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Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
My boyfriend and I want to purchase a strap-on kit, so that we can try pegging. We have looked at a few, but it seems that all the realistic dildos are rubber, and we have (basically), a no rubber rule in place when purchasing toys. He is looking at the Slim Jim, and the Perk the most for a strap on set.

I can't seem to find anything that is realistic, that isn't so expensive I'd want to cry that isn't rubber. Can anyone help? He says that he believes if he gets the Slim Jim, he will become bored with it very quickly. Can anyone offer suggestions of other things to try that aren't too expensive, aren't rubber (silicone would be good), are some-what realistic, and are close to the dimensions of the Slim Jim?

Thanks
11/02/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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11/02/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
You should look at the Vixskin selection, I think you might like the Raquel. There is also the Mistress. I know those aren't overly realistic, but the smaller ones tend to be less realistic.
11/02/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
The Silk Medium is an often-suggested beginner pegging dildo, though it's not really realistic. If you're looking for shape and not color for the realism, the O2 Cush might be an option. O2 Mark is a more realistic alternative, though both are thicker than what you're looking for.

If truly realistic and silicone is what you are looking for though, you're going to have to pay for it.
11/02/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
What price point are you trying to stay in? And are you specifically looking for realistic?
11/02/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Almost (if not all) of these are on sale right now. I put them in the price category that they would fall into when NOT on sale. Also, out of curiosity, is the reason for realistic for gender role-play or for blow jobs? In other words, why are you only interested in realistic? (not that it matters, I'm just curious and nosy!)

Lower price range (under $35):

Please, Compact, Acute (semi-realistc), Super (realistic)

Mid price range (between $35-60):

Perk (semi realistic), Mistress (I have this and recommend NOT GLITTER as the texture is a little different, it's also semi-realistic), VIP(realistic), Goliath (realistic), Hottie (semi-realistic), Leo (We also have this and it's something we had to work up to)

High Price Range ($60+):

Spur (realistic), Tex (realistic), [https://www.edenfantasys.com/dildos/realistic-dildos/bandit|
11/02/2011
Contributor: Eucaly Eucaly
The Leo isn't too expensive, isn't rubber, and comes in these realistic colors:





However it is 1 1/2 inches diameter instead of the 1 1/4 inches of the Slim Jim.
11/02/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I'd suggest getting a solid well-made harness with an O-ring and then swap out dildos. You get the most variety and comfort that way.

BBW is on the right track with dildos though.
11/02/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
My last link is the Bandit
11/02/2011
Contributor: BBW Talks Toys BBW Talks Toys
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
I'd suggest getting a solid well-made harness with an O-ring and then swap out dildos. You get the most variety and comfort that way.

BBW is on the right track with dildos though.
Oooh, harnesses. YUMMMM!

Keep in mind with harnesses that if you decide to invest in a leather harness, you are only wearing that with one partner. No sterilizing the leather. So if you break up, the harness breaks up too.

There are lots of amazing harnesses out there. I can't even begin to give you suggestions without knowing what you're interested in and what your hip size is.
11/02/2011
Contributor: Toys in Love Toys in Love
I would second (or third or fourth) the VixSkin toys. They are exceptional
11/03/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Have you considered purchasing the harness and dildo separately?

If you know that you will enjoy strap-on play then I would definitely recommend focusing on purchasing a quality harness. You could then pair it with a high quality silicone dildo ...or several of your choice. I think you'll have much better results that way.


As far as harnesses, the Spareparts harness is quite popular. It is a little pricey though especially for a beginner.



Others have recommended some great dildos to consider. I'd suggest sticking with 100% silicone. Tantus, Vixen and Happy Valley offer a great assortment of sizes and shapes. I'll also add the Sedeux Flare to the list of Dildos to consider. It is reasonably priced and a good size for a beginner.

Good luck and have fun!
11/03/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Almost (if not all) of these are on sale right now. I put them in the price category that they would fall into when NOT on sale. Also, out of curiosity, is the reason for realistic for gender role-play or for blow jobs? In other words, why are you ... more
We are looking for realistic gender role-play I think I am always whining that I don't have a penis, and I would love to peg him him with something realistic :3 Does that answer?
11/03/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Quote:
Originally posted by BBW Talks Toys
Almost (if not all) of these are on sale right now. I put them in the price category that they would fall into when NOT on sale. Also, out of curiosity, is the reason for realistic for gender role-play or for blow jobs? In other words, why are you ... more
We are looking for realistic gender role-play I think I am always whining that I don't have a penis, and I would love to peg him him with something realistic :3 Does that answer?
11/03/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Thanks so much, everyone, for your suggestions!!
11/03/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Bites
We are looking for realistic gender role-play I think I am always whining that I don't have a penis, and I would love to peg him him with something realistic :3 Does that answer?
The Goodfella may be just the ticket!
11/03/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
Seriously, thank you all We are looking at a few, and we liked some of what was mentioned and are considering it. We have come down to two harnesses we are looking at trying, and two or three dildos to buy along with it
11/04/2011
Contributor: Jaimes Jaimes
Check out the RodeoH's! Nice, comfy, affordable and universal harnesses. Might help free up a few bucks for a nice dildo!
11/04/2011
Contributor: dv8 dv8


The Menage a trois for two harness set includes the Sedeux Flare.
11/04/2011