Which one of these options are either your least favorite or something you just won't allow in your sex life?

Contributor: js250 js250 09/04/2011

We all have our preferences and dislikes, but I am very curious about other people's least favorite, but will still do, and the off limits sexual activity. I think this could be really eye opening when we realize we aren't the only ones who feel the way we do.

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Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
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Total votes: 507 (309 voters)
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Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
The 69 is my least favourite position and sexual activity out of that list.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
The 69 is my least favourite position and sexual activity out of that list.
Only 69'ed a few times. It just feels weird, but I'm super self concious about my weight.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
I'm not really into the rim job idea, but I guess if he reallllllllly wanted to ....
09/04/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I don't typically get much joy out of receiving cunnilingus. It's so high-pressure, and all the focus is on me, and I feel self-conscious that it's hard for me to cum that way.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
Only 69'ed a few times. It just feels weird, but I'm super self concious about my weight.
I don't like the 69 position either! People tell me I'm crazy. Glad I'm not the only one

I also checked off handjobs since I've never really learned how to do that in a way that actually feels good for the guy without a toy.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
Anal just grosses us out!
09/04/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I voted for handjob because it's my least favorite to give, mainly because I know he can get better results if we switch to PIV or I give him a blowjob (which I REALLY enjoy).

Right now, cunnilingus and anything anal are off limits because my partner and I haven't built up to that level of trust yet.
09/04/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
teasing is def what i hate the most
09/04/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Rimjob.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
For me, it's breast play before sex. It's painful for me for some reason, unless we've started having sex and I'm really into it, then I just don't even feel it. I really love having my breasts played with, as far as the "fun" just not the pain
09/04/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I chose "other." My least favorite would probably have to be when someone bites me. I really enjoy it, but it makes me orgasm instantly. HAHA!
09/04/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Rim job for me, just never felt the urge to do it. I would of course if the wife wanted it.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
The first thing that comes to mind is anything with "other" bodily fluids.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Anal. I tear too easily, and it's just painful.
09/04/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
I dont have a fav i like all of the above and then some
09/04/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I'm actually open to all of those ideas.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Papershotglass Papershotglass
I have enough intestinal problems.
I don't need more.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
The rim job thing is just a no for me.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
I checked Nothing since I'll do whatever she wants. I've licked a couple asses while going down, I figure why not? Both women just got our of washing up so they were clean and I was only one inch away already so I just moved down further for a little and came back up.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
I'm not really into the rim job idea. Neither of us really are.
09/13/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Neither of us are into rim jobs and I'm not into anal.
09/13/2011
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
tried anal several times. it doesn't happen
09/13/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
The 69 is my least favourite position and sexual activity out of that list.
I agree. Not a fan of 69ing
11/23/2011
Contributor: Girly Girl Girly Girl
some things i understand what they are for other i am just don´t understand i think i might allow a few things
11/23/2011
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Quote:
Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Rimjob.
I agree and my man does too I'm sure.
11/23/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
rimjob and handjobs. I haven't figured out how to give a good handjob yet so I try to avoid that.
01/03/2012
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Rimjob and Missionary position are the two I really hate. Missionary is uncomfortable, boring, and unrewarding. Rimjobs are too unsanitary for my tastes (Pun not intended)
01/03/2012
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by The Curious Couple
I'm actually open to all of those ideas.
Same here. My least favorite sexual activity would be involving other body fluids, since I'm not into that
01/03/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I'm not a fan of 69ing either. I'll do it from time to time, but it really does nothing for me at ALL.
01/03/2012
Contributor: BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
I've done the all, and I would have to say anal is my least desirable.
01/03/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
69 is over hyped for me
01/09/2012
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
I don't think I'd ever do the rimjob thing. It seems gross to me, even receiving it. I don't even like regular anal :/
01/09/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
I won't give a rimjob but I don't mind recieving
01/10/2012
Contributor: eeep eeep
No rimjobs for me. Neither giving or receiving, just too unsanitary for me.
01/10/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Probably a rimjob
01/13/2012
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
Cumshots = hell no.
I gave a rimjob once and we decided it was not that great. I don't like receiving them either.
69 is way overrated but I'll still do it.
Anal is okay but we've only done it twice... I would be open to more though.
01/13/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
I'm a little bit of a germaphobe (mysophobe) - so rimjobs are totally out, and anal is only on the menu after substantial cleaning and with a condom.
01/20/2012
Contributor: amie.snape amie.snape
No rimjobs.
01/20/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
No anal and no rimjobs! Thankfully, my partner feels the same. He would lick near my booty, but we wouldn't actually lick the butthole. Lol.
01/20/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
No rimjobs, just not my thing at all.
01/20/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
I don't like to give hand jobs. Unless I do it with head. I'm not to sure how to do it well and we never have lube. I just get bored and my hands get to tired. Just reminds me of high school.

Not to sure exactly what a rim job is but sounds pretty unpleasent to give. so no thanks.
02/04/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
I just can't get into a rim job. But i will do it to my guy like special occasions only.
02/08/2012
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
Anal, it always burns.
02/08/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
Other, ATM is the only thing I will not do.
02/12/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Anal isn't a favorite of mine yet.
02/13/2012
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
I'm actually quite a fan of all of those things.
02/14/2012
Contributor: Brandonn Brandonn
This entire list looks good. When do we get started checkin these off.
02/26/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
oral or intercourse
02/26/2012
Contributor: Djiffy Djiffy
Rim jobs are just not my thing. Not even with dental dams involved, which they always should be...I am not a huge fan of the idea.
02/26/2012
Contributor: richsam richsam
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
Anal
02/26/2012
Contributor: socceras socceras
my tongue where your shit comes out is not attractive. I'm female. Not happening.
03/09/2012
Contributor: socceras socceras
my tongue where your shit comes out is not attractive. I'm female. Not happening.
03/09/2012
Contributor: Double Analysis Double Analysis
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I don't typically get much joy out of receiving cunnilingus. It's so high-pressure, and all the focus is on me, and I feel self-conscious that it's hard for me to cum that way.
I don't enjoy if it's taking too long, because I feel bad at how hard it is to do lol.
Otherwise, yes please.
04/14/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
my nipples dont react to much at all so i hate when anyone tries to play with them... can you say awkward moment!
04/18/2012
Contributor: chantal coopette chantal coopette
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
The 69 is my least favourite position and sexual activity out of that list.
i love 69 but it had been a long time!
04/18/2012
Contributor: StarFire StarFire
69 is one of my faves!!! cum shots though just something about that urks me.... half the time i don't even watch the end of porn because you know its coming.. no pun intended!!
04/18/2012
Contributor: JDear JDear
I don't like a guy to come anywhere near my face unless it's in it. Anal is a close second.
04/18/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
My mouth doesn't wanna be on someone's anus so rimjobs are out for me. I don't mind having them done to me if they so wish to perform that, but I never ask for it.
04/18/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
The rimjob is probably the least appealing...
06/24/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Rimjob....
06/24/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
The 69 is my least favourite position and sexual activity out of that list.
Same here. I feel like I can't breathe and I cannot enjoy the pleasure fully!
06/24/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
Rimjobs will NEVER happen in our relationship. I mean-- No. Just NO.

Also, I hate any variation of girl-on-top. I can't feel anything in that position, and I end up having to do all the work while my husband just sits there.
06/24/2012
Contributor: animepanda89 animepanda89
Rimjobs are something I will never try.
06/30/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I really don't care for anal sex.
06/30/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
We haven't tried much of anything to do with anal, and I'm still on the fence about it. And I don't like cum in my face or hair.
06/30/2012
Contributor: legna legna
I feel really stupid right now but I have to ask cuz can't answer the poll without knowing but what is cunnilingus? I have never heard of it before.
06/30/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
Rimming just isn't sexy to me...even though I know a man who loves it.
07/10/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I don't give or recieve rimjobs, just not a fan
07/10/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
I've experienced everything on the list so I voted other. There are very few things that are on our NO list - anything involving play with blood, feces, urine, or medical instruments are all not part of our play.
07/10/2012
Contributor: MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
Quote:
Originally posted by legna
I feel really stupid right now but I have to ask cuz can't answer the poll without knowing but what is cunnilingus? I have never heard of it before.
Oral sex on a female.
07/10/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
Rim jobs are never good for your health, and anal we worry will go badly :/
07/10/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
Only if he's showered beforehand, I will not provide a rimjob.
07/11/2012
Contributor: hotcherry hotcherry
Rimjob, anal, and Cumshot
07/11/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
I don't have one
07/11/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
I have never heard the term :rim job: or cunninglus... but other then that I like all of those!
07/20/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
I refuse to share. I feel like it's intimate with my partner, and while I am very open minded, I can't see my partner being w/ someone else.
07/20/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
to be honest my bf love anal and in order to make it comfortable for me i have to be drunk because it reduces the anxiety and the pain
07/25/2012
Contributor: HotMilk HotMilk
Anal it hurt to bad and i have no idea what is Rimjob, and Cumshot sounds nasty and Cunnilingus no way
07/25/2012
Contributor: Ganconagh Ganconagh
Good with all those
07/31/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
Usually anything with anal, I like to avoid.
07/31/2012
Contributor: xcapricax xcapricax
dont like anal at all
07/31/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
I like a little ass play, but not rimming and my wife certainly isn't into it
09/07/2012
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
as a man, i actually don't enjoy giving doggy. it just isn't as visually gratifying as seeing pussy, tits, and the face of a woman in bliss.

many do not like rimjobs but my wife LOVES receiving it. gotta say, it is NEVER as dirty as any woman ever thinks it is down there.
09/11/2012
Contributor: sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
Quote:
Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Rimjob.
same
09/11/2012
Contributor: MJ7 MJ7
I voted breast play. My breasts are not very sensitive so I don't gain a lot of physical pleasure from it, and also since I am transgender I'm also uncomfortable with having too much attention paid to them..

I was close to selecting "sexual position" but couldn't think of a specific one to share. It really depends on the time, my mood, etc. Sometimes a certain position is just the last thing I want to do.
09/13/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
Anal and rimjob for definite. Just not my thing.
09/14/2012
Contributor: edenguy edenguy
69 is overrated. Too hard to concentrate on your partner.
09/14/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
Most of the time I absolutely hate having my breasts and nipples touched. Every now and again if I am aroused enough or in the right mood, it feels wonderful, but my breasts are often sore or tender as a side effect from my birth control. And the feeling I usually get from having my nipples played with is very uncomfortable and off-putting. It almost makes me feel thirsty. It's strange. I also am not a fan of being fingered. It just doesn't do much for me, and kind of hurts. My boyfriends hands are huge, and the parts of his hand that aren't inside of me press against bones and it's just not fun. His hands are rough and calloused from years of playing bass, too.
09/20/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I marked none of them. ITs all good
09/20/2012
Contributor: souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
rimjob ew.
01/13/2013
Contributor: Kirill1171 Kirill1171
Rimjob
01/16/2013
Contributor: srexom srexom
Anal / rimjob
01/16/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm not a fan of exotic positions. Otherwise we regularly engage in most of the activities listed. I will rim my wife - but will not let her do it to me.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
Least fav would be the rimjob...
01/16/2013
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
Anal and Rimjob
01/16/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
I don't typically get much joy out of receiving cunnilingus. It's so high-pressure, and all the focus is on me, and I feel self-conscious that it's hard for me to cum that way.
what is this?
01/16/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Breast stimulation. It's not stimulating for me, even though I know the guy I'm with probably loves it. So it's kind of like reverse performance pressure, I just have to sit there. It just bores me!
01/16/2013
Contributor: CaseyDeuce CaseyDeuce
Breast play and being on top don't do much for me.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
I could not handle a facial. I'm surprised though at how many people don't like breast play.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Rraine Rraine
Rimjob.
01/16/2013
Contributor: captainsgirl captainsgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
my ultimate goal would be to try everything sexual
01/18/2013
Contributor: ustwo ustwo
She votes breast play, I vote handjobs.

Wow - we're shocked at the overwhelming aversion to rimjobs. Thought that this practice was way more common. We love it. Fun to give, fun to receive. Feels great.

FYI for people with cleanliness issues, kissing and traditional oral sex are FAR dirtier than rimming a disease-free partner who's showered and keeps up with their hygiene.
01/18/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Not a fan of rimming
01/18/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
Rimjob
01/19/2013
Contributor: RedKyuubi RedKyuubi
rimjob
01/19/2013
Contributor: Nympho88 Nympho88
I voted other! I am pretty much down for everything on the list. but the one thing I would not do planking on my man :/ I would not do and he is def not into it!
01/19/2013
Contributor: happywaffle34 happywaffle34
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please mark your answer and let us know why and maybe how often you do this..because?
my least fav is fingering idk why but its really uncomfortable
01/29/2013
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
do not like fingerbanging
01/29/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
anal & rimjob .. no thanks
01/29/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Rimjob definitely not, but half the stuff we haven't tried yet haha
02/28/2013
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Anal
02/28/2013
Contributor: MK434 MK434
The whole rimjob thing isn't ever going to happen.
03/06/2013
Contributor: ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
Not sure about rimjobs...
03/06/2013
Contributor: Gleb Gleb
Anal
03/06/2013
Contributor: evie.amor evie.amor
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
The 69 is my least favourite position and sexual activity out of that list.
Agreed, it can be fun occasionally if your bodies align properly but usually it's just more trouble than its worth. Not big into the idea of rim jobs but I'd do it if my guy wanted, luckily he doesn't!
03/06/2013
Contributor: aluminummm aluminummm
Cumshots are literally the woooooooooooooooorst.
03/07/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
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155  (72%)
7  (3%)
Total votes: 215
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Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Girly here.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
female
09/04/2011
Contributor: dhig dhig
male, but accidentally voted female. oops!
09/04/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
male
09/04/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Female!
09/04/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Male.
09/04/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
100% female
09/04/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
Guy here.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
100% all woman
09/05/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
woman
01/03/2012
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
50/50. I'm an androgyne.
01/03/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Female.
01/03/2012
Contributor: BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
I would have loved to have seen the gender associated to each of your two questions!
01/03/2012
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
Trans- female to male
01/10/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I'm a lady!
01/13/2012
Contributor: amie.snape amie.snape
Female!
01/20/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
Female
02/08/2012
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
Female here.
02/08/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
all girl
04/18/2012
Contributor: chantal coopette chantal coopette
Quote:
Originally posted by chantalgiardina
all girl
woman here
04/18/2012
Contributor: StarFire StarFire
I a woman hear me ROARRRRR!!!
04/18/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
Female
06/24/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
Woman.
06/24/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
A lady.
06/30/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
I am of the female species =D
07/20/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
Female
09/14/2012
Contributor: souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
female
01/13/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
Male.
01/16/2013
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
Female
01/16/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
Female!
01/16/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Female
01/18/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
Male
01/19/2013
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Female
01/19/2013
Contributor: bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
Please do not take offense, I am only marking male, female and other.
other!
03/07/2013
Contributor: aluminummm aluminummm
other
03/07/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
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73  (35%)
11  (5%)
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29  (14%)
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Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Again the 69!
But I'd refuse to participate in any blood (cutting), vomit, scat or under age activities. I also won't have anything to do with incest!!!
09/04/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Again the 69!
But I'd refuse to participate in any blood (cutting), vomit, scat or under age activities. I also won't have anything to do with incest!!!
I'm with Shellz on these.

I also won't do a threesome. Too insecure for it.
09/04/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
There are too many of these that I refuse to do. Man, am I just a total bitch? There are no exceptions. I don't do titfucking, I don't let anyone use me as a cum dumpster (like cumming all over my body or something like that) and the only one I might make an exception to is anal, if I was curious, and I occasionally will lick and stimulate someone's dick with my mouth, but I won't go all the way with it.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i will not do rimjobs no matter what; the sanitation is just nonexistent. anal is very, very touchy with me; i say no right now (prob cause i'm single) but i think if the right guy came around, i wouldn't mind it as much. and anything Shellz says
09/04/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
Quote:
Originally posted by Illusional
I'm with Shellz on these.

I also won't do a threesome. Too insecure for it.
I agree! Im not really into that.. but then again,maybe in the far far future if our sex life gets so stale that we cant think of anything else.. but i highly doubt it
09/04/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
My only 'refusals' would be things that could cause lasting damage (like cutting or unprotected sex), things which are unethical (anything with minors, animals, corpses), and things which personally squick me out (so far, all I know about in this category would be vomit, scat, and sounding or catheterization).
09/04/2011
Contributor: Misfit Momma Misfit Momma
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Again the 69!
But I'd refuse to participate in any blood (cutting), vomit, scat or under age activities. I also won't have anything to do with incest!!!
What she said.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Again the 69!
But I'd refuse to participate in any blood (cutting), vomit, scat or under age activities. I also won't have anything to do with incest!!!
I think this sums up things that I obviously wouldn't do. However, of the ones listed, I chose rim job. Let me modify that by saying I wouldn't do a rim job without some sort of barrier protection, such as a dental dam.
09/04/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
never do same sex
09/04/2011
Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
I cannot for the life of me perform a rim job. I just can't, in my mind it's a complete turn off.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by FaerieLove
I cannot for the life of me perform a rim job. I just can't, in my mind it's a complete turn off.
Ditto
09/04/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
I refuse to engage in scat play.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
There are more than one choice for me, I refuse to do threesomes or same sex, even though threesomes' sounded like fun. I'm cool with other people enjoying those, but they're just not for me.
09/04/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I have no problems using a realistic toy but I would not have sex with another guy. Just not my thing.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
Again, bodily fluids.
09/04/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I refuse to engage in scat play.
What he said
09/04/2011
Contributor: SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
there isnt one id refuse to do
09/04/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I voted for same sex, since I'm straight and engaged.
09/04/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Again the 69!
But I'd refuse to participate in any blood (cutting), vomit, scat or under age activities. I also won't have anything to do with incest!!!
You hit the nail on the head. 69 is ok for me but the rest ... uhhh.. NO WAY.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I refuse to engage in scat play.
While I'm cool if she wants to pee on me, and I loooove anal, I too am not into scat of any form.
09/05/2011
Contributor: Silverdrop Silverdrop
I won't let him come on my face. I thought I'd like it, and in fantasy I do, but in reality - ick. But I'm also icky about Rimjobs. I just will never feel that anyone is clean enough down there.
09/05/2011
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Have never given a rimjob. Had one partner who enjoyed giving them sort of? But have never given one myself. No desire to.
09/05/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
out of that list, she will not swallow. We have not talked about having a three sum, so i did not even count that one on the list.
09/06/2011
Contributor: mmike mmike
there are a lot of other stuff that I refuse to do, but just to keep it simple I only chose the options that were specifically listed.
09/08/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
There were too many on that list I refuse to do and then some so I chose other.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Yossarian Yossarian
Watersports. Not for me.
01/03/2012
Contributor: In Between Soliloquies In Between Soliloquies
I won't have a threesome, not because I'm not into it, but for the potential awkwardness in relationships that could happen afterward. Just not sure if we're ready for that.
01/03/2012
Contributor: AndroAngel AndroAngel
Of the options listed, threesome or more. I just don't work that way, it isn't how I'm wired. I'm demisexual, and the chances of meeting another person that sparks that extremely rare sexual desire in me is extremely slim, the chances of having a threesome with them even slimmer.
01/03/2012
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucky21
Again, bodily fluids.
Same here
01/03/2012
Contributor: Daemonin Daemonin
Of the ones listed I said threesome. While we could talk about it all day, if we actually got around to doing it our jealousy would make things go sour.
01/03/2012
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
The honesty here is refreshing. There's really nothing I flat out refuse, but I'm not a big fan of receiving oral, just because it makes me self-conscious/anxious , but in the right scenario I'll agree (usually with other women).
01/03/2012
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
There are not a ton of things I'd flat out refuse to try with my partner. I won't do vomit, scat, blood or urine play. Not into humiliation play either. And I only want to be with my man, no one else - so no threesomes or so forth. So I voted no to threesomes or more.
01/03/2012
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
My absolute no is rimming. Never ever ever ever ever. I can imagine that it would feel good, but I'm grossed out enough by the idea of anal to ever allow it or do it. I'd probably be kissing my lover at some point in the future, and thinking "This mouth has been on my butt" would gross me out so much I would probably get sick.

Not knocking if that's your thing, but yeah.
01/03/2012
Contributor: BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
I know they say never say never, so I'll say I have little to no desire for a three-some, and absolutely no desire for more than 3!!
01/03/2012
Contributor: CreamySweet CreamySweet
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
I do all of these on a frequent basis... anal, as far as actual fucking, is my least favorite. I don't mind a finger or smaller toys but all the cocks I play with hurt like hell because they are on the large side of big.
01/04/2012
Contributor: ninja250 ninja250
No desire for same sex
01/09/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
Threesomes. When my partner and I first started becoming intimate, he told me he didn't mind if I were to continue having sex with other women, as long as he could be involved. The thing is, I don't share well. When I'm with someone, I'm WITH them. No other lovers.
01/11/2012
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Rimjob, sounds gross
01/13/2012
Contributor: shySEXXaddict shySEXXaddict
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
definitely wont do any rimming here!i have in the past..once..and i was really grossed out.there is alot of stuff i refuse to do though..anything extremely hardcore(choking,beati ngs,anything to cause severe pain,group orgies,and unless its cum i dont want any bodily fluids on me..lol)
01/19/2012
Contributor: MeliPixie MeliPixie
Swallow. I refuse. I gag from the taste/feel just when he shoots in my mouth, even when none of it hits my throat. I can't take it.
01/19/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I refuse anything unsanitary like ass to mouth...although rimjobs are perfectly fine as long as you're sure you're clean.
01/19/2012
Contributor: amie.snape amie.snape
No rimjobs.
01/20/2012
Contributor: sweetiejo sweetiejo
69 I will not do it i Hate it with a passion, to me it just feel so akward.
02/08/2012
Contributor: NicNat NicNat
Threesomes is a big NO-NO for me!
02/08/2012
Contributor: dbm6907 dbm6907
No threesomes!!!
02/10/2012
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I'd be willing to do almost anything if my partner wanted me to, but would really rather not venture into rimming or same sex activities (to limit my choices to those listed in the polls).
02/12/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
rimjob...no way
03/08/2012
Contributor: Double Analysis Double Analysis
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Again the 69!
But I'd refuse to participate in any blood (cutting), vomit, scat or under age activities. I also won't have anything to do with incest!!!
Oh god, I didn't even think about those, agreed. Love some 69 though!
04/14/2012
Contributor: chantalgiardina chantalgiardina
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
never done a 3 some and really dont want to... i dont share well lol
04/18/2012
Contributor: chantal coopette chantal coopette
Quote:
Originally posted by chantalgiardina
never done a 3 some and really dont want to... i dont share well lol
me either
04/18/2012
Contributor: StarFire StarFire
i have always wanted to try a threesome but have always been kinda stand offish not to mention I'am the jealous type so i don't know if it was with the right girl and it was done in a way that i felt good about i think i would love it!!!!
04/18/2012
Contributor: Ly-Ra Ly-Ra
No threesomes, and no rimjobs. That's just a little too much for me.
04/23/2012
Contributor: Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
No rimjob. I don't like the idea of anal, but I'm open to suggestion.
06/24/2012
Contributor: Deeder Deeder
Rimjob. I love my husband, but not that much!
06/24/2012
Contributor: Lilith Bealove Lilith Bealove
Out of the options? 3some. We've tried it and I liked it, but those days are over for me.
06/30/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
No Anal here! My fiance wants to do it so bad and every now and then I let him but it is a very rare occasion!
06/30/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
no rimjobs, It's just not appealing, or particularly sanitary...
07/10/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
I refusse to: Let another woman into our relationship.


Not that he wants to, but if he did, that is something I wouldn't be open to at this time.
07/20/2012
Contributor: pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I am a genderqueer who doesn't do anything anal ever! It is one of my hard limits
07/20/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
I can't really perform anal without help so no way am I rimming.
07/31/2012
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
I refuse to engage in scat play.
word to that!
09/11/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
I marked rimjob because that's the biggest one but same sex, anal and swallow are out as well!
09/14/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
Rimjob will probably never happen.
09/14/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
I put finger bang as my least favourite as my husband does a lot of manual labour so he has really rough hands, that can sometimes be a little too rough for my delicate pussy. I put shallow as something I would never do, simply because I prefer to have my husband come inside me.
09/20/2012
Contributor: Alyxx Alyxx
There's not much I wouldn't at least try once, other than scat. Or vomit.
09/20/2012
Contributor: Fluffy Snuggles Fluffy Snuggles
I just don't think we could feel comfortable and at ease in a threesome, especially if our third were a friend.
01/13/2013
Contributor: souviet souviet
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
threesome...
01/13/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I'm pretty much open to anything, at least once so I answered for my wife. Anal is completely out for her...a very hard no! She will not rimjob either. We have discussed threesomes, both ffm and fmf and two things came from that conversation...she will not engage in sexual activity with another woman, and while the idea of another man joining us in the bed is interesting and one of her fantasies, we decided its best to leave it as a fantasy.
01/16/2013
Contributor: srexom srexom
Rimjob
01/16/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
No 3-somes for us.
01/16/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
No same sex stuff.
01/16/2013
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
Rimjob
01/16/2013
Contributor: Marie Hanna Marie Hanna
rim job.
01/16/2013
Contributor: kdlt kdlt
Really not into rim jobs!
01/16/2013
Contributor: FlashFuchsia FlashFuchsia
No pee, no poop, no pain, no humiliation.

Those are my four no-nos
01/16/2013
Contributor: ustwo ustwo
Same sex - now way.
01/18/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
Rim job on him I love my husband but no thanks I will pass
01/18/2013
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
I would never do anything like scat or cutting
01/18/2013
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Again the 69!
But I'd refuse to participate in any blood (cutting), vomit, scat or under age activities. I also won't have anything to do with incest!!!
Ditto, except for the 69 part.
01/19/2013
Contributor: Herzer Herzer
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
I know the list is short, but please explain if marking 'other'.
There isn't really anything on the list I wouldn't be up for as long as it turned on my wife.
03/06/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
Glad I haven't been asked to do anything too extrem....yet lol
03/06/2013
Contributor: aluminummm aluminummm
I refuse to fuck boys anymore.
03/07/2013