Of course, we are all sort of experienced and sophisticated sex-experts around here, but we all had our FIRST TIME. The horrifying and fervently awaited first time, when we get naked with someone else. I propose you to go back to those innocent memories and either confirm or bust this one - *I crave for an ardent argumentation!*
It is now open for discussion, do you think THIS to be true, false or plausible?
Ladies' first times hurts.
That's a popular myth, and by this day millions of girl - and boys, who take the responsibility - are trembling in horror. Should they? I think not. My first time was hilarious, clumsy, full of love and with no pain AT ALL. However, many of my girl friends confirmed this myth. Who to believe? Is there a solid opinion among our contributors?
A few of my first timer's said it was very enjoyable. And their friends also said the same. Seems at that young age, close-knit gf's discuss their sex lives and exchange experiences.
A few of my first timer's said it was very enjoyable. And their friends also said the same. Seems at that young age, close-knit gf's discuss their sex lives and exchange experiences.
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Do you think age played a part in it? Also, there would have been no way of knowing this but do you think it was also their first time? Did they masturbate and if so, how did they do it? Did they just rub their clit or was it more involved i.e. did they, themselves, penetrate themselves?
Not to be a perv or anything but I think all of that would matter.
I was 17. It did not hurt. At the time I had masturbated plenty but it was more clit focused and I didn't have any toys or anything for penetration. It was his first time as well.
It was slightly uncomfortable the first time he was fully in but it was more of a full feeling/pressure than pain. I really wanted to do it and was incredibility turned on and not nervous so that probably helped a lot.
I was 16, never masterbated before and it hurt until the 2nd time when he actually popped my cherry. I remember bleeding. After that, everything was fine.
I'm going to have to go with, this can go either way, depending on the experience involved with either participant. If neither knows the female body well enough, is willing to take the special care and attention required to get her primed and ready, her first time will likely be less enjoyable and more painful than others experiences.
My first "attempt" was awful. I'm convinced he didn't know his own penis from my vagina or what it took to get either excited. It was all about him and the fact he was about to actually "have sex". There was no clit stimulation, no foreplay , he literally just tried to shove it in. Then seemed perplexed that it wasn't "working out". Worst experience ever. To this day, I don't know why I ever thought HE was a good idea. I was young and moved on.
Eventually I met the man that I would actually lose my virginity to a couple yrs later. With passion, excitement, and a little more knowledge, it was a success. Still a little painful but also pleasureful
Do you think age played a part in it? Also, there would have been no way of knowing this but do you think it was also their first time? Did they masturbate and if so, how did they do it? Did they just rub their clit or was it more involved i.e. did
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Do you think age played a part in it? Also, there would have been no way of knowing this but do you think it was also their first time? Did they masturbate and if so, how did they do it? Did they just rub their clit or was it more involved i.e. did they, themselves, penetrate themselves?
Not to be a perv or anything but I think all of that would matter.
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I don't think age played a part. Although we both were youngins at the time. I was with the first one for a good while bef she made the request. We were inseparable and I trusted her. So if she told me it was the first time I believe her. And during the act some things convinced me it was the first time.
As for if she masturbated, you will have to ask her.
Of course, we are all sort of experienced and sophisticated sex-experts around here, but we all had our FIRST TIME. The horrifying and fervently awaited first time, when we get naked with someone else. I propose you to go back to those innocent
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Of course, we are all sort of experienced and sophisticated sex-experts around here, but we all had our FIRST TIME. The horrifying and fervently awaited first time, when we get naked with someone else. I propose you to go back to those innocent memories and either confirm or bust this one - *I crave for an ardent argumentation!*
It is now open for discussion, do you think THIS to be true, false or plausible?
Ladies' first times hurts.
That's a popular myth, and by this day millions of girl - and boys, who take the responsibility - are trembling in horror. Should they? I think not. My first time was hilarious, clumsy, full of love and with no pain AT ALL. However, many of my girl friends confirmed this myth. Who to believe? Is there a solid opinion among our contributors?
