I Love the Pure Wand...Also Some Advice Please

Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
I know there have been plenty of threads created about this toy but I wanted to create a new one. This toy has given me such pleasure since I got it, it has taken my orgasms to a whole new level. Its almost like I don't want to masturbate without it. I am starting to get a lot of pre cum using it without even touching my cock. I used it with my wife for the first time last night. She gave me a handjob while I thrusted the wand. I had an incredibly explosive orgasm....it felt great.

The large end is what works well for me. The only problem is inserting it. Even with a lot of lube, it can be painful. Any suggestions to make this insertion more comfortable?
05/08/2013
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Did you warm up with smaller sized plugs first, before you use your Pure Wand?
05/08/2013
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Rossie
Did you warm up with smaller sized plugs first, before you use your Pure Wand?
Yep - a 1.25 or 1.5 tapered butt plug will get you ready. I've used the large end of the Pure Wand anally and had no problems with a proper warm up.
05/09/2013
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by Bubba29
I know there have been plenty of threads created about this toy but I wanted to create a new one. This toy has given me such pleasure since I got it, it has taken my orgasms to a whole new level. Its almost like I don't want to masturbate ... more
I have only used the Pure Wand vaginally, so I don't know if I'd be any help.

Everybody has different sensations from the nerve endings there, so have you ever used other toys without it being painful? Or is this a first? Some people simply find anal painful period. Like I said, different for everybody. I would say try using the small end if you say the large end hurts... If it's painful, I certainly wouldn't force it or keep trying. That could definitely be bad. You could try relaxing more, if you weren't because a lot of people say that helps. It doesn't mean everybody will find it painless though. If you're set on doing it, I'd simply try the small end.

Also, the Pure Wand's small end is intense for me vaginally, the large end -- impossible to insert, so I can imagine it would most definitely be uncomfortable at least when inserting the large end anally. I think most people spend a lot of time with moving up in size when they're trying to get something of a decent size in there. They start off with something smaller, then when they're comfortable, a little bigger. So I'd get some lube, use the small end, then if it happens that it's not painful, then maybe try the large end afterwards. This way it's "warmed up."
05/09/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
quite honestly, i am probably in too much of a hurry to warm up with something smaller. i have an aneros progasm that would work well for that purpose. probably will do that next time. problem is, i have now gone from just beating off with my hand to now using 2 toys and lube. went from a simple task to a whole production.

i like the pure wand a lot so i will probably just get used to doing what i need to to make things comfortable. btw, the small end just doesn't give me close to the pleasure the big end does.
05/09/2013
Contributor: Alex Time Alex Time
Hey there. I completely hear you about turning a simple wank into a whole bleeding mission! What I find with the pure wand is if I start off with the small end and focus it not on the p spot but on the second sphincter rather, playing around there instead of inserting (i.e. putting it in and stopping at the muscle and gently rotating the wand for about 5 or 10 mins). That seems to warm my ass up!

After that I simply clean that end of lube to prevent slipping and insert the large end. Try warming it up a little more than room temperature as well, I find that it can be a shock on the ass and cause involuntary spasms.

Finally, when I get the large end in I also focus a little again on the sphincter to "train" it some more so that I don't have to worry about removal after I cum!

My favorite toy as well, can you tell?
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