Favorite Lesbian Positions

Contributor: crushemall crushemall
I'm a 80/20 bisexual with a preference for men, but every once in awhile, I am SO turned on by women. I've especially been really turned on by women and want to re-discover lesbian relationships.

I love to get penetrated, am very kinky, and love to be dominated. With my last lesbian relationship, I got very few of these satisfied. I feel liked with women, it's harder to establish I want to be penetrated and taken control of, as well as have multiple positions - not just go down on each other! It really frustrated me.

Do any of you bi/lez women (or anyone with advice!) have any advice with their favorite girl on girl positions, fun things to try (without being too awkard - I'm usually with fuck buddies or one night stands, not established relationships), ways to get off without the usual eating each other out??


Thanks in advance! I'm excited to get back on the girl train!
09/20/2010
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09/20/2010
Contributor: Madeira Madeira
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I'm a 80/20 bisexual with a preference for men, but every once in awhile, I am SO turned on by women. I've especially been really turned on by women and want to re-discover lesbian relationships.

I love to get penetrated, am very ... more
Um, well oral's great, I've found that 69 is waaaay better with two girls than with a guy and a girl. Um, dry humping's awesome, Fingers inserted from behind (with the receiving partner in sort of "doggy style" position.
09/20/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I'm a 80/20 bisexual with a preference for men, but every once in awhile, I am SO turned on by women. I've especially been really turned on by women and want to re-discover lesbian relationships.

I love to get penetrated, am very ... more
I'm not a lesbian, but I would assume, and have been told by lesbian friends that bringing toys, including penetrating toys into the relationship works well for many people. The need to want to be penetrated is not just one Hetero women feel. Anything beyond that, you'll need to ask someone who knows more.
09/20/2010
Contributor: Loveli Loveli
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I'm a 80/20 bisexual with a preference for men, but every once in awhile, I am SO turned on by women. I've especially been really turned on by women and want to re-discover lesbian relationships.

I love to get penetrated, am very ... more
Tribbing! Tribbing! Tribbing! It's the main thing I enjoy about being with women. With one partner lying on their back and one leg up in the air, the other person can get on top (scissor style) and whine and grind the night away. This is especially effective for having an orgasm because the clit tends to expand and can go in and out of your pussy while you ride your partner.

Some people like to trib with stockings on for added fun. I prefer flesh to flesh, but sometimes I do wear crotchless bikini's and lingerie. It just looks good and makes you feel extra sexy!

Also, try using double dildos, so you can get the penetration simultaneously with clit to clit stimulation.

If you haven't done this already, try to be creative with the way you have oral sex. Instead of just lying flat on your back; one partner can bend over while the other eats them out from behind. Let your tongue explore if you're in to that.

Good luck with the experimentation and have fun! Let us know what worked for you.
09/24/2010
Contributor: ButchAndFemme ButchAndFemme
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I'm a 80/20 bisexual with a preference for men, but every once in awhile, I am SO turned on by women. I've especially been really turned on by women and want to re-discover lesbian relationships.

I love to get penetrated, am very ... more
As a butch in what might be defined as a stereotypical lesbian relationship, I can say that we have a great sexual dynamic because she loves to be dominated and penetrated and I love to be on the giving end of that.

It seems to be quite rare that we meet other lesbians couples that adhere to such defined roles in the bedroom, but it works for us. Most of our friends are what we call "tweeners" and kind of bounce back and fourth from giving and receiving, but seem quite sexually satisfied.

Not that this has complete bearing on how someone is in bed, but when you're talking to lesbians that you might be interested in sleeping with, look for someone who is outgoing and aggressive when it comes to talking to you. Before you hop in to bed with her, try to get a read on what she likes to do in bed and what excites her. You might just find out that what you're looking for is compatible with what she likes. If you go to gay bars or clubs, dance with a girl you'd like to hook up with. The way a person dances can tell a lot about what they're like in bed.

Unfortunately, some lesbians will question your desire to be with a woman if you reveal that you really enjoy penetration. This is one thing about the lesbian community that I absolutely despise.

I'm convinced you'll have the experience you're looking for, you just have to look for the signs. (=

Good luck!
10/20/2010
Contributor: blissfulqueen blissfulqueen
mmm... I love anything where I'm the giver!

But seriously, I LOVE tribbing, and I love tribbing with like a 12in double dildo. That way you get the pleasure of penetration and its short enough, where you can grind your clits against each other.

I love strap-on play -- both giving and receiving - either in variable missionary type positions, her on top, or doggie. As well as 69 (the added extra pleasure of giving, gets me going SOOO OMG much, that it doesn't take me long to orgasm).

As ButchAndFemme put it, I would consider myself a tweener. I got back and forth between giving and receiving -- but I mostly like giving.
10/24/2010
Contributor: SXEKAT SXEKAT
I love any positions but my favorite would have to be tribbing or the "Scissor position" I love riding or being riddi'n by my partner and being able to see there faces in pleasure. So yeah I love tribbing
10/31/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
I love receiving, my girl on top of me both my hands free to feel all up on here. Love tribbing, and also using a strap on, having my girl talk dirty to me drives me wild.
11/02/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I'm a 80/20 bisexual with a preference for men, but every once in awhile, I am SO turned on by women. I've especially been really turned on by women and want to re-discover lesbian relationships.

I love to get penetrated, am very ... more
Any position that keeps me close to my girl is perfect!
11/02/2010
Contributor: kermi91 kermi91
I'm a huge advocate of "doggy style." Whether it's strapping up or using my fingers, there is nothing sexier than being behind a woman and workin it out! A trick I've learned with my girlfriend is turning my fingers down, like I'm aiming for her belly button. Drives her crazy and in turn, gets me all types of turned on!
11/10/2010
Contributor: Triple X Moma Triple X Moma
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I'm a 80/20 bisexual with a preference for men, but every once in awhile, I am SO turned on by women. I've especially been really turned on by women and want to re-discover lesbian relationships.

I love to get penetrated, am very ... more
I found that using a strap on is good.
08/11/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
Doggy style, any day. With fingers or a strap on.
08/21/2011
Contributor: zz1aag zz1aag
I would suggest getting some lube...get all wet and slipperyy..ull be surpriced on all the wonders and doors it can open to. have crazy wet fun..hehe
08/22/2011
Contributor: Tangerine Tangerine
Good Luck with that one. It seems to be a little ackward and a little too personal for the girl on girl one night stands.(my opinion) Fuck buddies may be a better and safer choice. What ever you can do with a guy you should be able to do with a girl if you have the right toys. I think if you want to fully enjoy the lesbian sex maybe have someone that is willing to experiment and stick around long enough through trial and error. I have to say I am VERY lucky with my partner, usually I miss the roughness and penetration with a guy. Not anymore. Since I have someone I can discuss and try new things with I now see that this is WAY better then sex with a guy (sorry fellas) there is just a larger variety of things we can do, and ways to start. Try watching some porn to get ideas
01/04/2012
Contributor: zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I'm a 80/20 bisexual with a preference for men, but every once in awhile, I am SO turned on by women. I've especially been really turned on by women and want to re-discover lesbian relationships.

I love to get penetrated, am very ... more
I think its pretty hot if you wear a strap on, for the url to ride you. Sexy view and feels so sexy. Total turn on.
06/03/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Missionary Tribbing
Strap-On Doggy
06/03/2012
Contributor: zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by crushemall
I'm a 80/20 bisexual with a preference for men, but every once in awhile, I am SO turned on by women. I've especially been really turned on by women and want to re-discover lesbian relationships.

I love to get penetrated, am very ... more
missionary
10/13/2012
Contributor: Asher Asher
Strapping in doggy style....that can be super hot
10/14/2012
Contributor: Bittenflame Bittenflame
Strapping in doggy style, or if you can manage to go upside down. I mean hand stand upside down. Italian chandeliar can also be fun
10/15/2012