Pegging by the numbers

Several years ago, I once mentioned to my husband that I wish we cold trade bodies, so we could feel what it's like to the other when we make love. I said I wanted to know what it felt like for him to fuck me.

Fast forward about a year: He brought home a strap-on with a harness. He helped me get it put on and we tried it out. I was very turned on, but we had trouble getting the right angle for penetration and I got so wet, I couldn't keep my end in. It was a huuuuge turn on. He said he's tried out all the dildos we had and he could take any of them, and the one he bought wasn't any bigger than the others.

We haven't tried again since, but we did have a good laugh when my end slipped out and then his end got all wonky because my end was wonky. We did notice that his end was not quite stiff enough to be easily insertable without bending, but I was glad of that because I want it to feel good for him. It's not a FemDom approach I have in mind - I just want to rock his world and blow his mind.

Since then I've gotten a Share, but I just can't keep it in without a harness, even though I have strong muscle control. My GYN says I'm very tight - I've had no children ever, but I get *so* wet, even The Husband says he has trouble feeling things sometimes. To add to the difficulties, we are both very large people, and my anatomy is tipped a bit, so there's more distance between my vaginal opening and my clit that on most women, I think. I dunno really because I have no frame of comparison, but I think that's the case. so now we need to find a harness that lets it ride low enough and yet can hold it tightly enough.

Anyway, it takes us a long time to thoroughly explore new things, and I also felt it wasn't fair for me to be able to fuck his ass, unless I got good at letting him fuck mine too, so, that's what we've worked on mostly since. Turn around is fair play, after all, but frankly, receiving anal doesn't do much for me - I don't have a prostate and it takes a long time and a lot of work to get full length penetration and - meh - just doesn't do much for me. He likes it though, so I'm game to play along. Mostly because I really want to get back to trying to learn how to peg him.

My girl and I talked about it in our late 20's, and it took a bit of convincing to get her to take the bait at first. Now that we're in out 30's, she's really into it with a passion! Our biggest hurdle was finding the right equipment to accommodate our respective anatomies, to get this whole thing to work. I've got a 'bubble-butt', so we needed to find dildos that were longer than usual but not too heavy, so they wouldn't slip out of me when she'd get into some long, fast, intense thrusting moves. Likewise, she needed a harness that was close-fitting and adjustable without pinching, so the complete 'apparatus' wouldn't be too floppy and would stay in place. Now that this is all solved, we've become dedicated peggers. We plan to keep on doing this on into our golden years, if we're able. Cheers!

Started when I was 27...now I'm 29. Fairly new to it.

Had it offered in my 20's and foolishly said "no". Now I'm into it and trying to slowly work it in

Never have.

started in 30's his idea, but she loves doing it too

I can't really vote yet since I haven't pegged anyone, but I'd really love to start now, I'm 27. We'll see what happens.

I love being pegged, especially when the girl has a dominant attitude...

My wife offered/said it was something she had always wanted to try when I was maybe 32 or so, but it wasn't until the other week that I wanted to go any further than rimming (I'm 36 now).

I had never even heard of pegging until I came to EF

20's would have started earlier but i didnt have anyone to peg me.

wow, i started at 17

I checked the box for 20s, but we were both 17. I suggested it because I wanted to try some new things, and heard it was supposed to feel really good for the receiving partner.

He was pretty apprehensive, mainly because of his upbringing - his parents are extremely conservative and homophobic, and as a young teen they (incorrectly) suspected he was gay. A few years of merciless ridicule and even attempts by their pastor to exorcise the gay out of him had left him with some serious issues, poor thing

I pressed it more than I would have because I'm pretty terrible at giving oral sex, and wanted to be able to do more for him. He agreed as long as I swore to never tell a soul. We started out with small, hand-held toys, and it turned out that he loved it more than any other sexual act we were doing at the time, and still does now (almost three years later).

He refuses to use lifelike toys, but that's fine with me because I don't care for them either and while he still strongly prefers hand-held toys and plugs to harnesses, we've made a ton of progress. Hopefully, he'll eventually come to enjoy his favorite thing without feeling shameful afterward.

20's for both answers

never tried it

so much fun

We just had our first experience with pegging very recently. We're both in our 20s.

It was one of the first things my partner told me he liked. We're only 18 and 19 though, so we don't quite fit into your brackets But I know I was the first person to peg him hehe

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We started in our late twenties, enjoy it quite often now. I enjoy it as much as, or more than he does I think.