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Contributor: Glinteye Glinteye
Have you ever experienced bi phobia?
10/15/2012
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Contributor: GONE! GONE!
I've experienced more creepiness than anything else. You know, like people thinking I'd automatically be down for a threesome just because.
10/16/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
I don't know. Be more specific? Have we ever had someone be "phobic" of our OWN sexuality? No, not that I know of. I am not bi either. Or do you mean have we personally ever been phobic of bi people?

What?
10/16/2012
Contributor: PinkySt PinkySt
I've had more then one person drop me like a Marburg infected primate once they found out my sexuality.

I will never understand how I can be so disgusting for not really having a gender preference.
10/16/2012
Contributor: Glinteye Glinteye
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Originally posted by K101
I don't know. Be more specific? Have we ever had someone be "phobic" of our OWN sexuality? No, not that I know of. I am not bi either. Or do you mean have we personally ever been phobic of bi people?

What?
I'm sorry! I guess my question was more targeted to those who identify as not preferring one specific gender or sex.
10/18/2012
Contributor: buttcleavage buttcleavage
I feel like there is a lot of stigma in both the straight and queer community with people who ID as bisexual. There should be more awareness.
10/18/2012
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
I don't think I've experienced people really biphobic like there are homophobics, but I've met people who feel that one needs to "pick a side" or that if anyone does identify as bisexual it's because they are trying to "join the fad." I'm omnisexual, myself, and when I've been asked to explain it, I've had other people interrupt with, "She's just really greedy." So no phobia, but ignorance.
10/18/2012
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
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Originally posted by PinkySt
I've had more then one person drop me like a Marburg infected primate once they found out my sexuality.

I will never understand how I can be so disgusting for not really having a gender preference.
Drop you? Like refuse to date you? WTF that's messed up? My current BF is pretty tight laced but even he doesn't care that I'm attracted to girls, half the time he'll ask me if I noticed so and so's boobs or this hot girl or that hot girl and then we'll get into a debate about who we think is attractive lol. But I never knew someone would be that uncomfortable with you liking men and women to not date you for it? Messed up.
11/01/2012
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
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Originally posted by Intrepid Niddering
I don't think I've experienced people really biphobic like there are homophobics, but I've met people who feel that one needs to "pick a side" or that if anyone does identify as bisexual it's because they are trying to ... more
I've dealt with that as well. I was shocked at a family dinner when the conversation turned to a girl who was "too attractive" to be a lesbian. I was genuinely pissed that anyone in my family could be that ignorant as to think that only "ugly" girls should be lesbians cause no guy wants them.
11/01/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
When I first came out, I had a lot of people tell me that I must actually be either a) a straight girl looking for attention, b) a closeted lesbian using bisexuality as a buffer zone against being "really" gay, or else c) a huge, indiscriminate slut. I've never gotten beaten up for it or anything, there are far worse possible situations, but people are really nasty about it sometimes.
11/11/2012
Contributor: Luca77 Luca77
I suppose I have been against myself. Self-acceptance and such. I don't know anyone else who's actually bi. Just back in high school the ones doing it for attention.
11/13/2012
Contributor: smlove smlove
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Originally posted by Glinteye
Have you ever experienced bi phobia?
Yes. and I was extremely surprised that "Talk Sex With Sue" had some of it too. she said "Honey, if your man is bisexual, you have no guarantee that he won't cheat on you. it's inevitable.".....
11/16/2012
Contributor: Khroma Khroma
I've been told I have to choose on gender or else I would break my potential partner's heart.
I think that's ridiculous though. If they can't handle me being bi, then I probably shouldn't be dating them anyway.
11/20/2012