If you broke thing off with your ex... would you sometimes have sex with him/her?
Messn' with my Ex....
09/19/2010
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I have thought about this actually. I think I would still have occasional sex with my husband if we broke up. It's something that my lifepartner understands and to be honest if he wanted to I would still have sex with him if we officially broke it off. It's not that I'm a total slut (ok ya I am) but I know that I so totally desire them both that I would want to be honest with myself about it...I might not have sex with them ever again if we break up especially if we don't have any contact but I think that if the situation arose I totally would.
Originally posted by
PleasureNFantasy
If you broke thing off with your ex... would you sometimes have sex with him/her?
09/20/2010
I doubt I would. If I break up, it's for a reason, and going back for sex would just put oil in the flames and cause unnecessary drama. Seen it happen to too many of my friends before and I'd rather not go there.
09/20/2010
It would depend on the reason we broke up. My Man and I have been together for more than 20 years. I can't imagine being broken up from him.
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt me badly, emotionally or physically (or even injured me a little in an angry violent way) I wouldn't give him a second chance.
Everything is dependent on circumstances. If we broke up because he was cheating, then I would not either. (Unless we were able to work it out and stay together. I would NOT be available for Booty Calls, if I had been cheated on.) Nor would I if he had a significant other. I wouldn't do that to an other woman.
But, it depends on a lot of things.
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt me badly, emotionally or physically (or even injured me a little in an angry violent way) I wouldn't give him a second chance.
Everything is dependent on circumstances. If we broke up because he was cheating, then I would not either. (Unless we were able to work it out and stay together. I would NOT be available for Booty Calls, if I had been cheated on.) Nor would I if he had a significant other. I wouldn't do that to an other woman.
But, it depends on a lot of things.
09/20/2010
I would not have sex to "mess" with them - I would do it because I still, in a way, wanted to be with them. Sort of like denial, I suppose.
09/20/2010
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No...we broke up for a reason.
Originally posted by
PleasureNFantasy
If you broke thing off with your ex... would you sometimes have sex with him/her?
There is a reason they don't make it to your present or future, and should stay in the past. That is always bad news eventually.
I would only ever do this if we were thinking about getting back together.
09/20/2010
Only done it once, just because I was lonely, she was lonely and we were at a wedding together.
Otherwise, yeah. "Ex's for a reason".
Otherwise, yeah. "Ex's for a reason".
09/20/2010
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Ya I think my answer is very dependent on whether he is without a significant other or is she was willing and truly ok with it. I don't cheat but I can't imagine not being able to sex him up whenever I want...after 25 years it's just unimaginable!
Originally posted by
P'Gell
It would depend on the reason we broke up. My Man and I have been together for more than 20 years. I can't imagine being broken up from him.
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt ... more
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt ... more
It would depend on the reason we broke up. My Man and I have been together for more than 20 years. I can't imagine being broken up from him.
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt me badly, emotionally or physically (or even injured me a little in an angry violent way) I wouldn't give him a second chance.
Everything is dependent on circumstances. If we broke up because he was cheating, then I would not either. (Unless we were able to work it out and stay together. I would NOT be available for Booty Calls, if I had been cheated on.) Nor would I if he had a significant other. I wouldn't do that to an other woman.
But, it depends on a lot of things. less
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt me badly, emotionally or physically (or even injured me a little in an angry violent way) I wouldn't give him a second chance.
Everything is dependent on circumstances. If we broke up because he was cheating, then I would not either. (Unless we were able to work it out and stay together. I would NOT be available for Booty Calls, if I had been cheated on.) Nor would I if he had a significant other. I wouldn't do that to an other woman.
But, it depends on a lot of things. less
Man gets abusive with me he may not be able to have booty calls after I am done with him...I watched my Mom nearly killed by my Dad in a drunken brawl, I won't tolerate it.
09/20/2010
Only with one ex. I had a boyfriend from the time I was 17 until I was almost 20 that was an on again/off again type thing. When we were off I'd still sometimes hook up with him. Usually we'd soon end up back together..but the last time we were actually together I had just turned 19. Throughout that last year we never were together but we hooked up quite a lot. It was not healthy at all, but the reason why it happened was we had sexual chemistry..but he had anger management issues and I could never stand to be in a relationship with him for long..but that didn't change the fact that I wanted him.
09/20/2010
I have done it with two of my ex's and it didn't turn out good. They thought it meant that I wanted them back in my life even though I just wanted them for the sex. Then when I messed around with other people they started to get upset even when I told them it was a friends with benefits situation only. I would not suggest it unless they REALLY understand you don't want to be together.
09/20/2010
I have done this only when we were trying to get back together for the kids sack. (yes I know wrong reason)
09/20/2010
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Absolutely not. My ex is my ex for a reason. I also don't believe in casual sex -- for me, anyway. It complicates things.
Originally posted by
PleasureNFantasy
If you broke thing off with your ex... would you sometimes have sex with him/her?
09/21/2010
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Well-said! It's true that there are many nuances with things like this
Originally posted by
P'Gell
It would depend on the reason we broke up. My Man and I have been together for more than 20 years. I can't imagine being broken up from him.
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt ... more
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt ... more
It would depend on the reason we broke up. My Man and I have been together for more than 20 years. I can't imagine being broken up from him.
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt me badly, emotionally or physically (or even injured me a little in an angry violent way) I wouldn't give him a second chance.
Everything is dependent on circumstances. If we broke up because he was cheating, then I would not either. (Unless we were able to work it out and stay together. I would NOT be available for Booty Calls, if I had been cheated on.) Nor would I if he had a significant other. I wouldn't do that to an other woman.
But, it depends on a lot of things. less
In an other life, though, it would depend. If a man was abusive, then absolutely not. If he hurt me badly, emotionally or physically (or even injured me a little in an angry violent way) I wouldn't give him a second chance.
Everything is dependent on circumstances. If we broke up because he was cheating, then I would not either. (Unless we were able to work it out and stay together. I would NOT be available for Booty Calls, if I had been cheated on.) Nor would I if he had a significant other. I wouldn't do that to an other woman.
But, it depends on a lot of things. less
09/21/2010
I have one Ex in particular from highschool and we sometimes still have sex. Other than that, I dont do it.
09/21/2010
i did for 6 six months till she got engaged. she broke up with me and started dating the other guy 2 days after our break up. thought she owed me something.
09/22/2010
Well I'd certainly think twice as it's an "-ex" after all but anything is possible... it all depends on the situation and circumstances.
04/06/2011
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I have done this in the past but won't ever again. It's very hard mentally to have sex with an ex unless you are planning to get back together. I don't recommend it.
Originally posted by
PleasureNFantasy
If you broke thing off with your ex... would you sometimes have sex with him/her?
04/06/2011
depends on what they are doing for me thier a ex for a reason
04/08/2011
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Live and learn, right? I was thinking the same thing.. you learn as you get older. That definitely affects the answer to this question
Originally posted by
padmeamidala
I have done this in the past but won't ever again. It's very hard mentally to have sex with an ex unless you are planning to get back together. I don't recommend it.
04/08/2011
Only if we had a friendly break up.. and ONLY if both of us were unattached.
04/09/2011
I have done this and it turned out awful. Wish it had never happened. Will not ever do that again.
04/16/2011
Did this once and it was terrible! Never, ever again!
04/26/2011
I'm trying to imagine this scenario with my man. I can't imagine ending things with him, but if we did, I do not think I would be able to have sex with him after. My heart would be too broken, and I would need a lot of time to get over it... and having sex with him would not aid in the process. So no, I don't think I would do that.
04/26/2011
Nope!
04/27/2011
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