Pegging

Pegging

freud13 freud13
Does anyone have good suggestions on dildos to use for pegging? I don't like using a harness so I prefer something that works well with a rodeo style harness or a double ended dildo, but most of those are large for beginners to being pegged so I was hoping for some suggestions.
Thanks!
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We've tried a Rodeo harness and found it wanting. The Velvet Nest harness is still feminine - but much easier to use. As far as dildos go - if your going with the Rodeo or Velvet Nest - it's best to stay away from dildos with balls. There are nice Tantus silicone dildo options depending on your size preference.

Anal sex can be a challenge - I would not use anything less than high quality silicone. The last thing you need is to have a burning ass because of a reaction to a cheap jelly, PVC or vinyl dildo.

Best of luck and enjoy the journey.
Apr 21, 12:44 am
Lena Eden Lena Eden
Have you ever tried strapless strap-ons like Duo?

Another great option with a vibrating shaft is the Vibrating Harness Kit It stimulates both of you in the most pleasurable way. I highly recommend you reading PolyLove's review on that.
Apr 27, 4:42 am
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Lena Eden
Have you ever tried strapless strap-ons like Duo?

Another great option with a vibrating shaft is the Vibrating Harness Kit It stimulates both of you in the most pleasurable way. I highly recommend you reading PolyLove's review on that. ...
We once tried the Fun Factory Share (like the Duo) but it didn't work out too well. These products try to be all things to all people and generally fail for at least one, if not both of the partners.

Specifically, the 'pony' that the woman tries to hold in vaginally - requires a lot of muscle control that detracts from the overall experience - popping out at all the wrong times. As for the receiver, it's a geometry problem. Taking into account the locations of all the key anatomical openings - the shaft just isn't long enough - again popping out at all the wrong times.

I get it - leather harnesses are intimidating for beginners. So after the Share failure we tried a panty harness from RodeoH. This was definitely a step in the right direction - but it was pretty limited in the size of dildo that it could handle - not much bigger than 1.5" diameter.

The next step was a Velvet Nest cloth harness with a Velcro closure that accommodates large dildos - great product - but a bit expensive.

After all this trial and error I finally found a leather harness that was comfortable for my wife and effective for me. Caution - not all leather harnesses are created equal - buyer beware.

To solve the problem of vibrations wanted/needed by my partner. We take a multi step approach.

1. We have a vibrating cock-ring to put on a dildo that I insert vaginally for her before donning the harness. The straps of the harness do a reasonable job of holding the dildo in place for her
2. We have a vibrating butt plug for her that is both strong and stays in place.

After a bit of trial and error, my wife can now reliably orgasm while pegging me - so great fun is had by all!
May 4, 1:30 pm
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