What's your pronoun?

Contributor: guro guro
they and him!
03/31/2012
Contributor: u u
Being called he makes me comfortable, but not gendered nouns.
03/31/2012
Contributor: TheParrishism TheParrishism
I like the bianary pronouns myself. I am he. For some reason, don't like the Ze ones and just refer to my friends as they who identify outside of bianary. Or I switch them.
04/02/2012
Contributor: Rab Rab
I didn't realize I could have picked both until it was too late, but I like "he/him" and "they/them"
"she/her" makes me cringe
04/02/2012
Contributor: Do emu Do emu
Singular "they" or she/her.
04/02/2012
Contributor: kmilly kmilly
male pronouns consistently. never had the urge to be called anything else. i'm still confused as to how pronouns like "it" and "they" aren't offensive. given, i'm not gq. i'm transmasculine. but i get offended as fuck when i'm called an it. whatever floats your boat, i guess. i just don't understand it or where these other pronouns came from. i swear the trans* community is turning into its own ethnic group or cult or something.
04/09/2012
Contributor: TheGreat TheGreat
He, Him, His I even own a shirt that says it!
04/09/2012
Contributor: Thomas90 Thomas90
Hi/Him/His.
04/10/2012
Contributor: Schattenstern Schattenstern
I wouldn't really mind if everyone used neutral pronouns. I think it'd be a big help with my entire life story.
04/19/2012
Contributor: Youssii Youssii
In order of preference, new Spivak (ey, em, eir, emself etc), singular they, he.
05/07/2012
Contributor: Phineas James Keane Phineas James Keane
He/him is what I use, though I think ze/zir might be more accurate for me. He/him is just a lot more convenient.
05/07/2012
Contributor: MxJesper MxJesper
I'm non-binary and I use they/them/their
05/07/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by Roz W
Ok, so, this might be the very first question anyone asks in trans/queer/genderquee r spaces, but I like it: what's your pronoun? Do or have you used gender-neutral pronouns? I like singular "they" and ze/hir (which can also be ze/zir) ... more
I generally just use she/he.
05/07/2012
Contributor: TakeHimAway TakeHimAway
Quote:
Originally posted by Roz W
Ok, so, this might be the very first question anyone asks in trans/queer/genderquee r spaces, but I like it: what's your pronoun? Do or have you used gender-neutral pronouns? I like singular "they" and ze/hir (which can also be ze/zir) ... more
He!
05/08/2012
Contributor: finnimbrun finnimbrun
Quote:
Originally posted by Roz W
Ok, so, this might be the very first question anyone asks in trans/queer/genderquee r spaces, but I like it: what's your pronoun? Do or have you used gender-neutral pronouns? I like singular "they" and ze/hir (which can also be ze/zir) ... more
While ze/hir is kind of clunky in terms of linguistics, it's the pronoun set that fits me best. I've been using it for a while and haven't found anything more fitting.
05/22/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I like any kind of gender neutral pronoun.
05/23/2012
Contributor: meezerosity meezerosity
Cis-bodied genderqueer, I go with female pronouns because I am not out yet to anyone other than two close friends.
05/23/2012
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
I'm genderqueer and use male pronouns.
05/23/2012
Contributor: vitriolicvertigo vitriolicvertigo
I love ze/hir and they/them. Sometimes I prefer he/him. And every once in awhile she/her doesn't bother me. But I generally prefer the gender neutral terms.
05/28/2012
Contributor: canislytherin canislytherin
he, him, his, sir, bro, and so on. Male pronouns of course.
05/29/2012
Contributor: Kaleb Kaleb
He, him, his... Sire... All that. Even though I'm an effeminate trans man I love my pronouns.
05/30/2012
Contributor: Phosphorous Tick Phosphorous Tick
Well
I prefer he/him but I'm not picky as to which ones people use.
I try not to out myself around my family, or people who don't need to know
My girlfriend calls me her boyfriend and my best friends call me Vincent and that's all that matters to me
05/31/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I'm not too picky about pronouns and let people use whatever they're comfortable with. I like singular they a lot but I understand how it can be difficult for people to get used to using it. I don't want to force my gender onto anybody else.

Usually people find themselves naturally ping-ponging between he/she on their own (though there is always a stronger leaning towards he for whatever reason).

My partner uses singular they.
06/07/2012
Contributor: radioboy radioboy
I've used all of those pronouns at some point in my life. Being FTM, I started out with she/her (unfortunately), then went to ze/hir and them/they/they're, and now I'm he/him. I will respond to they/them but only if the person doesn't know my gender.
06/09/2012
Contributor: icelandia icelandia
Quote:
Originally posted by Roz W
Ok, so, this might be the very first question anyone asks in trans/queer/genderquee r spaces, but I like it: what's your pronoun? Do or have you used gender-neutral pronouns? I like singular "they" and ze/hir (which can also be ze/zir) ... more
he/him
08/14/2012