacked in my last two LTRs).

I refuse to answer the poll because it's asking two entirely different questions.
06/25/2012
spineyogurt spineyogurt
better
06/25/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by CaliGirl
Is no commitment sex better than when your in a committed long term relationship?
I had some shorter relationships with a great sex life, but it was ONLY in the really long term relationships...one prior to getting married, and then with my hubby (now of 35 years) that I had the trust and confidence to do anything, go anywhere and enjoy all kinds of things without worry about trust, security or ANY worries, in fact.
06/25/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
I much prefer my sex life now, with my long-term, committed partner. There is nothing like someone who knows your body, knows your sounds, knows what you like, and does it all. Plus we can talk about our issues together, feel safe, and just be ...
Very well said. I don't worry about ANY imperfections with my hubby of so many years. He loves me.....a LOT...just as I am. Ditto for me. No place I know on me he wouldn't be happy to plant a big kiss or a tender caress!!!!
06/25/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by CaliGirl
Is no commitment sex better than when your in a committed long term relationship?
WOW...I just RE-read the question..after reading other comments about confusion. Indeed, you imply NO commitment sex is BETTER then long term relationship. I stupidly clicked YES. TOTALLY not how I feel. Long term beats "no committment" sex all to heck.

The question was phrased rather confusingly.

Maybe should have said "which is better"....A. Long Term B. Shot term
06/25/2012
G&L G&L
Man I misread the question.
06/25/2012
marshmallow marshmallow
yes!
06/26/2012
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
has been better for me
06/26/2012
HB042 HB042
I've never had sex out of a long term relationship, actually. And I can't say at what point it's better... discovery of a new person is fun, as is the comfort of knowing so much about someone else.
06/29/2012
deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Geogeo
I think my best sex is when it's a no-commitment f*** buddy that knows you well enough to know what you like so isn't a one-night stand but isn't someone you're bored with because it's been so long
I agree!
07/01/2012
Peggi Peggi
I think I answered wrong? I'm not sure...was the question about a RELATIONSHIP or a NON-relationship? I'm confused...
07/02/2012
Sinfully Sinfully
It really varies and depends.
07/02/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
depends on the partner
08/14/2012
x203 x203
Definitely depends on the partner
08/16/2012
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Quote:
Originally posted by CaliGirl
Is no commitment sex better than when your in a committed long term relationship?
I have had it go both ways
08/16/2012
Total posts: 19
Unique posters: 17