I talk to people all the time like this. I actually enjoy doing trannsformations for people. Where for a few hours usually a male dresses as a woman and we may go out or even sit around having conversations about clothing, shoes or feminine products. I myself identify as a Fetishist whose fetish is other peoples fetishes.
On a more personal note and a little back on topic I am a woman who is bi-sexual so trannys are like 2 in 1 for me. But I generally look at trans as being more female. And if you have seen some of the trannys I have seen which all you have to do is Google it, you'll see how beautiful some of them are.
I sometimes think because they are turning into something they originally are not they go overboard alot of times. Men and woman alike.
Truthfully though in a day when beauty is what you see on TV if a woman with big breasts, long flowing hair, perfect makeup, short skirts, long nails etc. They just fall in line with the typical what's hot on TV. So does it really matter if under the skirt is a Dick or not? I don't know I would say desiring them is just programmed in us.
Than again this is coming from someone who would love to be able to sit on a Dick and have TaTas to play with at the same time.