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What do YOU call someone you're having casual sex with?

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Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
Someone you're not in a romantic relationship with and probably aren't sexually exclusive with, but you have sex on the regular.

Some people call them friends with benefits, fuck buddies, etc. What do YOU call them?
10/30/2013
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I call people who participate in that type of hookup fuck buddies, because that's the only thing they do. I don't engage in casual sex and I do not support that kind of act.
10/30/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by Lucifer the Cat
Someone you're not in a romantic relationship with and probably aren't sexually exclusive with, but you have sex on the regular.

Some people call them friends with benefits, fuck buddies, etc. What do YOU call them?
I would call them fuck buddies, unless they are also real friends, then we have the friends with benefits label. But, I can't say what I personally call it because I haven't done it. I began to dip my toes in those waters by watching someone on webcam, but I thought we were friends. I was grossly off the mark on both the friends aspect, as well as the fact that I could handle doing something like that. I ultimately couldn't do it and stopped it which is when I discovered for sure there was no friendship either, not really. And this wasn't even in person and I got hurt, so definitely this is out of my comfort zone, lol! I guess it's up to your personality whether this is something you can do. And as long as you're fine with it, then more power to you, so call it whatever you like. I would be interested in what other names people have for it.
10/30/2013
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I would call them fuck buddies, unless they are also real friends, then we have the friends with benefits label. But, I can't say what I personally call it because I haven't done it. I began to dip my toes in those waters by watching someone ... more
My mom says "special friend". Gross, mom!
10/30/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
Coitus companion. Kidding, friends with benefits or fuck buddy is all I've ever heard so that's what I label them as. Though admittedly I've never had one.
10/30/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
Friends with benefits.
10/31/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
My hookup!
10/31/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucifer the Cat
My mom says "special friend". Gross, mom!
I agree, that's kinda gross, LOL!

@ CinnamonDreams, "coitus companion" is really funny and actually pretty good!

I just thought of something...I call the very lucky, LOL!
10/31/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
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Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I agree, that's kinda gross, LOL!

@ CinnamonDreams, "coitus companion" is really funny and actually pretty good!

I just thought of something...I call the very lucky, LOL!
lulz, one does have to be rather lucky to have a friends-with-benefits in the first place!
10/31/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by CinnamonNights
lulz, one does have to be rather lucky to have a friends-with-benefits in the first place!
I meant that they are lucky to be doing it with me, lol! What do you call someone you're having casual sex with : Lucky, bahahahaha!
10/31/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I meant that they are lucky to be doing it with me, lol! What do you call someone you're having casual sex with : Lucky, bahahahaha!
I would make a reply joke but given my performance today they'd prolly all be puns x3
10/31/2013
Contributor: Ziva Ziva
Quote:
Originally posted by CinnamonNights
Coitus companion. Kidding, friends with benefits or fuck buddy is all I've ever heard so that's what I label them as. Though admittedly I've never had one.
I will begin calling them Coitus Companion. Thank you. I had been calling them friends with benefits. I now understand that it was a boring title.
10/31/2013
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
Quote:
Originally posted by Wicked Wahine
I meant that they are lucky to be doing it with me, lol! What do you call someone you're having casual sex with : Lucky, bahahahaha!
haha, love it!
11/01/2013
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Secretary, neighbor, sister-in-law?
11/01/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by dv8
Secretary, neighbor, sister-in-law?
Sister-in-law? ...that's twisted.
11/01/2013
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Yea, sister in law is unique.
11/01/2013
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
Secretary, neighbor, sister-in-law?
These all give me an icky feeling
11/02/2013
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Sister-in-law? ...that's twisted.
yeah....
11/02/2013
Contributor: Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucifer the Cat
yeah....
I think dv8 was kidding? At least that's how I took it and laughed. But then, with no emoticon after the comment, it's hard to know. I know sometimes dv8 is funny/snarky, so I gave him the benefit of the doubt on this.
11/02/2013
Contributor: dv8 dv8
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Sister-in-law? ...that's twisted.
That was a joke. Twisted would be mother-in-law.
11/02/2013
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
That was a joke. Twisted would be mother-in-law.
I know!
11/02/2013
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
well, I've been doing this recently. and from what I understand what FBs & FWB are, I'd say we're somewhere in between. crazy situation for me.
11/06/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
I have used the term fuck buddies a few times in the past but I actually prefer to just refer to them as a sexual partner or partner.
11/07/2013
Contributor: friendswithfangs friendswithfangs
i think the term fuck buddy is really cute. or fuck friend, haha.
11/17/2013
Contributor: Ckflicks Ckflicks
My wife and I openly talk about our sexual encounters with others. My wife calls the person she fucks as fubby or sometimes SOB as in son of a bitch . I call them Stepwife , lol
01/18/2014
Contributor: RebelSentry RebelSentry
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucifer the Cat
Someone you're not in a romantic relationship with and probably aren't sexually exclusive with, but you have sex on the regular.

Some people call them friends with benefits, fuck buddies, etc. What do YOU call them?
LMAO My mom said "Lucky" I say "Good/special Friends"
01/18/2014
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
Fuck buddies or friends with benefits, depending on the relationship dynamic before and during.
01/18/2014
Contributor: charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
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Originally posted by RebelSentry
LMAO My mom said "Lucky" I say "Good/special Friends"
I like "lucky"....
01/18/2014
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
For one semester in college, my hubby had a "friend with benefits" who was only in that state for that semester. No relationship was wanted or practical, but they did "click". They called each other their "Cuddle Buddies". He still laughs about the fact that she never, ever said "she" wanted him in a sexual way. She was very explicit in her requests. She would have lunch with him almost daily (they were in the same Chemistry and Biology classes) and she would say "my pussy needs your attention tonight", or "my ass wants a visit from your cock this afternoon after Chem class". He had no problems with her requests. Interestingly, it was she who always "asked" for attention (about every day). He just "went along for the great ride". Once, on a Friday, he made up an excuse for his parents (he still lived at home) and went to her apartment for the night. They had "very hot sex" and at about 3 AM she woke up to go to the bathroom, and shook him awake, saying "please go home now, but can you please come back about 9 AM tomorrow for a quick fuck session"? He did...and he did. Interesting.
01/19/2014
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Ckflicks
My wife and I openly talk about our sexual encounters with others. My wife calls the person she fucks as fubby or sometimes SOB as in son of a bitch . I call them Stepwife , lol
Sounds complicated.
01/19/2014