Have you ever been to a sex/orgy/swingers party?

Contributor: FantasyFanatic FantasyFanatic
As the title says, have you ever been to a party where the whole purpose is to have sex with people? I'm talking about the kind you see in ridiculous porn, where at least one couple is having sex in every room of the house, group sex ranging from 3 to freakin' 20, etc.
I'm just asking out of general curiosity. I've never been to one, and don't personally know anyone who has. It seems like a rare thing... Maybe I just don't "hang with the right crowd". I'm not sure if I would go to one if I got the chance... But I never say never

EDIT: I forgot to add this to the poll... But if you HAVE been to one or more, was there alcohol or other... err, "mood elevators" involved?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Yes, I have.
deltalima , padmeamidala , Rod Ronald , travelnurse , Bignuf , bunny love , dv8
7  (11%)
Yes, multiple times.
Lioncub , Trysexual , Airen Wolf
3  (5%)
No.
kitty1949 , Rossie , Kissy , married with children , Shadoria , Missmarc , Undecided , charmedtomeetyou , leanright69 , hem , sexytileena / absolutely love sex , edeneve , Pixel , sXeVegan90 , T&L , Beautiful-Disaster , - Kira - , darthkitt3n , mpfm , Howells , Cat E. , Allstars316 , Artishok , malantha , cburger , ViVix , Gunsmoke , JennSenn , damnbul12 , Anne , BlooJay , sexxxkitten , Gluesnffr , cicispizzaisyummy , MzGreenEyedLady , skeeterlynn , hhh , Katdid , ejrbrndps , tortilla , AliMc , G&L , Forever Hers! , roskat , SneakersAndPearls
45  (73%)
No, but I would like to.
Sinfully , Sera26 , Bex1331 , Alyxx , MidnightStorm , donatello6789 , michael scofield
7  (11%)
Total votes: 62
Poll is closed
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Contributor: kitty1949 kitty1949
No, I haven't.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Kissy Kissy
No but I know people who have.
10/10/2012
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
Quote:
Originally posted by FantasyFanatic
As the title says, have you ever been to a party where the whole purpose is to have sex with people? I'm talking about the kind you see in ridiculous porn, where at least one couple is having sex in every room of the house, group sex ranging from ... more
I have but nothing happened.
10/10/2012
Contributor: FantasyFanatic FantasyFanatic
Quote:
Originally posted by deltalima
I have but nothing happened.
As in you went to a party that was supposed to get X-rated, but nobody did anything? That sounds like a let down... and like it might have been a bit awkward? haha
10/10/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by FantasyFanatic
As the title says, have you ever been to a party where the whole purpose is to have sex with people? I'm talking about the kind you see in ridiculous porn, where at least one couple is having sex in every room of the house, group sex ranging from ... more
No, I haven't.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
No, but I am interested.
10/10/2012
Contributor: hem hem
I like the idea, but I feel like I might not do well in the moment.
10/10/2012
Contributor: (k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
I've never been to (or partaken in) one, but I definitely find the idea appealing, or at least intriguing.
10/10/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Used to go monthly as part of a swingers group, now we go about once every couple of months.
10/10/2012
Contributor: FantasyFanatic FantasyFanatic
Quote:
Originally posted by hem
I like the idea, but I feel like I might not do well in the moment.
Understandable. Even when having sex with one person, I sometimes get a bit of performance anxiety. I'm not sure I'd be able to keep my cool with people all around. Other men potentially outdoing me, people watching and judging my skill in the art of sexing... yes, sexing (which I just now learned is a real word :3)
It is kind of daunting when you think about it... but arousing. Nothing can ever be simply black and white, eh?
10/10/2012
Contributor: FantasyFanatic FantasyFanatic
Quote:
Originally posted by Lioncub
Used to go monthly as part of a swingers group, now we go about once every couple of months.
Monthly huh? I'm guessing it's one of those things that you get hooked on once you try it huh?
Oh my, the more I think and talk about this type of thing, the more I find myself wanting to try it
10/10/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
black & white for me - what about STD's/STI's???
10/10/2012
Contributor: FantasyFanatic FantasyFanatic
Quote:
Originally posted by Sinfully
No, but I am interested.
Before I posted this, I wouldn't have gone if someone invited me to one right now. But my outlook is quickly shifting... could just be the IDEA that's getting me worked up though, lol
10/10/2012
Contributor: FantasyFanatic FantasyFanatic
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
black & white for me - what about STD's/STI's???
What about condoms and other forms of protection? Referring back to Lioncub's post, she said she has these types of parties with a particular group. Probably a group of people who have been tested beforehand, or do so regularly. Said group would (hopefully) be STD free, and they would stay that way so long as each person only engages in sexual activity with their spouse, and people within the swingers group during their meetings.
I see what your saying though, and that risk is there even when having sex with ONE new person. But measures can be taken to ensure everyone is safe, and stays free of STD's
If I ever end up going to one, you bet your ass I'm going to ensure my health and sex life isn't in danger
10/10/2012
Contributor: Sera26 Sera26
No, but I used to really want to go to one. (especially since I've been hearing about this super secret one outside of town for years) However now that I'm in a committed relationship it's more of a fantasy because I think we'd both be too jealous.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Nope, never been to one. I'm poly, and I don't swing or do casual sex.
10/11/2012
Contributor: sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
No I've never been to one.
10/11/2012
Contributor: T&L T&L
No can't say I have!
10/11/2012
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
nope, & i wont.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Cat E. Cat E.
I've never been but would love to be a fly on the wall at one!
10/11/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
Never. But ready plenty of stories about it.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Artishok Artishok
No.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Yes...prob should be anonymous voting.
10/11/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by FantasyFanatic
As the title says, have you ever been to a party where the whole purpose is to have sex with people? I'm talking about the kind you see in ridiculous porn, where at least one couple is having sex in every room of the house, group sex ranging from ... more
No. I'm too scared of the STDs that might be floating around.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Rod Ronald Rod Ronald
I have and it wasn't something you would want to brag about. It was a total train wreck!
10/11/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
It wasn't a "sex" party but a million years ago when I was in the Army a party went towards that.
10/11/2012
Contributor: JennSenn JennSenn
Nope, never been.
10/11/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
Been debating on whether or not I would want to go to one or not.
10/11/2012