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Do you like public attention if you go out on your birthday?

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Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
For instance, do you want the wait staff at somewhere you have gone for dinner, stopping and singing "happy birthday" or doing other "displays"?
02/07/2013
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Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I won't lie, I like the free stuff

Plus, it can be fun to get birthday attention at the bar.
02/07/2013
Contributor: laflauta laflauta
Yeah, free stuff is nice. I really hate public attention, though, so I'll sacrifice the freebies for privacy.
02/07/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
If I can get a little something free out of it, than it's okay. But just because, eh..not so much.
02/07/2013
Contributor: js250 js250
NO!!! Last year when my husband bought my present, a new .22 rifle, they needed my ID for the background check and obviously--it was my birthday. The whole store knew about it, sang happy birthday, etc. I just wanted out of there!!!! How awfully embarrassing!!!!!!
02/07/2013
Contributor: LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
Depends...is there free dessert involved? haha
02/07/2013
Contributor: hillys hillys
I like it when people acknowledge my birthday.
02/07/2013
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Quote:
Originally posted by laflauta
Yeah, free stuff is nice. I really hate public attention, though, so I'll sacrifice the freebies for privacy.
Same for me, I despise being sung to in public like that.
02/07/2013
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, unless it's from my friends
02/08/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
Not really.

The reason why is most waiters think I'm a little boy, and when they hear how old I am, they still go on calling me "he" and just think I'm a really young looking dude.

Most of the time, I'm with my family when this happens and my family doesn't know I'm trans*/ they think I'm super feminine despite the rest of the world thinking I'm masculine. It makes things uncomfortable
02/10/2013
Contributor: Mikemanz Mikemanz
no i don't
02/10/2013
Contributor: FlightyBroad FlightyBroad
I'm not too big a fan of the public attention. The free desserts can be nice, but it's not worth the singing.
02/10/2013
Contributor: Hummingbird Hummingbird
I like attention and lots of it privately but not publically and especially not a Happy Birthday song in a restaurant. Besides they always try to jazz up the song and often times I can't distinguish what they're really singing.
02/10/2013