Would it bother you for your partner to get a massage from someone of the opposite sex?

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Martiniman

I'm not necessarily talking about an erotic massage, but one at a spa. Even so, they are nude under a sheet with someone of the opposite sex rubbing their body for pleasure. Does that or would that bother you? If so, do you ask your partner to choose a same sex masseuse or do you grin and bare it?

Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):

Yes, it bothers me.

No, I'm ok with it.

13 (42%)

I answered yes and I ask my partner to choose a same sex masseuse.

I answered yes, but I grin and bare it.

My partner has never had a massage, but I'd be ok with it.

13 (42%)

My partner has never had a massage, but an opposite sex masseuse would bother me

1 (3%)

Other...please give details.

4 (13%)

Total votes: 31

Poll is closed

01/09/2013

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indiglo

I'd have no problem with it. Many places you do leave your underwear on down below, and they still drape you with a sheet. (And one across your breasts for women.) At least where I've gone that's how they do it. Anyhoo, I used to get professional massages on a regular basis (from a man - he was the owner & the person they send all the tough cases to, or people with certain issues to), it felt amaaaaaazing and I always felt better for several days afterward.

There was nothing sexual about it, he was just doing his job and he was super professional. In fact, the statement you had to sign at that place said that if YOU did or said anything sexual you'd be asked to leave. It's a really swanky place and they keep everything on the up and up.

I'd have no problem if my man went and got a professional massage in the same way from a woman. He's never had one, but it wouldn't bother me. I'd probably be jealous that I didn't get a massage though! LOL

01/09/2013

ne1469694u

Quote:

Originally posted by Martiniman

yes

01/09/2013

BlooJay

My girlfriend has never gotten a massage, but I don't think it would bother me if she got a massage from a male.

01/09/2013

Flower1

I'd be okay with it.

01/09/2013

Rossie

It doesn't bother me, because we get couples massage in the same room. And like indiglo said, we have our underwear on.

01/09/2013

Mwar

I'm going to sound weird I bet. I wouldn't mind if he did, but I'd like to get one are the same time in a couple's massage setting. He can have the pretty lady and i'll take the hunky man. Then we go home and have awesome sex!

Who's with me? Anyone?

01/09/2013

Trysexual

No..she gets them already, but doesn't bother me

01/09/2013

rosythorn

I don't care, it's like if he had a female doctor.

01/09/2013

FLIPxMODE

id be ok with it

01/09/2013

Gracie

A good massage therapist is a good massage therapist. Gender is irrelevent!!!

01/09/2013

nikki0668

I would be okay with it.

01/09/2013

Yaoi Pervette (deleted)

No biggie. It is not like he is getting a "massage" at some "rub-n-tug" joint.

01/09/2013

LoooveMonkey

Haha! I don't have that kind of self esteem issues. She can even massage his ass. I personally don't think it's a complete massage without getting my ass rubbed. The muscles on there get more tense than one would think.