Pack and Play?

Contributor: tardisblue tardisblue
I know it isn't recommended, but has anyone used the Mr. Right packer for sex? I've heard that it is hard enough for vaginal penetration and that the material it is made of is pretty safe. I don't own one (yet), but I'm looking for something that I can pack and play with. I have a couple of dildos for strap-on sex, but it makes me feel awkward and dysphoric to have to change into a different dick when I want to have sex and the two I own (Leo and Mustang) are far too firm to even kind of bend down, even for just wearing around the house under pants. Also, my girlfriend says that both dildos we own (and most that we've looked at) are way firmer than flesh and blood penises and that she would prefer something that felt a little bit softer and more realistic (though obviously a completely flaccid packer isn't going to cut it). Anyway, do you guys think Mr. Right could fit the bill for this? If not, are there any dildos that can be both packed and used for penetration or otherwise would have a softer, more realistic feel?
03/10/2012
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03/10/2012
Contributor: butts butts
Unfortunately good pack and play's are hard to come by, since a real penis "inflates" with blood to become hard, you can't really do that with a solid silicone one. The Mr. Right looks pretty good, but if it's too soft for penetration you could always modify it! The best thing I could suggest is investing in a small thin vibrator, dildo or buttplug (Such as this link), making a hole in the back of the packer's shaft and inserting the plug as if you were converting it to a pack-and-pee. Using some lubricant on the plug would allow you to insert it and remove it pretty easily, otherwise it'll stick to the silicone.

If you've never modified a packer before, the best method is to get a screwdriver, a long shafted one, preferably with a metal or wood handle (plastic can melt). Turn on your stove and heat up the tip and shaft of the screwdriver. While that's heating up, set your packer on a clean, non-burnable (or wreckable) surface. Marble counters work best, or tile, or if nothing else, put a piece of wood down just in case. You can either go all the way through the packer or just partially, it'll be easier to clean if you go all the way through to the tip (where the urethra would be). Do NOT HOLD THE PACKER'S SHAFT WHILE YOU DO THIS, hold the balls, pick up the screwdriver (if the handle has gotten too hot, use a pot holder or towel), and push it into the back of the packer's shaft. This will go REALLY fast, so be careful of keeping it even. Once you've made the hole, run it under cold water to make sure the hole doesn't seal back up, and tadaaaa you've got a hole in your dick.

This way you could pack with it, and just slip the plug in for some firmness whenever you want to play instead of completely switching out your junk.

I hope that helps?
03/10/2012
Contributor: GONE! GONE!
I would try the Mr. Right. I haven't done it personally but I have heard of other trans guys having some measure of success with it.
03/10/2012
Contributor: tardisblue tardisblue
Quote:
Originally posted by butts
Unfortunately good pack and play's are hard to come by, since a real penis "inflates" with blood to become hard, you can't really do that with a solid silicone one. The Mr. Right looks pretty good, but if it's too soft for ... more
Thanks! That is really useful! I'll definitely give that a try.
03/10/2012
Contributor: Ansley Ansley
I have the Mr. Right and have used it as a plug, pack n play and for vaginal penetration/stimulatio n. It works quite well, though it is thinner than an an average penis is when hard. It's not going to create an OMG earth shattering experience for the person receiving, but it works nonetheless.
03/10/2012
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Seems like it would work alright, but because it's not a firmer toy you would end up not creating as much pressure/stimulation for your partner. Just a trade-off to consider.
03/10/2012
Contributor: butts butts
Quote:
Originally posted by tardisblue
Thanks! That is really useful! I'll definitely give that a try.
If you do end up trying, let us know how it turns out!

Just to deter you from using a non-melting method to make the hole, I tried to give my packer a piercing by using an Xacto knife, whenever the piercing moved or was taken out/put in, it dragged on the silicone and frayed it. This was only a small hole in the tip, but I can imagine that it'd eventually destroy a packer if it was through the whole shaft.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Lock Lock
I've had a little experience using a packer for penetrative sex (on another person), and it did work, although it was pretty squishy and didn't really provide the same kind of stimulation as something made for penetration. Also, we used a condom.
03/12/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
Quote:
Originally posted by butts
Unfortunately good pack and play's are hard to come by, since a real penis "inflates" with blood to become hard, you can't really do that with a solid silicone one. The Mr. Right looks pretty good, but if it's too soft for ... more
this is a really awesome idea - thanks for the description, i am going to give this a try
06/20/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I haven't tried to pack and play myself, but Sinclair Sexmith is a sex blogger with some experience, and has a review of the main cocks designed for that purpose on the market: link
06/20/2012
Contributor: Roshandalaquanda Roshandalaquanda
Quote:
Originally posted by tardisblue
I know it isn't recommended, but has anyone used the Mr. Right packer for sex? I've heard that it is hard enough for vaginal penetration and that the material it is made of is pretty safe. I don't own one (yet), but I'm looking for ... more
that doesnt sound safe...
02/28/2013