I'm really bad at talking. Even normal, nonsexy time talking. Ask me a question, I'll freeze like a deer in headlights. ("Where do you want to go eat?" "Uhhhhhh.....")
Anyways, my main issue I'm asking about is two-fold:
Being able to tell someone what I would like them to do
Showing that I enjoy what their doing
My guy is very vocal. When he asks me a question, I attempt to answer - but while I shout in my head, my body seizes up and refuses to answer. He's starting to get discouraged, because it gets awkward enough that I've never been able to finish when we are fooling around. And don't get me wrong, he's GREAT.
I want to just bring up what I want with him, because it takes some of the pressure off me having to think of a response right away. But for the life of me, I don't know how to bring it up.
(Side note: I involuntarily let out an "Oh God!" once and I got back a "God's not going to help you" in return. I'm still not sure if I'm supposed to be turned on or frightened. lol)
Anyways, my main issue I'm asking about is two-fold:
Being able to tell someone what I would like them to do
Showing that I enjoy what their doing
My guy is very vocal. When he asks me a question, I attempt to answer - but while I shout in my head, my body seizes up and refuses to answer. He's starting to get discouraged, because it gets awkward enough that I've never been able to finish when we are fooling around. And don't get me wrong, he's GREAT.
I want to just bring up what I want with him, because it takes some of the pressure off me having to think of a response right away. But for the life of me, I don't know how to bring it up.
(Side note: I involuntarily let out an "Oh God!" once and I got back a "God's not going to help you" in return. I'm still not sure if I'm supposed to be turned on or frightened. lol)
