I've heard of a lot of fellow lesbians who prefer to NOT use toys, but rather use their hands/mouths/bodies to please their lovers. What are your preferences?
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Ladies, toys or no toys?
11/28/2013
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I'm not a lesbian, I'm straight & I do prefer a real body to a toy, that is, if the guy is any good. otherwise, just give me my vibes.
11/28/2013
My ex-girlfriend and I were a little of both. The strap-on usually only came out if one of us was very, very, very horny or drunk. Every now and then we would use a bullet vibrator.
My current boyfriend and I will do half and half as well, which I find to be very exciting.
My current boyfriend and I will do half and half as well, which I find to be very exciting.
11/28/2013
I love my toys, don't get me wrong, and strapping up for somebody special is one of my favorite things, but nothing beats using what you have to please your partner. It's such a fuller sexual experience and, in my opinion, feels more intimate than using toys. My female partners and I definitely use toys sometimes but they aren't the standard. I'd rather use my fingers and tongue to get a girl off than a vibrator most of the time.
12/03/2013
I prefer a little of both every time. Whatever makes the moment hottest at the time
01/11/2014
sometimes...sometimes not. depends on the moment
01/29/2014
I find the two entirely separate. Penises have these things called humans attached to them, who tend to be more uncontrollable, unpredictable, and cuddly than my toys. Toys, on the other hand, often have sensations that differ from penises. It depends on what I'm in the mood for.
01/29/2014
Vaginally I prefer my hubbies penis or fingers and like to play with toys once in a while, But I almost always prefer a vibe for my clit.
03/13/2014
I love my toys. Give me give me give me!
03/17/2014
I enjoy toys, but am also happy without.
03/29/2014
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I sure cannot speak for anyone but myself, a hetero gal who loves her toys, but I do know one of my co-workers, who is lesbian and in a long term committed relationship, and she shops for toys online all the time. I have to assume she uses them!
Originally posted by
icelandia
I've heard of a lot of fellow lesbians who prefer to NOT use toys, but rather use their hands/mouths/bodies to please their lovers. What are your preferences?
09/13/2014
My partner and I use toys, no shame there as lesbians! But maybe only half of the time, possibly even less. Toys can get distracting- changing functions on vibes or batteries dying, having to stop and put on a harness, etc. But they also can be a lot of fun and add variety to things and I personally am a big fan of both wearing a strap on and when my partner uses one on me. Being disabled toys can help when my energy is low but then holding and using a heavier toy or one that requires my arm/hand be in an u usual position can also be painful. She uses toys more than me because if I'm not well enough I'm an awesome dirty talker and help that way.
With all of that said there's something so good, so intimate and hot about feeling her body with my mouth and hands, feeling her orgasm while my fingers are inside of her. And sex toys just do not and will never have the same feel or the warmth of her hands or mouth on me.
I've definitely heard of lesbians who don't use toys but I'm pretty sure they're in minority. If anything I would guess lesbians often have far bigger collections than straight couples! And I think some women, believe it or not, are still not aware of their options- not all sex toys are penetrative, not all look like male genitalia and by extension not all sex shops are anti women or unfriendly to lesbians, etc. (those are some of the reasons some lesbians refuse toys).
With all of that said there's something so good, so intimate and hot about feeling her body with my mouth and hands, feeling her orgasm while my fingers are inside of her. And sex toys just do not and will never have the same feel or the warmth of her hands or mouth on me.
I've definitely heard of lesbians who don't use toys but I'm pretty sure they're in minority. If anything I would guess lesbians often have far bigger collections than straight couples! And I think some women, believe it or not, are still not aware of their options- not all sex toys are penetrative, not all look like male genitalia and by extension not all sex shops are anti women or unfriendly to lesbians, etc. (those are some of the reasons some lesbians refuse toys).
10/09/2014
A bit of both: sometimes we use toys, sometimes we don't!
To be honest, some people seem intimated by toys, as if they by themselves aren't good enough for their partner, etc.
We find toys both wonderfully fun, and they feel good and they're pretty. It doesn't lessen our experience, and we still pleasure each other in other ways with and without toys. Oral PLUS a vibe? Definitely a good thing.
To be honest, some people seem intimated by toys, as if they by themselves aren't good enough for their partner, etc.
We find toys both wonderfully fun, and they feel good and they're pretty. It doesn't lessen our experience, and we still pleasure each other in other ways with and without toys. Oral PLUS a vibe? Definitely a good thing.
10/12/2014
Live-love-laugh
Sometimes I use toys, sometimes I don't. Depends on the mood.
12/15/2014
I use toys cause I live alone.. Period
02/13/2015
sweetlikecandy
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It depends on our mood. Most of the time toys aren't needed though.
Originally posted by
icelandia
I've heard of a lot of fellow lesbians who prefer to NOT use toys, but rather use their hands/mouths/bodies to please their lovers. What are your preferences?
03/28/2015
I would be open to using toys, but I generally haven't in the past. I don't love using toys with other people, but I'm sure I could in the right situation. My past sexual experiences have been somewhat limited.
09/02/2015
My GF had never really had the opportunity to use sex toys. Her previous GFs were pretty selfish and only wanted her to please them. She said she may had had 3 sex toys she used on people. She had a small bullet for herself, and that's it. Well, I have a BUNCH of toys, and so, I've been opening her eyes (and thighs) to the sex toy fun! We use them maybe half of the time, but we love to please each other with fingers and tongues even more. I feel it's more intimate too.
12/24/2015
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A bit of both: sometimes we use toys, sometimes we don't
Originally posted by
icelandia
I've heard of a lot of fellow lesbians who prefer to NOT use toys, but rather use their hands/mouths/bodies to please their lovers. What are your preferences?
05/22/2017
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Is there really any reason to avoid toys??
Originally posted by
louise83
A bit of both: sometimes we use toys, sometimes we don't
05/23/2017
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Only if it causes you to neglect your SO
Originally posted by
Lena Eden
Is there really any reason to avoid toys??
Solution, get some toys for him/ her too
07/15/2017
Gaygirl04
Yes and no. Just to make it interesting and a little spice lets have some toys.
12/26/2017
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