The New Intimacy

RIGHT OR LEFT for both woman and men..and NO, again, I am NOT talking POLITICS..ha, ha.

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
If someone stood at the FOOT of your bed and watched the two of you asleep, which side do YOU take, ladies? Guys? Do you always sleep on the same side of the bed or change it up??? WHY do you sleep on the side you DO sleep on...if it is an "always" thing?
06/10/2011
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Contributor: Kissaki Kissaki
We have our own sides to the bed. She chose the left side because it is closer to the tv. I, by default, get the other side.
06/10/2011
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
I sleep on the right and she sleeps on the left, though it used to be the other way around.
06/10/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
I've always slept on the left - he gets the side by the window
06/10/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I don't know yet... I always picture cuddling up to my guy's right side, though. I can't picture the left. But I also generally sleep facing right, so it would probably be more natural for me to sleep to the left of him (so I'm facing him)... One more thing to make me worry about his visit
06/11/2011
Contributor: Ajax Ajax
We only have sides in the summer. In the summer the boyfriend takes the right side because it's closer to the window. He needs the breeze to cool him off while he sleeps or else I wake up in a pool of his sweat on the bed which is SO unpleasant. Sometimes it's so bad I have to ditch the bed and sleep on the couch. Bleh.
06/11/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
I'm a woman and I sleep on the left. We have always slept this way. Sometimes we sleep on the other side, one of us is on the wrong side and too tired to move.
06/11/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
For some reason, I'm not understanding the whole someone standing at the foot of the bed watching part? I sleep on the outside, but what's the deal with someone watching? Creepy! lol
06/11/2011
Contributor: ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
Left side for me. The other side of the bed is against the wall, so I sleep on the edge since I don't move around a lot and sleep pretty compactly.
06/11/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
I sleep on the left side.
06/11/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
left, it is closest to the alarm clock. I am the first one to get up for work.
06/11/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
No preference.
06/11/2011
Contributor: VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
I sleep on the left in his bed, but on the right in mine when he's not with me. I sleep on the left in his bed because it's more comfortable for me. The right side of my bed when I'm alone is closest to my nightstand where I keep my phone and laptop.
06/11/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
I sleep on the right normally but we don't have a preference and it seems to change through the years
06/11/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I sleep on whichever side isn't facing the wall. It varies since we have two beds.
06/11/2011
Contributor: ID42 ID42
Before I was with my husband I slept in the middle of my own bed sprawled out. (my daddy used to tell me as a kid that I looked like some sort of road kill victim when I slept. he's odd like that.) After moving in with the hubby though, he has had me on the left side of the bed for the most part. It's funny I saw this post today... here recently, he's been flopping on my side of the bed and declaring it his side of the bed. He did it while I was typing this.
06/11/2011
Contributor: null null
I sleep on the side with the wall. Apparently one night I rolled completely off the lofted bed, smacked against the sink and didn't wake up during the whole ordeal. Since then we've kept me safely sandwiched between him and the wall.
06/11/2011
Contributor: CAKES CAKES
I always sleep on the right side. I usually lay on my right side, and that way I can face him to cuddle.
06/11/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I don't care which side it is, but I prefer sleeping next to the wall.
06/12/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
Quote:
Originally posted by K101
For some reason, I'm not understanding the whole someone standing at the foot of the bed watching part? I sleep on the outside, but what's the deal with someone watching? Creepy! lol
It's a reference to the perspective from which we're using "right" and "left". You sleeping on the right could be from the perspective at the foot of the bed, or at the head of the bed; two very different rights.

...I probably made that sound more confusing...

What is sleeping on the outside...?
06/12/2011
Contributor: big b big b
on the left
06/12/2011
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
If someone stood at the FOOT of your bed and watched the two of you asleep, which side do YOU take, ladies? Guys? Do you always sleep on the same side of the bed or change it up??? WHY do you sleep on the side you DO sleep on...if it is an ... more
I usually sleep on the side near the door as I generally am the last one to go to bed.
06/12/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
If someone stood at the FOOT of your bed and watched the two of you asleep, which side do YOU take, ladies? Guys? Do you always sleep on the same side of the bed or change it up??? WHY do you sleep on the side you DO sleep on...if it is an ... more
To a person looking at us from the foot of our bed, he/she would see my wife on the left and me on the right. Don't know why, just the way we set it up 24 years ago when we married.
06/12/2011