Which is more special to your relationship, a significant date (anniversary of marriage, dating, first meeting, whichever!) or Valentine's Day? An anniversary is specific to your relationship and unique. But Valentine's is kind of traditional! Which one and why?
                    
                    
                    Anniversary or Valentine's Day?
                    01/20/2013
                
				
				
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                        Valentine's Day 2010 was when I first started talking with my husband, so it has a special meaning to me as well! 
                        
                        
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                        Either one is special.
                        
                        
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                        Anniversaries are a little more meaningful to me.
                        
                        
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                        I like anniversaries more than a made up holiday.
                        
                        
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                        Anniversary
                        
                        
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                        Both are special days, but an anniversary has more meaning.
                        
                        
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                        Anniversary. I'm mean, that's a no-brainer. Valentine's Day is such a bullshit holiday.
                        
                        
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                        The anniversary. It marks the day that we first became a couple. While I don't mind Valentine's day either (any excuse to spend time with my partner is fine by me) I think if I had to choose our anniversary would probably win.
                        
                        
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                        We went all out for both. He took me to the finest places and bought me the finest gifts. I'm always spoiled on those occasions.
                        
                        
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                        I voted for both, we celebrate valentines day and anniversaries the same way. 
                        
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                                            chicmichiw
                                        
                                        
                                            
                                                
                                    
                                
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                        Both, but anniversaries are a little more special to me.
                        
                        
                        01/21/2013
			        
			        
                
                        I'm not a huge Valentine's Day fan per se, but it's 6 months apart from our anniversary so it's nice just to do something special once every 6 months.
                        
                        
                        01/21/2013
			        
			        
                
                        our marriage anniversary is very special to us. Valentines is just a day to give gifts, just another holiday.
                        
                        
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                        Our anniversary is more personal and meaningful.  Valentine's Day is so commercialized, where our anniversary is just purely special.
                        
                        
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                        Anniversary. It is funny one of my good friends I met on Valentines day. So that day also has big meaning to me.
                        
                        
                        01/21/2013
			        
			        
                
                        Both are very important to us.
                        
                        
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                        im more of a birthday person
                        
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                        The anniversary of when we went on our first date is the most important to us.  Our wedding anniversary seems to always have something go wrong and Valentine's Day is so-so for us.
                        
                        
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                        Neither, they're both the same as the remainder 363 days.... Uneventful
                        
                        
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                        my anniversary is very special to me with my Husband/Master. I became His TPE on that day too so it's a double anniversary for us. 
                        
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                        While we have been happily married for over 30 years, the truth is, we also find Valentines Day a very special day for us. We always make it an excuse to be extra sickly sweet and romantic towards each other. It's great. 
                        
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                        If you want either of them...or any of the other days, to be "eventful", you have to choose to make them so!!! We choose to make special days "burst forth" from the calendar. Seems to us, life is too short not too!
                        
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                                            Hummingbird
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Neither, they're both the same as the remainder 363 days.... Uneventful
                                        
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                        Wow...after over 30 years, we have no clue as to the "date" of our first "date"!!!???
                        
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                                            AHubbyof2SexualMinds
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            The anniversary of when we went on our first date is the most important to us.  Our wedding anniversary seems to always have something go wrong and Valentine's Day is so-so for us.
                                        
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                        It's a day devoted to love, sex, flowers, candy...my goodness, who could ask for more???
                        
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                                            Gone (LD29)
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            I'm not a huge Valentine's Day fan per se, but it's 6 months apart from our anniversary so it's nice just to do something special once every 6 months.
                                        
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                        Commercialized, yes. However, it is commercial selling of flowers, candy (chocolates), love cards, lingerie.....think about it. How much better could it be???
                        
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                                            Martiniman
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Our anniversary is more personal and meaningful.  Valentine's Day is so commercialized, where our anniversary is just purely special.
                                        
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                        I just cannot feel that way. Valentines Day, while an "invented" commercial holiday (as opposed to the religious holiday it was in days of old), is still about Love, Romance, Mushy cards, Chocolates, Flowers, Lingerie, Sex Toys, having sex, and oh...did I mention Chocolate. Also....in case I forgot...Chocolate. So....all my favorite things, all celebrated on one day. Who cares if it's "invented". It is ALL good.
                        
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                                            UnknownGirl
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Anniversary. I'm mean, that's a no-brainer. Valentine's Day is such a bullshit holiday.
                                        
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                        Thanks. Glad to know we are not alone. We do too.
                        
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                                            LavenderSkies
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            I voted for both, we celebrate valentines day and anniversaries the same way. 
                                        
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                        Indeed. One more chance to be extra "I Love You" mushy. It's all good.
                        
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                                            Living Doll
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Both are very important to us.
                                        
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                        Anniversary is our own "personal" Valentines Day.
                        
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                                            MissCandyland
                                        
                                        
                                
                                            Both, but anniversaries are a little more special to me.
                                        
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