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Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
so I want to do the ultimate night. We havent had sex in about 2 weeks because of diffrent things..now in 2 days he is leaving on vacation and its likely we won't get to before he leaves...anyway not only do I want it to be the sexiest night we have ever had. I want to turn the whole thing into a christmas present....however I don't think I'll be getting Christmas theme lingerie. I will be getting a porn,lingerie,lube,toy cleaner,vibrator and perhaps massage oil,book and and a toy for him. I don't have a ton of money to spend but I will splurge as there is not a whole lot I'm planning on using this paycheck for. Sure I will probly spend too much my paycheck was like $340


I was thinking school girl because I don't have any costumes...any more ideas what to add and do?
12/19/2011
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Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
A school girl costume would definitely be awesome.

This: link is a great lube if you want to try it.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Sorry I'm not much help. Our hottest nights tend to come from just spending time together and being intimate as friends and then progressing into sex.

Don't get me wrong - I have lingerie, etc. - but we find that when we try new stuff sometimes we feel like we have to "perform" or something but when we watch an old favorite movie together and cuddle and chat and stuff and then go to bed....

Well - let's just say that its our attitudes that make it hot vs. the stuff we have.

So good luck - hope you have a great night with whatever you get.
12/19/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Princess-Kayla ♥
A school girl costume would definitely be awesome.

This: link is a great lube if you want to try it.
well I decided against school girl because the one I want the review says its cheeply made...I have a nice bra I'm getting a red satin skirt gater with stockings so I will wear it with that and decided to make it a little christmassy by adding a santa hat.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I'm not trying to spoil your enthusiasm, but I don't think it's a good idea to spend all your hard-earned money for just one night of sex. If your so-called boyfriend still loves (or cares) about you, just normal sex without any kinks will be just as good. Is he going to repay you for your spending? I hate to read your threads about how much you needed something for your everyday necessity, but don't have any money to buy it, so why don't you put some money aside for emergencies instead? I know I sounded like a pain in the ass, but I meant well.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by Rossie
I'm not trying to spoil your enthusiasm, but I don't think it's a good idea to spend all your hard-earned money for just one night of sex. If your so-called boyfriend still loves (or cares) about you, just normal sex without any kinks ... more
Yeah - that.

Sex with a boyfriend/lover/husban d doesn't have to be expensive to be a 'hot night' or awesome.

Thanks for saying that Rossie because that was sort of what I was trying to say.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Yeah - that.

Sex with a boyfriend/lover/husban d doesn't have to be expensive to be a 'hot night' or awesome.

Thanks for saying that Rossie because that was sort of what I was trying to say.
Glad you agreed with me, that's the mature way to handle things!
12/19/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Rossie
Glad you agreed with me, that's the mature way to handle things!
Im going to take alot out of my cart,however in sexually frustrated and need to be touched...its because we havent been able to spend time together. so by the time we do it will be 3 weeks plus. going to get some basics..vibrator,porn, toy cleaner,lube. You know whats awkward? There is a guy I work with I find him attractive and I know he liks me and we would be a good match as a couple and sexually I'm not talking from exeperience just from being around him alot and talking. so when he flirts with me at work and I haven't been touched in too long...I start acting weird lol. I can do this weird sound and people laugh at it...however many will tell me to get laid or even offered to take me outside and spank me so I'm speechless and shut up.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
Im going to take alot out of my cart,however in sexually frustrated and need to be touched...its because we havent been able to spend time together. so by the time we do it will be 3 weeks plus. going to get some basics..vibrator,porn, toy ... more
If a guy really LIKES you, he'll treat you with respect, so you'll have to be patient and see if that's going to happen. You're 23 and should learn how to have others respect you, I don't think it's funny when men make nasty jokes with you. Grow up girl, life is not just about sex, or bringing unnecessary attention upon yourself!

And I'm going to shut my mouth up now.
12/19/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Rossie
I'm not trying to spoil your enthusiasm, but I don't think it's a good idea to spend all your hard-earned money for just one night of sex. If your so-called boyfriend still loves (or cares) about you, just normal sex without any kinks ... more
This exactly. You need to learn to budget your money, you go through so many ups and downs. Just because you have money doesnt mean you should spend it, its really irresponsible. Ive read all your threads and I honestly think you need to spend some of that money on therapy and talk to someone about your issues. Every 3 weeks theres a thread where you break up and get back together so spending 300 plus dollars on a night of sex is a REALLY BAD IDEA. But at the end of the day its your life so your gonna do what you want.
12/19/2011
Contributor: jessi2 jessi2
Cook him dinner in nothing but an apron. Draw a hot bubble bath with candles all over the bathroom, lights off or dim. Rose petals leading to the bed. Light sexy music playing. Maybe a massage. Nothing more should be necessary!
12/19/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by jessi2
Cook him dinner in nothing but an apron. Draw a hot bubble bath with candles all over the bathroom, lights off or dim. Rose petals leading to the bed. Light sexy music playing. Maybe a massage. Nothing more should be necessary!
I live with my dad I can't do that. ANyway at least I took a bunch of stuff off my cart just buying a few basics today.
12/20/2011
Contributor: jedent jedent
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Originally posted by kinky girlfriend
Im going to take alot out of my cart,however in sexually frustrated and need to be touched...its because we havent been able to spend time together. so by the time we do it will be 3 weeks plus. going to get some basics..vibrator,porn, toy ... more
open up your relationship for the holidays. i mean make sure your boyfriend is cool with it but who knows, maybe this is just the kink you guys need! and at half the price!
12/20/2011
Contributor: Valentinka Valentinka
Sorry, I have to agree with other opinions here. Spending so much money on just one sexy night isn't wise and it's not [italics|vital] to make either of you feel great. That's good you've already realized that and decided to go with some basic tings only

You say you live with your Dad, but you can still light candles in your room and turn on some nice music your guy would like, right? You can do some erotic dancing as well if you with And massage that jessi2 suggested also sounds like a great idea!

However, I don't think sex should really be a present as it shouldn't be a reward. It's something that's just a part of a relationship. If I were you, I would make my boyfriend some nice present for Christmas that he really wants. I know he would appreciate it way more than some fancy lingerie on me or new kinky stuff. But everyone is different and I really wish you luck and all the best
12/20/2011
Contributor: kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
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Originally posted by Valentinka
Sorry, I have to agree with other opinions here. Spending so much money on just one sexy night isn't wise and it's not [italics|vital] to make either of you feel great. That's good you've already realized that and decided to go with ... more
I ended up spending $50 instead of like $200. basics for myself I bought a porn because I cant watch thatone for free online..most I want to see I can't...i needed basics..got marvel by evolved,lube and next check is toy cleaner,condoms and perhaps hand solo..after that perphaps liberator and mark o2 and tango III after that porns,books,spanking stuff LOL.
12/20/2011