The New Intimacy

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Contributor: Stellar Stellar
So the spring is just around the corner, and everything is coming to life all over again. So does my curiosity! So here is yet another fascinating (I hope) topic.

It comes partially from personal experience, partially from tons of women magazines an their "sex&relationship" sections I've been reading in gazillions due to my job. Sometimes it turns up to be a meme, sometimes it's a pain in the... youknowwhatImean. But never have I came across a confirmation or a disproof of this controversial fact.

It is now open for discussion, do you think THIS to be true, false or plausible?

All ladies like it slow, while all gentlemen like it raving quick.

It says all around the web that women like slow motions during sexy time, gentle caresses and thoughtful back'n'forward acts. And men prefer to... ehem... make fire with active friction. I understand, that it might depend on situation and level of arousal, but there should be a common status which is relevantly ALWAYS true. I think for me and my fiancé this DOES work, so I call TRUE.

What would be your verdict?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Stellar , OH&W, Lovebears , RockDoc
3  (18%)
surreptitious , unfulfilled , Andykh , The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary , Inquisitor , Peg , Hotfourteacher , HelenaSnow , MrClark , sXeVegan90 , Lilith Bealove , CAKES , AnnyMouso , Evoluchun
14  (82%)
Total votes: 17
Poll is open
02/22/2016
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Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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If we're going with "all," then I can tell you that 100%, flat out for sure that this isn't true. I like it slow only very occasionally (usually when I'm too sore for anything else ), and much MUCH prefer speed.

But maybe it's true for the majority?
02/22/2016
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
False for me, I only want slow sensuous actions sometimes. The majority of the time I want it fast, like he's devouring me. Going back to animalistic urges. Thats me 95% Of the time, the other 5% we can be romantic.
02/22/2016
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
I chose false for simple fact is my wife and i like both. It depends on the mood in my opinion
02/22/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I voted based on experiences with several gf's and OH. As Stell stated it does depend on the level of arousal. After 10 mins or so it does need to pick up.

In general I think it is true. I don't think many women want to one and done.
There's a song where she sang, "Nice and Steady, nice and steady" " Aahh!"
02/22/2016
Contributor: Stellar Stellar
Wooooow, we have some serious split in here! I understand your points, and, as I've already stated in our previous discussions, I'm traditional and cheesy, so there's no wonder only OH with his tender wife is on my side ^___^

But that's so exciting! I hope on getting more votes to see THE MAJORITY, because, please, six people? C'mon, you can't be serious, Community!

OK, ladies and gents, and when it comes to your "alone time", what do you prefer? It stays the same? Quick and fervent, huh?
02/23/2016
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Quote:
Originally posted by Stellar
Wooooow, we have some serious split in here! I understand your points, and, as I've already stated in our previous discussions, I'm traditional and cheesy, so there's no wonder only OH with his tender wife is on my side ^___^

But ... more
Alone time I like to be sensuous and take it slow.
02/23/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Stellar
Wooooow, we have some serious split in here! I understand your points, and, as I've already stated in our previous discussions, I'm traditional and cheesy, so there's no wonder only OH with his tender wife is on my side ^___^

But ... more
"Alone time " I would say for OW depends on what toy she is using and how much time she has. Also depends if in the shower, tub or bed.
02/23/2016
Contributor: Stellar Stellar
Quote:
Originally posted by unfulfilled
Alone time I like to be sensuous and take it slow.
That really interesting, don't you think, unfulfilled? I am clueless on what these preferences might mean, because, as funny as it may seem, it's the opposite for me, too - alone time is really fast and furious
02/24/2016
Contributor: Inquisitor Inquisitor
False! It just depends on the day. Without saying too much, sometimes your partner will say or do something to provoke a particular response either on purpose or by accident.
02/24/2016
Contributor: RockDoc RockDoc
Depends on the day, but most of the time we take it slow till the happy ending. Quickies are just that though. Fast and furious.
02/24/2016
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
How many gals hate it when he goes too fast and cums too soon. Ever happen to you ? Nice and steady, Nice and steady. Words from that song "Pillow Talk" ? If I could just remember the gal who sang it. Sylvia ?
02/24/2016
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Quote:
Originally posted by Stellar
That really interesting, don't you think, unfulfilled? I am clueless on what these preferences might mean, because, as funny as it may seem, it's the opposite for me, too - alone time is really fast and furious
That is interesting. I'm not sure why I like it different depending if I'm with my partner or I'm alone.
02/25/2016
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I don't think this can be said about everybody. I think it's more likely that most of like both since there are so many factors that play into it.
02/25/2016
Contributor: Stellar Stellar
Ok, my dears, I see that you are sure of the fact that everyone have their own preferences during sexy time, and nothing can be judged in the categories of "always" and "all". So I call this one FALSE, thank you all for your remarkable comment and invite you on the next discussion!
02/29/2016