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Sex and toys...when do you introduce them?

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Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
So we are on a sextoy selling website so it is safe to say most ladies on here use toys in the bedroom. This question is for the ladies. How many times will you have sex with a new partner before you bring toys into the mix? How does your partner typically react when you do?(answer in comments)
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
If I can, I'll use one the first time with a new partner
2  (50%)
The second time
1  (25%)
3rd - 4th time
1  (25%)
5th - 6th time
7th - 10th time
i wait till more than 10 times
Total votes: 4
Poll is closed
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Contributor: Silverwinds Silverwinds
I don't want to scare the guy, so I'll wait a little bit before I try that.
04/15/2013
Contributor: Mwar Mwar
Not sure. We discovered toys together, so I don't know yet.
04/15/2013
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
i'm a lesbian and while I've always had sex without toys more than with them, it's a foregone conclusion that toys will at least eventually make an appearance in lesbian sex. But i tend to bring them up very early on. i will usually at least bring them up as a possibility before the second time. Someone who is completely opposed to toys will definitely be a deal breaker so it's important to get that out of the way early on.
04/15/2013
Contributor: SourAppleMartini SourAppleMartini
I would say a while. I do quite enjoy sex without any toys.
04/16/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
If possible I usually give my partner the option to bring toys into play right from the start.
04/16/2013