I'm just curious here as to how often gay and lesbian men and women actually have penetrative sex. For heterosexual sex it's often what people think of as "real" sex, but I know that I think of much more than penetration as sex when it comes to myself.
How about you all? How often do you have penetrative sex? How important is it?
How about you all? How often do you have penetrative sex? How important is it?