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Contributor: Seventeen Seventeen
I'm a MTF trans, and I'm in the middle of my hormone treatment. This involves both testo-blockers and estro-patches. The end result: Cockfailure. Getting erect is a hassle, and even after that, I don't really feel much from it right up untill the point of orgasm.

Breast growth is there, and nipples are sensitive. As for anal play.. I'd rather not right now for reasons I'm not comfortable with discussing here ^^; sorry.

With all this in your head now, is there anything you could advise me on toy-wise? :s I really want to get more sexually active, and thought this may be a great place to start seeing as the community is large, active and above all; extremely friendly (for as far as I've seen in my short time here :p)

Any non-existant review experience kept out of the picture.. Do you have any advice for little me? Any toys I could still end up having a great time with and possibly review? (I'm looking forward to reviewing I really want to try it out and be helpful with it)

Thanks in advance for any replies! - and I hope I made sense. I sometimes absolutely don't. Feel free to ask for clarification :p
10/20/2011
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Contributor: Ansley Ansley
Welcome to Eden! Are you into lingerie at all? I think it would be very helpful to the community to have reviews on clothing items written from a MTF point of view, it would help men interested in cross-dressing. You could also review any of the bondage toys and nipple clamps. Then when you're comfortable with anal play, you could start reviewing those products. Oh and there also are books and DVDs that need reviews.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I can definitely second the lingerie reviewing! We also have lots of massage and bath products, too. But you asked about toys. As far as I know of, the nipple clamps and jewelry are a good start; most of them do have adjustable tension so they don't have to be 'clothespin-hard' when you use them.

Congratulations on your journey, and welcome to the land of Eden.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Stormy and Chilipepper both have great suggestions with the lingerie, nipple clamps, and bondage toys, so I'm not sure what else I can add there. But I wanted to welcome you to the community, congratulate you on your journey, and say that I look forward to seeing you around!
10/20/2011
Contributor: Seventeen Seventeen
Lingerie.. I completely did not think of that at all o.o I do always look at the ladies wearing them in envy, so perhaps I should just give it a go! Though I would definitely have to think on my review for that..

I see some great suggestions here I guess I'll have a look around, I was just a bit lost in what I couldn't have, ehe.

Thanks for the great input! Now all I have to do is face the $25 shipping costs ..
10/20/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Seventeen
Lingerie.. I completely did not think of that at all o.o I do always look at the ladies wearing them in envy, so perhaps I should just give it a go! Though I would definitely have to think on my review for that..

I see some great suggestions ... more
I think you definitely bring a perspective that will be useful at EF. A ton of lingerie and costumes have become available in the past few weeks, so hopefully you can find something you would like to review.

Also, you may want to consider the Mentor Program. You can get free assignments for reviews and the shipping is free. Here is a thread with more information: link

Welcome to the community!
10/20/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Also, personal care items, like massage oils, massage oil/wax candles, body cleaning and shaving products, gag gifts, things like the Liberator shapes and Throes, jewelry, (yes, we have some jewelry, most of it is nipple or clit jewelry, but still) BDSM toys are great, if you are into them. Gender identity makes no difference for most of this stuff.

And I third trying lingerie, stockings, garter belts, gloves, panties etc.

There is a LOT here.

Good luck shopping and looking. I agree the Mentor Program would help you a lot, too.

Welcome to Eden!
10/20/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
If you want to learn more about sexuality, books and DVDs would always be an option as well. There are some good sensual/bath products too which you could look into.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Quote:
Originally posted by Seventeen
Lingerie.. I completely did not think of that at all o.o I do always look at the ladies wearing them in envy, so perhaps I should just give it a go! Though I would definitely have to think on my review for that..

I see some great suggestions ... more
I'm more than happy to help you with lingerie reviews if you decide to do them. I definitely think you'd be able to provide a unique and very helpful perspective
10/20/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
You've gotten some great advice on potential items to review. I just wanted to add that if you get something and find that X or Y about it doesn't work for you because of your circumstances, include that in your review! It could be really helpful for anyone else in your position.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Seventeen Seventeen
I would like to hand out bucketloads of thanks for the replies I'm usually a little forumshy since I don't always do that well :p I've had my fair share of scoldings by entire communities..

But I've gotten a lot of help here! And I'm definitely looking forward to getting some things done! I'm excited

Thanks again! <3
10/20/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Can't give any better advice or ideas than what's already been shared, but I can say Welcome to the Community!
10/20/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
How about dvd's, books, novelty-fun items, penis pumps, cockrings.
10/20/2011
Contributor: eroticmutt eroticmutt
Quote:
Originally posted by Seventeen
I'm a MTF trans, and I'm in the middle of my hormone treatment. This involves both testo-blockers and estro-patches. The end result: Cockfailure. Getting erect is a hassle, and even after that, I don't really feel much from it right up ... more
You could always use nipple toys, pumps, and vibrators. Even without lots of sensation you would still get some. And you can review lingerie!
10/26/2011