Woken up from partner's sexual touch?

He tries to wake me up like that all of the time and it pisses me off to no end. I don't know why it does, but it does. We're working on it.

He actually did this last night. He had to stay up until after midnight, to watch both the Bulls and the Hawks games. They are both in the playoffs (the Bulls are going on, the Hawks lost last night and are out.) So, he's up until after midnight, and until about 11:30, I keep going downstairs, sitting on him, asking him when he's coming to bed. He's absently petting me, "Yeah, after the score." *sigh* So, I think "Fuck it. I'm going to sleep." I'm asleep, he comes to bed and he starts humping me, so I think, " OK, it is late, but we'll get into it." THEN he falls asleep on top of me. WTF? It was about 1:00 AM then.



He couldn't wake up for work, but did make it out of the house about an hour after he usually does. I haven't gotten laid yet, though.



So romantic...

I'd love it.. but I'm too much of a light sleeper for that

I would love to wake up like that.

Alrighty, lol, this did happen one time:

I slept over at Synthetik's house one night and I was *really really* tired and was out like a light, practically dead to the world. I started dreaming that Synthetik was playing with me and fucking me (and I know it was a dream because it was on some sort of platform in a sky that was dark, purple and stormy, with a big, spiraling staircase as a way to get back to the ground. Yes, I have weird dreams, I know, lol). It was a really really good dream and then I woke up right in the middle of it all when "Real-Life" Synthetik asked me to pass him the lube, which was on a shelf above my head.

We finished and while we were cuddling, I told him that I had woken up about halfway through it all, lol. I was kind of sad that I didn't wake up sooner, and that my tiredness was the cause and all. He told me that he was half asleep when he started, though I guess that he woke up alot earlier than I did, because he also said that for some reason I wouldn't open my legs and he practically had to force them apart, lol (not that I mind that sort of thing at all )

(Sleeping-Like-The-Dea d) Zombie Sex for the win! Lol.

Personally, I could never think of all that as Sexual Assault/Rape (but that's just me), and while I do find the notion of Sleep-Sex with a Significant Other as Sexual Assault a wee bit mind-boggling from my perspective, I don't know the situations of the women who want to press charges against their Significant Others for it. So, in all honesty, I can't really judge them.

While I found the Sleep-Sex to be harmless and completely fine, it's possible that there are women (and men too) who are uncomfortable with it somehow. Or maybe it's a sort of "limit" I guess, and they feel that they can't really consent to it while not awake. So, as I said, I can't rightfully judge them.

But I know that I could never see something that Synthetik does to me (even Sleep-Sex) as being Sexual Assault, seeing as he'd never go beyond our limits, and the things that we do, I love with every bit of me.

I only wish that I had woke up earlier, so that I could enjoy it even moreso, lol.

I'm curious to see if my guy tries this on his visit. It's gonna be the first time we spend the night together (my first time doing it period), so I honestly don't know what could happen.

One time, I got on the computer and he was logged in but had just fallen asleep with the computer on, so I sent him a goodnight and ended up falling asleep with MY computer open as well. When I woke up I saw a message from about the time he goes to work saying that he was kinda horny over the fact that I was online but asleep. So fingers crossed that that's a sign he'd be interested!

I can see how some people could find it wrong, but I'd only consider it seriously wrong in a healthy relationship if they already told their partner that they were that against it.

Personally, though, I am all for the idea. I guess I can picture myself getting irritated if I was getting minimal sleep already?

It's happenned sometimes it gets me in the mood, other times I'm in zombie mode so it doesn't work.

There was this one night where my guy was asleep but he was fondling me like crazy. In the morning he only vaguely remembered having touched my sexy parts. It was funny, I teased him about it, saying he must have been having quite a good dream.

It's happenned sometimes it gets me in the mood, other times I'm in zombie mode so it doesn't work.

There was this one night where my guy was asleep but he was fondling me like crazy. In the morning he only vaguely remembered having touched my sexy parts. It was funny, I teased him about it, saying he must have been having quite a good dream.

I'll tug on her hair...

I'm crabby when I wake up and don't really like to be touched, especially on sensitive areas. Though my bf hasn't tried it (I think he knows better at this point - even being brushed lightly on the face when I'm asleep wakes me instantly and sets me to growling) I can imagine that an attempt probably wouldn't end in sexiness. I'm much more open to sexy suggestion when I've been awake at least a couple minutes.

I have had it happen, but he's really weird about doing anything too sexual while I'm asleep because of a past "experience" I had. It was not with a partner though, it was a rapist. That sounds extreme, but he's always afraid of bringing things from that past experience back which after 4 years, it doesn't get to me like it did.

I wouldn't like it if he was having sex with me while I was asleep though for that reason, but he has massaged my booty and back and I loved it when I woke up.

sep for being in the mood part that happend to me before. it was in the middle of the night i told him stop and moved his hand. The funnny part was i told him the next day and he had no clue he did that! Haha He was sleep sexing me xD

My husband is wants to wake up with me giving him oral. Not ever likely to happen as I am the least horniness in the morning. But it's his saturday "ritual" to wake up by touching, kissing, going down on me. I usually will wake up to him on top of me. He told me there was one time I never woke up. And as much as that creeped him out he still likes to try waking me up with sex.

It's just better all around if my partner waits until I'm awake. Or at least wakes me up sweetly, without any sexual touch. My partner would likely trigger an anxiety attack.

It hasn't happened to me, but I have done it myself. I have never been turned down, but I have been told that they wished I had waited an hour or so before I started so they could get just a little more sleep! LOL

He wakes me up all the time with his dick in my mouth. Or just by rubbing me all over. I love it so, so much.

Other times when I get up first, I like to wake him up by going down on him, but he usually wakes up right as I'm moving under the blankets about to do it

A definite fantasy that I hope comes true in the near future. Most likely, I will wake her up this way first, but we both enjoy her taking me in her mouth and bringing me from flacid to totally erect...it is incredibly hot!

I've woken him up while doing things to him. He loves it.

good way to wake up

Yes, it's wonderful, I wish it would happen more often

Most of the time 99% I love when he does that,I am not sure why maybe it is because he uses more finesse as to not wake me but whatever the reason It seems a bit more passionate than raw sex like we usually have (and I love that too )

Yeah, she was stroking me. It was hot.

apparently I was masturbating in my sleep and she decided to join