What would you tell your best friend if she asked you the very same question about her relationship?

I, personally, would mention it and see how it goes. Not asking for what you want and not getting what you want can lead to resentment and ultimately a breakup. If you think the guy is worth the honesty then set the mood and see if you can't pull him out of his conservative shell.

Striking up the conversation immediately after sex could work in your favor, as people tend to me a little more open-minded and relaxed in those first few minutes. Start with saying something like "that was pretty awesome, I think my favorite part was when you _________, have you ever thought about doing __________?" From there, you'll just kind of have to feel your way through. Good luck! less

Thanks....I actually stray away from talking to my friends about sex because we are all so different and it always leads to name calling!

I'm sure he won't spaz on me or anything....we will find out. I never thought about bringing it up right after....good thinking!!!! less

Thanks....I actually stray away from talking to my friends about sex because we are all so different and it always leads to name calling!

I'm sure he won't spaz on me or anything....we will find out. I never thought about bringing it up right after....good thinking!!!! less

I've been dating a guy for about three months now. He's totally wonderful in bed, but he's more....conservative than I am. He's a gentle being, while me, well I like to take things to more intense level. I don't want him to think that I don't LOVE our sex life, but I don't know how to mention that I like it a little harder.

He knows I like it a little rough, after drinking a lot he seems to like it too....but what do I do? Do I just suck it up and let it be???? less

What would you tell your best friend if she asked you the very same question about her relationship?

I, personally, would mention it and see how it goes. Not asking for what you want and not getting what you want can lead to resentment and ultimately a breakup. If you think the guy is worth the honesty then set the mood and see if you can't pull him out of his conservative shell.

Striking up the conversation immediately after sex could work in your favor, as people tend to me a little more open-minded and relaxed in those first few minutes. Start with saying something like "that was pretty awesome, I think my favorite part was when you _________, have you ever thought about doing __________?" From there, you'll just kind of have to feel your way through. Good luck! less