The prostate is not what makes you stop peeing, but since you are male, you should have one. From your other thread, it sounded like you had read enough about it so that you know where it should be. I think the sensations are different for different guys, but it definitely has a definitive feel to it. I don't necessarily feel a finger tip stroking it, but I can tell when pressure is being put on it. The best toy I found to "milk" my prostate was very stiff with a pronounced curve to it. I used the Acryl-X anal arc, but it seems like that and the non-vibrating companion are no longer available. I might suggest the Acrylic pleasure wand link
or the lucite crystal wand link
or deluxe crystal wand link
or glass G-spot pink link
or glass indigo intruder link
These curves should allow for strong prostate stimulation, so be careful at first and then press harder as you feel comfortable.
Good luck! less

You might not be reaching far enough inside your rectum - in order to find the prostate you'll need to go at least 2" inside and possibly up to 3" (in order to stimulate the whole prostate).

I find the Deluxe Crystal Wand a bit difficult to use for prostate stimulation. For me, it just isn't quite long enough, so I need to use it in one specific position (handle curving towards the front of my body), and the bumps make it difficult to move in and out very much. I haven't used the Tantus G-Force (Jimbo has), but that looks like it might be a good first choice, and the silicone gives it a bit of give that makes it difficult to inadvertently apply too much pressure or bruise your prostate. I personally also like the Squirt dildo (it's very big, but hits the right spots) and both the Aneros (less intense stimulation, but stays in place by itself) and the Rocks Off massagers (intense stimulation, a beginner would probably prefer the Naughty Boy). less

The prostate is not what makes you stop peeing, but since you are male, you should have one. From your other thread, it sounded like you had read enough about it so that you know where it should be. I think the sensations are different for different guys, but it definitely has a definitive feel to it. I don't necessarily feel a finger tip stroking it, but I can tell when pressure is being put on it. The best toy I found to "milk" my prostate was very stiff with a pronounced curve to it. I used the Acryl-X anal arc, but it seems like that and the non-vibrating companion are no longer available. I might suggest the Acrylic pleasure wand link
or the lucite crystal wand link
or deluxe crystal wand link
or glass G-spot pink link
or glass indigo intruder link
These curves should allow for strong prostate stimulation, so be careful at first and then press harder as you feel comfortable.
Good luck! less