Strap-On Advice

Contributor: Ace <3 Ace <3
My girlfriend and I have been considering getting a strap-on to change up some of our sexual experiences. We are no beginners to toys and the like, but neither of us have used a strap-on before. What style would be the best? Are there pros/cons of using a strap-on instead of just using the toys themselves?
08/24/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
Perceptive forum discussions on Strap on dildo:

Strap on fitting size 0 regular?
So I am looking for a harness that I can use with a double ended strapon (such as share or feeldoe). I noticed Spareparts Joque can be used with these

Strap-on Harness designed for your face
I've seen these sorts of strap ons in a lot of videos, and was wondering what everyone's thoughts are on them? Basically, it mounts a dildo to your...

Is the Nexus Jr. compatible with the Jaguar strap on harness?
After tons of research I have finally decided on the white Jaguars strap-on harness. Normally compatible dildos are found in the section just...

Good strap on for beginners?
First time for me using and my girl receiving. We don't want to break the bank, but something functional, easy, and pretty would be nice. Suggestions?

First time strap on sex for guys?
so strap on sex has always been a topic of discussion between my girlfriend and i, and now our discussions will be put to rest as we will be trying it
08/24/2011
Contributor: zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by Ace <3
My girlfriend and I have been considering getting a strap-on to change up some of our sexual experiences. We are no beginners to toys and the like, but neither of us have used a strap-on before. What style would be the best? Are there pros/cons of ... more
I like the Curve Kit from Tantus. I got midnight purple. Its the only one ive tried but it hasnt gone wrong. experience with it for over 2 years! haha..good luck
08/30/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I'm kind of in the same position. Although, I've got more experience with toys than she does, neither of us have any experience with a strap-on.

The biggest hurdle that I'm coming to is finding a kit or separate dong that doesn't look like a real penis, or has the remote shape of one. It's a huge turn-off for my girlfriend and I'm not too wild about it looking like the real thing either.
09/07/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
We just got the joque spare parts harness and it's pretty amazing. Super easy to use and adjust, and everything stays in place. It's expensive but totally worth it.
09/08/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Using a strap on to peg is more intimate than just using a dildo. If you think you will use it often wait for the sale & get a harness like the Joque by Spareparts & then a slimmer silicone dildo. We went for a cheaper harness and didn't enjoy it the 1s time, but after the Joque we both really enjoy pegging.
11/22/2011
Contributor: DoubleDyke DoubleDyke
My girlfriend and I bought a harness and dildo early on in our relationship. she was no stranger to toys, but it was my first time. since we are both vegetarians, we purchased the Vegan Commando harness. It's super easy to clean, and since it's not real leather doesn't need to be treated. we decided to go on the smaller side with the dildo, and got the Mistress Vibe, which is a really pretty light turquoise color.

I prefer using the harness to playing with the toy by itself because it feels more intimate, and I like feeling the skin to skin contact when using it from behind. It also gives the wearer a feeling of being more in control. I especially enjoy being able to use it while seated
11/23/2011
Contributor: Gingy Gingy
My partner and I got a FunFactory Share early on in our relationship. We wanted a strapless strap on to avoid having to buy a harness but found the Share frustrating on its own. At first I bought a pair of boys underwear and used them as a harness and i will admit that they worked exceptionally well at keeping the Share in me! they just aren't all that sexy so we bought a Aslan Jaguar.
For the longest time the share just frustrated me until I got the underpants working for me then it was pretty damn amazing and my girlfriend would agree.
11/23/2011
Contributor: Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
we love our aslan jaguar, add the dildo of your choice
01/09/2012
Contributor: zz1aag zz1aag
Quote:
Originally posted by Ace <3
My girlfriend and I have been considering getting a strap-on to change up some of our sexual experiences. We are no beginners to toys and the like, but neither of us have used a strap-on before. What style would be the best? Are there pros/cons of ... more
i love the curve by tantus
09/24/2012
Contributor: Innocent Mathias Innocent Mathias
im in the same boat buddy
10/30/2012
Contributor: buttcleavage buttcleavage
i really want a strap-on eventually.
10/31/2012
Contributor: Innocent Mathias Innocent Mathias
Quote:
Originally posted by buttcleavage
i really want a strap-on eventually.
me to
11/21/2012
Contributor: Innocent Mathias Innocent Mathias
Quote:
Originally posted by buttcleavage
i really want a strap-on eventually.
me to
11/21/2012
Contributor: Asher Asher
Try the Share...
11/24/2012