Penetration and Flatulence

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I'm always gassy. I have no idea lol.

Sometimes, if you put a lot of pressure on your abdomen, you may get feelings like that. I usually don't feel gassy, but I know certain positions make me feel a bit bloated because there's so much pressure on my abdomen.

i love you, epiphora. this is why you're my favorite. also: Ditto

I know some positions cramp me up a little bit and will make my insides complain...thus feeling gassy for a few hours after sex. I have noticed very intense orgasms leaving me feeling a little bloated for awhile too (no idea why)...though I must confess that doesn't happen as often as I'd like I never noticed any change with my IUD though...

If you're farting in the ordinary way during penetration, you might want to try an enema several hours before penetration. There is also a yoga position that involves lying on your back with your knees bent and pulling your thighs gently toward your chest. It helps to relieve gas pressure and you could try it an hour or so before penetration.

If your vagina is "farting" you could try pushing out with through your vaginal barrel (as though you were trying to turn it inside-out)several times before penetration. Introduce the penis or other penetrating item gradually, well-lubed, without pushing extra air up inside your vagina. Use a smooth, gentle, relatively quick motion for penetration, making sure that you are well-aroused first. Lots of pumping almost out then stroking back in traps air in the vagina sometimes. Or, you could just live with it.

Hope these suggestions help.

Just a few clarifications, vaginal sex regular farts. -chuckles-

You know, I have been thinking about the lately too!

I have gone to the bathroom and tried to fart all I could before going into the bedroom, but I still sometimes fart during orgasm. I guess its because everything tightens up and convulses/contracts.

Just moan really loud and maybe he won't notice! If he does, say he makes you lose control to that level, its so good. I know farting during sex can be embarrassing, but...it happens!

I think I'll try that recommended yoga pose...

Thank you, Snappy. I just lost it over "vaginal barrel." Wow.

Okay, seriously now. I think Always Tink is onto something. I haven't had anal sex, but have played with toys, but regardless of that I still feel the same "loosening" back there during vaginal sex. I think air can just kind of get in there due to the motions of sex, even if it's a little at a time, and it just builds up in there. I go to the bathroom right after sex every time and I usually have some gas but after that bathroom trip I'm normal. Not sure how long after sex the gas problem lasts, though. (I can't help it, I'm still giggling...)

I've noticed in the past I've only passed gas during penis in vagina sex when my partner is hitting the back wall of my vagina, and once during fingering when he was hitting my back wall with his fingers.

lol Reminds me of a post I wrote last year. link

As far as farting and sex goes- it happens... however you handle it is up to you. However, your partner handles it is up to them and some couples don't share the same reaction. Apparently, my husband didn't think it was very cute the first time farted while we were snuggling under the covers.

My fiancee and I both tend to have silent but deadly ones. It always happens that we're standing somewhere when one of us goes ". . . did you fart?"

It's always followed by a guilty smile.

Although I'm not having sex right now - my issues was more than just a far here or there. It was all.the.damned.time.

A good way to get rid of gas before anything - lay down on your back and roll your body from side to side. A nurse told us this after one of my dad's colonoscopies when he was way more than just a wee bit gassy.

I have and IUD also but havent really noticed much difference. I do feel uncomfrotable when I feel that I have gas as we make love. Then I get too embarassed to let it out so I tell him to hurry up.

Sometimes hrs after having anal play, I can get a lil gassy and I often do an enema beforehand.