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Contributor: Twirls Twirls
I'm looking at vibrators because I'm not quite comfortable yet with the idea of penetration, but vibrators look like what I'm ready to start with. Also, I don't have a lot of money and I was hoping you guys could help me decide?
I'm looking at the magic bullet, and the first aid pouch. I might end up going with both because I like how small and discrete the bullet looks, but the first aid pouch doesn't have any bad reviews.

Any suggestions.
(maybe also on a general how to use them sort of thing SORRY!)
07/24/2012
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Contributor: indiglo indiglo
What about the Iconic Bullet? Or would you prefer to keep it under $10? (The Iconic is $15.99)

I put together a really short comparison here: link of a few small bullets that would probably make pretty good starter toys, depending on your price range. (With double points this week, it might stretch your budget a little further )


As for using them, with a little practice you'll figure out what you like. You might like a little vibration on your nipples, around the outside of the vulva, around the inside of the vulva, and eventually around the clit. Some women really enjoy vibrations around the urethral opening too! Just take your time, focus on what feels good to you - there is no right or wrong way to enjoy yourself!
07/24/2012
Contributor: Twirls Twirls
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Originally posted by indiglo
What about the Iconic Bullet? Or would you prefer to keep it under $10? (The Iconic is $15.99)

I put together a really short comparison here: link of a few small bullets that would probably make pretty good starter toys, depending on ... more
Thank-you for the comparison link, I didn't even notice some of those!
07/24/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
since cost is a concern, the eden classifieds are a great place to start. i have a whole bunch of new stuff i'm selling cheap
07/25/2012
Contributor: Mitzuki Mitzuki
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
What about the Iconic Bullet? Or would you prefer to keep it under $10? (The Iconic is $15.99)

I put together a really short comparison here: link of a few small bullets that would probably make pretty good starter toys, depending on ... more
I like this reply. Couldn't have said it better. :]
07/25/2012
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
beware, one toy and you'll get addicted good luck!
07/25/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
What about the Iconic Bullet? Or would you prefer to keep it under $10? (The Iconic is $15.99)

I put together a really short comparison here: link of a few small bullets that would probably make pretty good starter toys, depending on ... more
I agree with indiglo. Take your time and explore. I don't find them very fun on my nipples, but I do like it on the sides of my clit if it is really strong and then around my opening. I tend to only use them to warm up or as an extra to another toy inside.
08/03/2012