Top Reason For Bailed Sex?

Top Reason For Bailed Sex?

Bethy Cassatt Bethy Cassatt
When you think you're gettin' together that evening, and it all falls through, what's the top reason?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Headache
5
Stomach Acid Attack
4
Bad Back
2
Homework/Work
8
Emergency (Medical)
1
Sudden Dinner Plans
Not in the Mood
10
Suddenly Angry at You/at Something
Other
18
Total votes: 48 (36 voters)
Poll is closed
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Alyxx Alyxx
For us it's usually just getting busy doing other things and staying up so late we're too tired to bother. Or one of us starts feeling bad.
10/18/2012
funluvinmama funluvinmama
Hubby falling asleep. He drives truck, so he doesn't sleep well during the week.
10/18/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
Never bailed. Never had a chance to do it
10/18/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife bailed tonight - the ubiquitous headache.
10/18/2012
Huff Huff
Sometimes, no matter how much you both want it, busy lives just seem to get in the way.
10/18/2012
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
Our work schedules are completely different. We barely get to see each other most days. Some days I don't see him at all.
10/18/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Usually it's fatigue since my husband works 2 jobs and I'm tired all the time anyway.
10/18/2012
indiglo indiglo
It doesn't happen to us very often, but when it does it's usually someone not feeling good or too exhausted. We don't cancel for headaches though, it has to be something more major - kidney stone, shingles, fever, major stomach issues, etc. (For minor stuff like headaches, I find sex is generally very helpful and a good pain reducer!)

Occasionally plans with friends will pop up on our scheduled date night, and when that happens we just reschedule our date night for a different night. It works well for us, and it helps to make each other a priority.
10/18/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
it's either "I don't feel well" or "I'm not in the mood" I on the other hand have never bailed
10/18/2012
Ansley Ansley
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife bailed tonight - the ubiquitous headache.
Sex cures headaches.
10/18/2012
Ansley Ansley
Usually it's because we've exhausted ourselves at work and are just so tired that we end up falling asleep as soon as we hit the pillows. It can be frustrating at times because I need those moments to feel connected.
10/18/2012
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
When you think you're gettin' together that evening, and it all falls through, what's the top reason?
Usually it's because of life interruptions going on like an emergency with our kids or a medical issue.
10/18/2012
Trysexual Trysexual
I had to read this to see what "bailed sex" was. I rarely say no, but would have to be really sick or extremely tired/upset to not have it.
10/18/2012
skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Migraines, not headaches. Or I'm just too exhausted.
10/18/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Mulder's estranged wife was on her way over with their child, and called him to say "TAKE THE KID OR I WILL KILL HIM!" ... and that pretty much allowed Mulder to bail on our FWB arrangement altogether (he was looking for an excuse, anyway).

Although I think the most insulting I've had was while I was married ... he blamed me for killing his (already non-existent) libido.

Otherwise, there's never been bailing.
10/18/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
When you think you're gettin' together that evening, and it all falls through, what's the top reason?
mostly tireness
10/18/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
Too tired!
10/18/2012
Beck Beck
I only bail if I had an "upset stomach" or if I am having vaginal pain due to small tears or cramping.
10/18/2012
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm not usually the one that bails. My husband has issues with being tired a lot and that's usually the reason for it.
10/18/2012
Alyona Alyona
Not in the Mood
10/18/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by Bethy Cassatt
When you think you're gettin' together that evening, and it all falls through, what's the top reason?
Usually too tired, or I get a stomach ache
10/27/2012
libra777 libra777
Too Tired.
10/28/2012
Total posts: 23
Unique posters: 22