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Women's opinion about males who masturbate

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Contributor: Eugler Eugler
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I would like to know what do you think about men who masturbate. Would it turn you on seeing your partner enjoying himself / clattering off?
06/06/2013
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Contributor: Madsinner Madsinner
Absolutely, masturbation is totally natural and mutual masturbation can be really hot. I honestly would be more disturbed by a partner that didn't masturbate at all. I don't see it as cheating. The only thing I ask is that my man is fine with my masturbating whenever I'd like too!
06/06/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
It doesn't bother me. Sure if I am really horny (like ovulating) I get a little sad if I know one of my partners has been masturbating, but I know I am being rather silly about it. I like watching when on occasion.
06/06/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
It is for sure a turn on. I love listening to my partner get themselves off! Being in a LDR phone sex and listening to my partner masturbate is a very intimate activity for us. Duel masturbation is also something i really enjoy my partner and i doing together while we find a porn to watch together.
06/06/2013
Contributor: evanescentowl evanescentowl
I don't mind my guy masturbating, but I probably have a more negative view of it than most people here. XD I get rather jealous if my partner masturbates if I'm available to be with him.
06/06/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
I love it!!! It is a real turn on for me to watch...and do some of my own with him. Even if I am not home, I don't care if he does--there is enough of him to go around, lol!!!
06/06/2013
Contributor: never shy never shy
I don't get turned on by it but I find it natural for everyone to do it
06/06/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by evanescentowl
I don't mind my guy masturbating, but I probably have a more negative view of it than most people here. XD I get rather jealous if my partner masturbates if I'm available to be with him.
I felt like that for a LONG time with my ex husband, and worried about it in the beginning of my relationship now. It's normal to feel a little jealous, but when you're able to separate yourself from it, it's much easier to understand and appreciate.

My husband doesn't masturbate, and it actually bothers me a little bit. I wish he would experiment more to figure out what he enjoys (specifically with anal toys because that's something I have very little experience with). We don't do it often, but it's a HUGE turn on to me when we masturbate together. I love watching what he does and I can tell he appreciates it when I mimic those actions while we're playing together.
06/06/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I find it to be a turn on. Not only is it sexy, it's also a great way to see what he likes. Even after being with my boyfriend for years, we learn a lot about each other sexually.
06/06/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
Yes please! Very sexy to watch, and I love to get in on the action, either using my tongue or fingers to help him out or to masturbate with him, so we can watch each other.
06/06/2013
Contributor: TiffanyaMeade TiffanyaMeade
I don't really like it when my partner masterbates. In my head it means less sex for me, I am a sexoholic. However, when ever he wants to masterbate I either do it for him or help. It kind of works out for both of us, sometimes it ends in a really fun back and forth masterbation ring, and sometimes we end up having sex.
06/06/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by Eugler
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I would like to know what do you think about men who masturbate. Would it turn you on seeing your partner enjoying himself / clattering off? ... more
Well, I guess I don't have an opinion. Not something I care much about. To answer your last question, my partner doesn't do it to turn me on. I've mentioned it, but he says he gets no pleasure out of it and prefers sex over me just watching him play with himself.
06/07/2013
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
I have always loved watching my partners stroke themselves. While ending them a helping hand is good also, as is sex sometimes a show is a hell of a lot hotter.
06/07/2013
Contributor: laflauta laflauta
I'm totally fine with guys masturbating. I do it, so why should I be able to judge others for it? I, like others have mentioned, would actually be a little bit worried if a guy didn't masturbate. I would be worried that there was a problem. On the other end of the spectrum, I would have a problem he is choosing to masturbate over being with me.
06/08/2013