Scheduled Sex - Hot or Not?

Scheduled Sex - Hot or Not?

Lena Eden Lena Eden
A recent study by EdenFantasys showed that over 50% of Americans are actually scheduling time for sex each week.

I can confess that me and my BF can’t have sex every time we want. Busy with work and home routine, sometimes I prefer picking a vibe and having a quick fun “on the go”(especially in the morning before work). And, although we don’t make a precise schedule (like ‘let’s do it after the Netflix series’, hehe), we really love doing it on Saturday mornings, as there’s no fuss and no one can disturb us.

Do you also have trouble finding the time for sex every time you want it? Are you also the ones who like teasing each other with a remote vibe or going outside with a butt plug?


Guys, if you can manage to keep it spontaneous how do you actually do it?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Gunsmoke , Jexca17 , Mistress Lizzie , Mrs.R , hiseden2253 , Soundside46 , Trysexual
7  (58%)
Gypsie Angel , Lena Eden , Orgasms & Pearls , SoloRebel , FleurDevereux
5  (42%)
Total votes: 12
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Mar 6, 10:58 am
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's been a process for us. "Waiting for the right moment" wasn't working well - but when the kids were at home, that's how it was.

Then it got to be weekends were 'prime time' - but again that was not enough for me. So now I use sexting to tease her and try to set up 1 or 2 midweek encounters. No set days - but there is an expectation of something happening mid-week.

It's not like making a doctor's appointment - but it's not left to chance either...
Mar 6, 1:05 pm
Gypsie Angel Gypsie Angel
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A recent study by EdenFantasys showed that over 50% of Americans are actually scheduling time for sex each week.

I can confess that me and my BF can’t have sex every time we want. Busy with work and home routine, sometimes I prefer picking a ...
I can handle a planned day and be spontaneous from there. But to plan it down to time is not for me. It totally ruins the mood in my opinion. Its hard having kiddos not to plan so I understand and have been planning for a number of years now, but it's a loose plan rather than a definite plan.
Mar 8, 9:50 pm
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Our " planned " days. Are Thur, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Takes a lot to satisfy her. Although we don't always get to it, better to have a good range of days. I work late into the evenings and sometimes too tired and had dinner too late.

Unplanned also happens. I have permission to enter her if have a boner in the middle of the night ( actually early mornings ) . She knows I'll be harder, bigger and last a lot longer
Like this morning at 2:30 am. Boy, did I ever ... let's just say Miss Insatiable was satisfied

Out with remote vibe and anal plugs in public? I wonder which of the community you were thinking of when you wrote that

Lena, spill the beans. Do the two of you do this often
Mar 9, 12:52 pm
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Our " planned " days. Are Thur, Friday, Saturday and Sunday. Takes a lot to satisfy her. Although we don't always get to it, better to have a good range of days. I work late into the evenings and sometimes too tired and had dinner too ...
Yes, we do

I've started wearing my remote vibrating panty quite often these days. I hope none of my friends read this thread as I usually have the panties on when we're all hanging out in a restaurant or a bar. it's quite exciting to have a small secret only for two of us.

P.S. No plugs yet. Maybe in the nearest future
Mar 14, 7:31 am
Orgasms & Pearls Orgasms & Pearls
I guess my husband & I would kinda be both. We have three kids & two of them sleep in our room, plus he works out of town so he’s only home one or two weekends out of the month.

Sometimes it’s okay we’re gonna do it when you get home after the kids are asleep, other times it’s okay we have a minute to ourself, let’s do it.
Mar 14, 10:42 am
hiseden2253 hiseden2253
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
A recent study by EdenFantasys showed that over 50% of Americans are actually scheduling time for sex each week.

I can confess that me and my BF can’t have sex every time we want. Busy with work and home routine, sometimes I prefer picking a ...
There should be a "both" option. Spontaneity is nice, but sometimes you have to cater to your busy schedule in order to squeeze in an orgasm or two
Mar 22, 12:58 am
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