I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be appreciated as well. Thanks!
Squirting question for the ladies
05/22/2009
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Perceptive forum discussions on G-spot:
squirting
would you say that you need to be able to have a g spot orgasm in order to be able to learn to squirt? Thanks.
Can g spot vibrators make you squirt?
Or do you need that back and forth motion you see in vids?
After a month in the ICU I could use a new toy! Help!
A few days ago I was cleared by my cardio doc for sex and play . I'm looking for a new clit vibrator and g spot vibrator. I would love to have one.
best g spot toy.
whats the best g-spot toy? which ones really do the job?
g spot
what is a g spot and how does it work
squirting
would you say that you need to be able to have a g spot orgasm in order to be able to learn to squirt? Thanks.
Can g spot vibrators make you squirt?
Or do you need that back and forth motion you see in vids?
After a month in the ICU I could use a new toy! Help!
A few days ago I was cleared by my cardio doc for sex and play . I'm looking for a new clit vibrator and g spot vibrator. I would love to have one.
best g spot toy.
whats the best g-spot toy? which ones really do the job?
g spot
what is a g spot and how does it work
05/22/2009
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When I want to squirt, hard and fast thrusting against my g-spot usually does the trick and I produce a fair amount of squirt. Other times it's been a torrid fingering performed by my boyfriend or oddly enough, a gentle g spot massage. I've heard women can squirt
Originally posted by
BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be
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I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be appreciated as well. Thanks!
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05/22/2009
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Argh! Submitted before I was done...I've heard women can squirt through g-spot and clit stimulation combo, or clit stim alone, but I haven't tried that yet.
Originally posted by
DreamyLove
When I want to squirt, hard and fast thrusting against my g-spot usually does the trick and I produce a fair amount of squirt. Other times it's been a torrid fingering performed by my boyfriend or oddly enough, a gentle g spot massage. I've
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When I want to squirt, hard and fast thrusting against my g-spot usually does the trick and I produce a fair amount of squirt. Other times it's been a torrid fingering performed by my boyfriend or oddly enough, a gentle g spot massage. I've heard women can squirt
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05/22/2009
Hard fast clitoral stimulation works for me by itself, but usually some G-spot stimulation gets mixed in the middle and the clitoral is just the grand finale for a wet finish. I don't know that I've squirted through G-spot alone with a toy...with most insertable toys it feels more like they block the outlet, so to speak.
During sex though it's a different story - a penis (at least the only one I've seen in a while ^_-) is meant to hit the g-spot, and I have made all sorts of messes through that alone. It usually takes a certain kind of thrust to hit it though (for me missionary works best, usually with one or both legs up and over his shoulders), and it's the right spot when I suddenly flush and get all warm, and I feel myself want to contract.
They each have a different quality to them. Short answer, it might help for some, but it certainly helps for me. Excitement and relaxation are both key, so if clitoral gets your partner more excited, definitely go for it.
During sex though it's a different story - a penis (at least the only one I've seen in a while ^_-) is meant to hit the g-spot, and I have made all sorts of messes through that alone. It usually takes a certain kind of thrust to hit it though (for me missionary works best, usually with one or both legs up and over his shoulders), and it's the right spot when I suddenly flush and get all warm, and I feel myself want to contract.
They each have a different quality to them. Short answer, it might help for some, but it certainly helps for me. Excitement and relaxation are both key, so if clitoral gets your partner more excited, definitely go for it.
05/23/2009
So every woman is different it seems. I find that if I try to add clitoral stimulation while I'm using a g-spot toy, the clitoral sensation takes over and there will be no squirting. However, its good to start with clitoral stimulation as a warm up, then switch to the g-spot. That's the best strategy for me.
05/23/2009
Warm her up well. Be sure that she is relaxed and sitting or lying on an absorbent surface like a Fascinator throe or a few towels. I suggest rubbing some Intimate Organics Discover G-spot Gel on her g-spot, then giving her some oral sex or manual stimulation until she's having orgasms. Then, go on in with your finger (come hither motion). Then put some Discover gel on a g-spot dildo like LELO Ella and gently stimulate her gspot. Some people like firm pressure while others appreciate a light touch. Ella is more or less foolproof because it finds the gspot by itself and is firm enough to apply strong pressure if desired.
05/23/2009
I'm one of those strange women who almost never squirts from g-spot stimulation. When I squirt, it's usually from the kind of hard, fast clitoral stimulation that makes a long, screaming, thrashing, arching, never-ending orgasms (I usually don't squirt until a few orgasms in though). If there's some vaginal or g-spot stimulation in there, great. If a penis gets in the way of the stream, then it doesn't go very far. The key with me seems to be intensity and duration of the orgasm: it's gotta be earth-shaking, and it usually has to last at least a minute before the tsunami hits. If I've started speaking in tongues, you're on the right track.
Unfortunately, as you can see, women vary greatly in what gets them squirting, from g-spot only (hard or soft) to clitoral only, and everything in between. Just experiment, and aim for what makes her feel the best. If it doesn't make her squirt, at least she had a heck of a great time. If it does work, take notes (with a waterproof pen!); you may have just found her special combo. Have fun figuring it out!
Unfortunately, as you can see, women vary greatly in what gets them squirting, from g-spot only (hard or soft) to clitoral only, and everything in between. Just experiment, and aim for what makes her feel the best. If it doesn't make her squirt, at least she had a heck of a great time. If it does work, take notes (with a waterproof pen!); you may have just found her special combo. Have fun figuring it out!
05/23/2009
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I ejaculate from g spot stimulation but not every time and only after a clitoral driven orgasm or two.
Originally posted by
Luscious Lily
I'm one of those strange women who almost never squirts from g-spot stimulation. When I squirt, it's usually from the kind of hard, fast clitoral stimulation that makes a long, screaming, thrashing, arching, never-ending orgasms (I usually
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I'm one of those strange women who almost never squirts from g-spot stimulation. When I squirt, it's usually from the kind of hard, fast clitoral stimulation that makes a long, screaming, thrashing, arching, never-ending orgasms (I usually don't squirt until a few orgasms in though). If there's some vaginal or g-spot stimulation in there, great. If a penis gets in the way of the stream, then it doesn't go very far. The key with me seems to be intensity and duration of the orgasm: it's gotta be earth-shaking, and it usually has to last at least a minute before the tsunami hits. If I've started speaking in tongues, you're on the right track.
Unfortunately, as you can see, women vary greatly in what gets them squirting, from g-spot only (hard or soft) to clitoral only, and everything in between. Just experiment, and aim for what makes her feel the best. If it doesn't make her squirt, at least she had a heck of a great time. If it does work, take notes (with a waterproof pen!); you may have just found her special combo. Have fun figuring it out! less
Unfortunately, as you can see, women vary greatly in what gets them squirting, from g-spot only (hard or soft) to clitoral only, and everything in between. Just experiment, and aim for what makes her feel the best. If it doesn't make her squirt, at least she had a heck of a great time. If it does work, take notes (with a waterproof pen!); you may have just found her special combo. Have fun figuring it out! less
Relaxation, mood and time are all so much part of the encounter.
05/26/2009
When I am masturbating I usually get a clitoral orgasm or two before stimulating my g-spot with a dildo and even if sometimes I would like to squirt I do not, I guess it depends on many things. Usually I need clitoral vibes at the same time as g-spot stimulation but once I managed to get off only using the dildo (after proper arousal with a vibe).
During intercourse I need A LOT of clitoral stimulaion first so cunnilings is a requirement and a good amount of time (atleast 10-15 minutes, I dont orgasm from this though, so sad since it is so good) needs to be dedicated to my clit to make me wet and aroused. Interestingly, during intercourse I don't stimulate my clit and I can squirt many times even after a squirting orgasm and each squirt is unique in how it gushes out. The crazy squrting during sex is really new for me so I decided to invest in a throe to make squirting a regular event!
Good luck in finding what works for your partner, it should be a pleasure conquest!
During intercourse I need A LOT of clitoral stimulaion first so cunnilings is a requirement and a good amount of time (atleast 10-15 minutes, I dont orgasm from this though, so sad since it is so good) needs to be dedicated to my clit to make me wet and aroused. Interestingly, during intercourse I don't stimulate my clit and I can squirt many times even after a squirting orgasm and each squirt is unique in how it gushes out. The crazy squrting during sex is really new for me so I decided to invest in a throe to make squirting a regular event!
Good luck in finding what works for your partner, it should be a pleasure conquest!
05/26/2009
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Oh, and when I am about to squirt I feel the liquid forming up inside the skene's gland and it becomes so full that it hurts so I have no choice to push it out. I am sure it isn't pee also bcs it is clear and so much was produced that it was impossible for it to be urine (especially since I always urinate before to make sure my bladder is empty) It took me a long while to be in tune with what works for me but it was pleasure all the way so it's all good!
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
When I am masturbating I usually get a clitoral orgasm or two before stimulating my g-spot with a dildo and even if sometimes I would like to squirt I do not, I guess it depends on many things. Usually I need clitoral vibes at the same time as g-spot
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When I am masturbating I usually get a clitoral orgasm or two before stimulating my g-spot with a dildo and even if sometimes I would like to squirt I do not, I guess it depends on many things. Usually I need clitoral vibes at the same time as g-spot stimulation but once I managed to get off only using the dildo (after proper arousal with a vibe).
During intercourse I need A LOT of clitoral stimulaion first so cunnilings is a requirement and a good amount of time (atleast 10-15 minutes, I dont orgasm from this though, so sad since it is so good) needs to be dedicated to my clit to make me wet and aroused. Interestingly, during intercourse I don't stimulate my clit and I can squirt many times even after a squirting orgasm and each squirt is unique in how it gushes out. The crazy squrting during sex is really new for me so I decided to invest in a throe to make squirting a regular event!
Good luck in finding what works for your partner, it should be a pleasure conquest! less
During intercourse I need A LOT of clitoral stimulaion first so cunnilings is a requirement and a good amount of time (atleast 10-15 minutes, I dont orgasm from this though, so sad since it is so good) needs to be dedicated to my clit to make me wet and aroused. Interestingly, during intercourse I don't stimulate my clit and I can squirt many times even after a squirting orgasm and each squirt is unique in how it gushes out. The crazy squrting during sex is really new for me so I decided to invest in a throe to make squirting a regular event!
Good luck in finding what works for your partner, it should be a pleasure conquest! less
05/26/2009
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Since I started squirting from g spot stimulation, I just knda want it all the time! Doesn't happen though.
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
When I am masturbating I usually get a clitoral orgasm or two before stimulating my g-spot with a dildo and even if sometimes I would like to squirt I do not, I guess it depends on many things. Usually I need clitoral vibes at the same time as g-spot
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more
When I am masturbating I usually get a clitoral orgasm or two before stimulating my g-spot with a dildo and even if sometimes I would like to squirt I do not, I guess it depends on many things. Usually I need clitoral vibes at the same time as g-spot stimulation but once I managed to get off only using the dildo (after proper arousal with a vibe).
During intercourse I need A LOT of clitoral stimulaion first so cunnilings is a requirement and a good amount of time (atleast 10-15 minutes, I dont orgasm from this though, so sad since it is so good) needs to be dedicated to my clit to make me wet and aroused. Interestingly, during intercourse I don't stimulate my clit and I can squirt many times even after a squirting orgasm and each squirt is unique in how it gushes out. The crazy squrting during sex is really new for me so I decided to invest in a throe to make squirting a regular event!
Good luck in finding what works for your partner, it should be a pleasure conquest! less
During intercourse I need A LOT of clitoral stimulaion first so cunnilings is a requirement and a good amount of time (atleast 10-15 minutes, I dont orgasm from this though, so sad since it is so good) needs to be dedicated to my clit to make me wet and aroused. Interestingly, during intercourse I don't stimulate my clit and I can squirt many times even after a squirting orgasm and each squirt is unique in how it gushes out. The crazy squrting during sex is really new for me so I decided to invest in a throe to make squirting a regular event!
Good luck in finding what works for your partner, it should be a pleasure conquest! less
First time for me I did think it was urine as well. As you know, squirting is a colorless and odorless liquid much like the pre-cum from a guy but a lot more copious.
I can't have a g spot orgasm w/o a prior clitoral orgasm and additional clit stimulation. I will use a vibe at times during cunnilingus and intercourse, my b/f likes it now as he says he doesn't have to work as hard.
When I masturbate, I use many toys...I luv options and have my vibes, dils and butt plugs lubed and ready to go, if needed.
By the way, the Gigi vibe is an all around awesome g spot toy! ok for the clitoris as well.
05/26/2009
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I wish my partner didn't hate sex toys so much it would help him help me!
Originally posted by
Liz2
Since I started squirting from g spot stimulation, I just knda want it all the time! Doesn't happen though.
First time for me I did think it was urine as well. As you know, squirting is a colorless and odorless liquid much like the pre-cum ... more
First time for me I did think it was urine as well. As you know, squirting is a colorless and odorless liquid much like the pre-cum ... more
Since I started squirting from g spot stimulation, I just knda want it all the time! Doesn't happen though.
First time for me I did think it was urine as well. As you know, squirting is a colorless and odorless liquid much like the pre-cum from a guy but a lot more copious.
I can't have a g spot orgasm w/o a prior clitoral orgasm and additional clit stimulation. I will use a vibe at times during cunnilingus and intercourse, my b/f likes it now as he says he doesn't have to work as hard.
When I masturbate, I use many toys...I luv options and have my vibes, dils and butt plugs lubed and ready to go, if needed.
By the way, the Gigi vibe is an all around awesome g spot toy! ok for the clitoris as well. less
First time for me I did think it was urine as well. As you know, squirting is a colorless and odorless liquid much like the pre-cum from a guy but a lot more copious.
I can't have a g spot orgasm w/o a prior clitoral orgasm and additional clit stimulation. I will use a vibe at times during cunnilingus and intercourse, my b/f likes it now as he says he doesn't have to work as hard.
When I masturbate, I use many toys...I luv options and have my vibes, dils and butt plugs lubed and ready to go, if needed.
By the way, the Gigi vibe is an all around awesome g spot toy! ok for the clitoris as well. less
05/26/2009
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Hopefully he will come around. Try the bit that toys "will help him, less work" before he "just has to get off"
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
I wish my partner didn't hate sex toys so much it would help him help me!
Some of my toys still intimidate by b/f esp. some very realistic vibes and dils. He thinks I may be judging him by the fast results optained using my toys.
I did get him a masturbation sleeve, he didn't use it for awhile and then one day saw it in the bathroom drying. I didn't say anything, (I think he forgot it was there) but he does use it, w/o me, as I use some of my toys during solo masturbation.
05/27/2009
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My wife squirt from clitoral stimulation, so i think it the key to squirting for some girls. Others need gspot penetration or both.
Originally posted by
BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be
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I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be appreciated as well. Thanks!
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My wife has had good luck with the Lucid Dream 14, pocket rocket, and hitachi wand.
07/31/2010
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Same goes for me. I generally like to have a clitoral orgasm before any penetrative play.
Originally posted by
Tuesday
So every woman is different it seems. I find that if I try to add clitoral stimulation while I'm using a g-spot toy, the clitoral sensation takes over and there will be no squirting. However, its good to start with clitoral stimulation as a
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more
So every woman is different it seems. I find that if I try to add clitoral stimulation while I'm using a g-spot toy, the clitoral sensation takes over and there will be no squirting. However, its good to start with clitoral stimulation as a warm up, then switch to the g-spot. That's the best strategy for me.
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07/31/2010
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for me its a lot of clit stim AND g-spot but especially the area between my clit and vagina- a rabbit vibe- or more specifically a fun factory ocean or something similar
Originally posted by
BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be
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more
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be appreciated as well. Thanks!
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i actually drenched my whole face one of the first times!
04/16/2012
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Clit play helps get me warmed up, but firm, quick stimulation to my gspot is the winner. Another main hindrance is that most women will tighten up, especially before orgasm, that part of the woman has to relax a little or you don't get much. It's like squeezing the tip of a guys penis just as he's orgasming, can't imagine you'd shoot real well.
Originally posted by
BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be
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more
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be appreciated as well. Thanks!
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07/27/2012
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For me it is mostly g spot stimulation, but also while i am lying on my stomach. having my partner reach around and rub my clit is sometimes helpful to get me over that edge.
Originally posted by
BrokeNHorny
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be
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more
I've been trying, with mild success to get my partner to squirt. I've had success with g spot stimulation, but nothing surefire. Does clitoral stimulation help in any way, or detract from it? Any other suggestions and tips would be appreciated as well. Thanks!
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03/21/2013
Get her off a few times clitorally before trying to stimulate the g-spot. Clit stimulation helps me a lot during g-spot stimulation as well.
04/06/2013
I personally have to have g-spot and clitoral stimulation..... But I have heard many woman say that different ways work for them!!
04/17/2013
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