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Has your sexual orientation changed over the years?

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Contributor: hanjonatan hanjonatan
for the bisexuals-

has your sexual orientation stayed pretty much the same for as long as you remember, or have you found yourself becoming more interested in a particular gender and less in another over the years?

like, i was definitely gayer in my teens than i am now, and i've gone back and forth a few times between, like, a kinsey 2 and a 5, for example. what's your experience been with this?
11/07/2012
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Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
I found that I became more into transgenders than what I had been as a bisexual teenager. Now I'm pansexual after really thinking things through and realizing what my sexuality is. Can't say the same for my brother, he's stayed Asexual all his life so far.
11/07/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
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Originally posted by hanjonatan
for the bisexuals-

has your sexual orientation stayed pretty much the same for as long as you remember, or have you found yourself becoming more interested in a particular gender and less in another over the years?

like, i was ... more
No.
11/07/2012
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I'm much less inhibited now. My apprehension over what someone else may think is way way less than when I was still a stupid kid.
11/07/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
I've always been bi.
11/07/2012
Contributor: Luca77 Luca77
My preference has definitely changed. I'm into men and women about equally. Not that that means I've gotten to act on it haha. Whenever I do get something going it always changes my preferences a bit. So over time it can move.
11/08/2012
Contributor: Lacey- Lacey-
My orientation has definitely changed over time. I used to consider myself a lesbian, probably a 5 on the Kinsey scale. But more recently, I've been around a 3, or even 2.5 at times. I feel like my orientation has been a bit fluid lately, so I sometimes avoid labels because I think they might not be accurate or long.
11/18/2012
Contributor: nori nori
I started off as straight, bi-curious, bi, back to mostly straight, then confused, then queer, then 2/3 lesbian, now back to queer.
11/20/2012
Contributor: needapacker needapacker
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Originally posted by Kitten has left the site
I found that I became more into transgenders than what I had been as a bisexual teenager. Now I'm pansexual after really thinking things through and realizing what my sexuality is. Can't say the same for my brother, he's stayed Asexual ... more
Saying you're attracted to "transgenders" is really rude and fetishizing. Trans men are men and trans women are women and they are really no different that other men or women.
12/21/2012
Contributor: needapacker needapacker
I think mine has changed but I've always been bisexual, my prefference just shifted.
12/21/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
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Originally posted by hanjonatan
for the bisexuals-

has your sexual orientation stayed pretty much the same for as long as you remember, or have you found yourself becoming more interested in a particular gender and less in another over the years?

like, i was ... more
when wouldnt say my sexual orientation has changed, but i have become more accepting of it. ten years ago, i completely rejected my attraction towards girls. im working on embracing it, but it is very difficult.
01/19/2013