I never orgasm during sex, but it doesn't bother me or him
Would you be disappointed if your girlfriend could not have an orgasm?
05/30/2012
I know it bothers my husband that I've never been able to reach orgasm (in any way AT ALL), but he knows that it isn't his fault. I just don't think that I'm capable of it.
05/30/2012
If it was something that she was physically incapable of, that would be disappointing, though it'd mostly be that she couldn't share in as much of the joy. If it was just a failure in technique, it'd mean some changes, but variety is the spice of life.
05/31/2012
i would be supremely disappointed
05/31/2012
I can't always reach orgasm when with someone else. I feel ashamed about it at times but oh well. It just is what it is and hopefully people don't get upset with me about it.
05/31/2012
I'm queer, and I would not be upset if I was with a girl who couldn't orgasm.
There's actually a really large number of women who can't orgasm.
There's actually a really large number of women who can't orgasm.
12/16/2012
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I'm going to agree that this part really bug me: "(...) or needs clitoral stimulation as opposed to just penetration."
Originally posted by
P'Gell
This part:or needs clitoral stimulation as opposed to just penetration. describes about 80% of the female population. Most women do not easily or ever orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
Few women only orgasm from penetration alone. I only ... more
Few women only orgasm from penetration alone. I only ... more
This part:or needs clitoral stimulation as opposed to just penetration. describes about 80% of the female population. Most women do not easily or ever orgasm without clitoral stimulation.
Few women only orgasm from penetration alone. I only can if I have already had a clitoral or blended clit/G Spot?A Spot Orgasm.
I would not want a man to feel bad because I usually don't have my first orgasm from just penetration. My Man knew from the beginning most women need more and has always done whatever it takes.
If a woman never orgasms, professional help probably should be sought. less
Few women only orgasm from penetration alone. I only can if I have already had a clitoral or blended clit/G Spot?A Spot Orgasm.
I would not want a man to feel bad because I usually don't have my first orgasm from just penetration. My Man knew from the beginning most women need more and has always done whatever it takes.
If a woman never orgasms, professional help probably should be sought. less
That's most women. If someone is disappointed that their female partner can't or has difficulty reaching orgasm from penetration alone, they really need to open their eyes and learn a thing or two about women. Needing clitoral is nothing to be ashamed of or disappointed about, for either party.
12/16/2012
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There's many women who have great difficulty reaching orgasm, but I'm extremely suspicious of the notion that most of those women can't orgasm. Finding what works can be difficult, but one should never assume it's impossible. I've heard many tales, even on this very site, of women who thought they couldn't until they found the proper kind of stimulation.
Originally posted by
Robespierrethecat
I'm queer, and I would not be upset if I was with a girl who couldn't orgasm.
There's actually a really large number of women who can't orgasm.
There's actually a really large number of women who can't orgasm.
Also keep in mind that orgasm is a standard physiological reaction in men, and male genitals are simply female genitals altered during early development by the presence of a Y chromosome. So it's not unreasonable to say orgasm is probably something all (or at least most) women are capable of.
12/16/2012
Disappointed in HER, absolutely not. Disappointed in my own performance... perhaps. But remember it isn't the fault of either participant if penetration alone cannot bring about orgasm. Use fingers and your tongue to help her, as well as.... Holy cow, even this forum is sponsored by what?... a TOY Store. Buy them and use them for goodness sake.
12/16/2012
Disappointed with her, absolutely not.
Disappointed that I couldn't get her there, of course.
Sometimes it's just not going to happen (that goes for her or for me), but if it rarely happened I would feel like there's something wrong with me and I was letting her down.
Disappointed that I couldn't get her there, of course.
Sometimes it's just not going to happen (that goes for her or for me), but if it rarely happened I would feel like there's something wrong with me and I was letting her down.
12/16/2012
I'm that way myself. I think I MAY have orgasmed in the past but it's rare even if so. (Not to mention that people tell me that when you've orgasmed you'll know it.)
Since I'm interested in women, I'd be pretty sympathetic to others like that. On one level it would make me feel kinda bad about my skills, but on another hand it's an even draw and I can just concentrate on extending the pleasure as long as possible. So no, probably not dissapointing for me so long as it's fun.
Since I'm interested in women, I'd be pretty sympathetic to others like that. On one level it would make me feel kinda bad about my skills, but on another hand it's an even draw and I can just concentrate on extending the pleasure as long as possible. So no, probably not dissapointing for me so long as it's fun.
12/16/2012
Even if it's no one's fault, it's tough since it's supposed to be a reciprocal experience. When one party isn't satisfied, it's no longer mutual.
12/17/2012
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