Would you have a threesome, why or why not?

Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
Pros and cons of having a threesome
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes ( Two girls and one guy)
115
Yes ( Two guys and one girl)
97
Yes ( three people of the same sex)
96
I haven't thought about it
4
Never
27
Just, No.
51
Total votes: 390 (240 voters)
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Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
Nothing wrong with a threesome as long as everyone is on the same page and is comfortable with the act and anything that may or may not occur afterwards.
11/04/2010
Contributor: meganthomas meganthomas
Why, yes... yes, I would =)
11/04/2010
Contributor: mnc5051 mnc5051
I have ;-)
11/04/2010
Contributor: TitsMcScandal TitsMcScandal
I have. FFM and MMF.

I would love to do a FFF though.
11/05/2010
Contributor: Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
Quote:
Originally posted by TitsMcScandal
I have. FFM and MMF.

I would love to do a FFF though.
i have thought about it, it would be nice but i am keeping it a fantasy because my partner has a past of cheating and I couldn't deal with getting cheated on again
11/05/2010
Contributor: gone77 gone77
I've often thought about threesomes and wouldn't mind being involved in one or more. MMF FFM FFF All sounds good to me! lol As for pros and cons, I think that's up the individuals.
11/05/2010
Contributor: Kimbertrees Kimbertrees
I've thought about them, but once I'm in a committed relationship I have a small problem with sharing.
11/07/2010
Contributor: trios trios
Would love to, do it in my imagination all the time. Will never really, for practical reasons. Always a fantasy it will be!
11/07/2010
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
no I am way too jealous of a person to do that.
11/07/2010
Contributor: ButchAndFemme ButchAndFemme
Tried an all girl threesome... screwed my relationship for a good few months. )=
11/09/2010
Contributor: kermi91 kermi91
My girlfriend and I were actually just approached about having one the other night. Although I've never had one, I'm not opposed, just don't think I could do it while in a relationship that I really care about. Heard too many horror stories. Plus we were approached by an ex in that situation...
11/10/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
I think lots of people think about it, for sure. And I also think the relationship that a person is in influences whether they act on it. Those things change for people over time. For some people, what you answer now could be different in a few years.
11/10/2010
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
Pros and cons of having a threesome
too many things that could go wrong/I'm paranoid of getting an std too remember the pornstar who tested negative for HIV like 2 days before his shoot and infected others? Maybe another person to help with other things just like spanking or things like that lol
11/10/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
Pros and cons of having a threesome
Yes I would and have had threesomes. No it's not terribly risky so long as you do your homework and make sure your partner(s) are clean and sane. Yes it can mind fuck a relationship that is not prepared for the strain.

If you have a history of cheating this won't bring you closer unless you have dealt with the underlying issues behind the cheating. In the polyamory forum there is some wonderful indepth discussion about this issue and some great advice.
11/10/2010
Contributor: 00 00
Yes.Have participated. Have been a part of a MMF 3-way and also part of a FFM 3-way.
11/10/2010
Contributor: socceras socceras
Ive thought about it but I dont think i would ever do it
11/10/2010
Contributor: lamira lamira
I've had a few threesomes. Always me - one girl - and two other guys. I would not do it again. It's not satisfying, intimate, or real, just sex without any emotions.
11/10/2010
Contributor: blissfulqueen blissfulqueen
I have a couple threesomes - FFM, as well as FFF. Everyone involved knew each other, and the 3rd person involved were definitely not unknowns. My FFF was with an exgf and a past FWB (I guess you can say - WAAAY more friend than benefit, although the benefit was good lol). None of my threesomes screwed up my relationship - if anything it threw a spark into it. But it all just depends on the people involved, just like any semi-no strings type of thing...
11/11/2010
Contributor: Lavendar Menace Lavendar Menace
I might try it. Maybe.
11/11/2010
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Not going to happen. Not even a real fantasy.
11/11/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
Been there. Done that. And I really do have a tshirt! (it has 2 stick men and a lady stick girl all holding hands *snickers*)
11/13/2010
Contributor: sexyeri sexyeri
Quote:
Originally posted by Jobthingy
Been there. Done that. And I really do have a tshirt! (it has 2 stick men and a lady stick girl all holding hands *snickers*)
that's awesome!
11/23/2010
Contributor: lemony lemony
Why not? Seems like a great learning experience.
11/26/2010
Contributor: Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
I always fantasize about doing MMM and MMF. However, I have no idea how one would initiate such a proposal.
12/15/2010
Contributor: Lady Neshamah Lady Neshamah
yes, yes and yes. for us it wasso much fun.
12/16/2010
Contributor: AussieSarah AussieSarah
Havent tried it but kinda have a little fetish for being double teamed by two guys. Either DP or spit roast i think they call it, with one guy having me from behind while im sucking off the other in doggystyle type position.

Would be so erotic!!
12/16/2010
Contributor: darkkitty darkkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by Lif3sambiguity
Pros and cons of having a threesome
There are no cons as long as ppl are secure with no jealousy issues!!! The more the merrier!
12/20/2010
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
As much as I'd like to, not every idea that gives me an erection is necessarily good for me. Some say that threesomes don't affect their marriage in any negative way, but I don't believe it. If I was to have a threesome, I could never again say to my wife that she is the only one for me, and no matter how I try to spin it, my heart tells me it's wrong.
12/20/2010
Contributor: joja joja
I'm interested in threesomes, mostly MMF, though I am also open to FFM and FFF. My boyfriend, however, has been in an FFM and says it's really not all it's cracked up to be. He said that one girl is plenty for him, and two is just extra work and potential awkwardness. Still working on convincing him to try again
12/22/2010
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Unique posters: 123