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Showering: Before or after sex?

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Contributor: Doll In Dungarees Doll In Dungarees
It seems a lot of people, prefer to be squeaky clean before getting down to business. Personally, I don't understand showering before sex when you're just going to get all sweaty. I'd rather wait and shower afterwards--preferably , together. Gotta save water.

So, do you shower:
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Before
22
After
18
Both
36
Neither
3
Other
20
Total votes: 99 (86 voters)
Poll is closed
06/25/2012
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Contributor: EvilHomer EvilHomer
Depends on what is going to happen.
06/25/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
usually it is before sex at night, but if we have sex in the morning, I shower after.
06/25/2012
Contributor: G&L G&L
Usually both before and after. We find we are more relaxed after a shower and then you always have to clean up.
06/25/2012
Contributor: TransMarc TransMarc
Usually before. Depending on whether we used "ew" inducing products, after.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
I like being clean!
06/25/2012
Contributor: wdanas wdanas
Often, wandering around getting dressed after a shower will be enough to get things started, so for that I suppose "before" is the proper response.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
We shower before and after sex.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We're not clean freaks - but if I've been golfing or hiking, I'll shower before sex. If she's had a long day at work, she'll run a warm tub to rinse off her lady bits.
06/26/2012
Contributor: meitman meitman
I sweat too often throughout a work day and we usually have sex at night so I would rather be clean if she's going to have her mouth all over me. It doesn't really bother me if she's showered or not for some reason, but I'd rather be clean.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Apirka Apirka
I've only showered once before, but that was because it was summer time and extremely hot and I was covered in stinky sweat. Most of the time, it depends on what time of day the deed is done. At night or bedtime, I don't shower after and wait till morning. If in the morning, I'll shower afterward as I would any other morning if I hadn't had sex.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
beforehand, like to be squeaky clean and same goes for my partner
06/26/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by Doll In Dungarees
It seems a lot of people, prefer to be squeaky clean before getting down to business. Personally, I don't understand showering before sex when you're just going to get all sweaty. I'd rather wait and shower afterwards--preferably , ... more
I just shower whenever I want to. Usually I shower before bed because I don't like going to bed dirty, but I never make a point to shower before sex. I of course wouldn't have sex if for some reason I had not showered that day, but there's nothing I do that makes me so dirty I need to shower right before sex. I take care of myself and make sure I'm clean. Now if I've sweated a great deal, I may want to wash up, but usually I don't stink. I'll go to the tanning bed and sweat puddles onto the bed and stilll not shower before sex. LOL. I do check to be sure I don't smell though.

Now I do like to shower after sex. Ours can be messy. Things tend to run out so I do shower pretty quickly after sex. I mostly just like going to bed nice and clean.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Annemarie Annemarie
My significant other likes me clean, so I'll shower beforehand. I prefer to shower afterwards as well, but if we're going to bed, I won't.
06/26/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
It depends. If I've showered that morning, I don't usually do it. My man says he prefers it when I don't shower right beforehand.
06/26/2012
Contributor: Life's Little Secrets Life's Little Secrets
It just depends on if it's spontaneous and the activities planned for that session.
06/26/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
Depends on the situation.
06/26/2012
Contributor: ghent529 ghent529
depends on whats going on
06/26/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by Doll In Dungarees
It seems a lot of people, prefer to be squeaky clean before getting down to business. Personally, I don't understand showering before sex when you're just going to get all sweaty. I'd rather wait and shower afterwards--preferably , ... more
Usually after.
06/26/2012
Contributor: jfuz jfuz
Both
07/25/2012
Contributor: EdenUser EdenUser
Quote:
Originally posted by Doll In Dungarees
It seems a lot of people, prefer to be squeaky clean before getting down to business. Personally, I don't understand showering before sex when you're just going to get all sweaty. I'd rather wait and shower afterwards--preferably , ... more
After.
07/25/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
both
07/26/2012
Contributor: cgerling06 cgerling06
both... but also during... lol... taking a shower together and doing it.
07/26/2012
Contributor: Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
I'll only shower before sex if I've been working out in the pasture or something where I'm really dirty. I'll shower afterwards if I will be leaving the house, but if I'm just going to be hanging out with my sweetie or sleeping, I don't bother. I'll shower in the morning.
07/26/2012
Contributor: gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by Doll In Dungarees
It seems a lot of people, prefer to be squeaky clean before getting down to business. Personally, I don't understand showering before sex when you're just going to get all sweaty. I'd rather wait and shower afterwards--preferably , ... more
Both would be best, honestly.
07/26/2012
Contributor: chelly411 chelly411
I usually just pee before and after. I don't really care about showering before and after. I know I have good hygiene so I don't need to worry about anything.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
After sex
07/28/2012
Contributor: AbbyLover AbbyLover
for anal before and after for regular just after
07/29/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Doll In Dungarees
It seems a lot of people, prefer to be squeaky clean before getting down to business. Personally, I don't understand showering before sex when you're just going to get all sweaty. I'd rather wait and shower afterwards--preferably , ... more
Both, but I am OCD about showering anyway.
07/30/2012