Uncomfortable discussing strap-on use with your partner...

It remained my silent fantasy for many years - and I think hers, too. We both were afraid to bring the subject up. Merely mentioning strap on sex could be a relationship game-changer if your partner freaks (who is this pervert I'm with?). Kudos to you both for being able to talk about it; that step alone takes a lot of courage.

We had always said how we'd like to trade places, feel what the other feels. After many years, we ended up with a Feeldoe. I went from not wanting her anywhere near my arse to wanting her IN me all the time! It is a fantastic experience every time and one of the most erotic things we have ever done. I think both of us were pleasantly surprised by what a huge turn on it proved to be. She wasn't partcularly turned on by the concept beforehand, either. During? I don't think I've ever seen her more excited and passionate. We both have had some of our hugest orgasms this way. More importantly, it is a new way of bonding not like any other that has brought us closer together.

Is it worth the money? In our case, every cent! Of course, that doesn't guarantee the same result for you. If you're not comfortable, there's nothing wrong with that. If you want to continue discussing it from time to time, you may find your discomfort fades. Or, you may feel even stronger that it isn't for you. Don't feel pressured to try it because others do it. Try it only if you both want to, and that it will be a positive thing for your relationship, whether you like it afterward or not.