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Are you a "Talker" or a "Doer"?

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Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
I find that Im a good talker but when it comes down to actually getting stuff done, I dont really want to... Is it human nature to be/feel lazy?
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CuteDee , tickle me pink , Waterfall , JessCee , sarki , Coralbell , Naughty Student , toxie m , MaryExy , Taylor , dezzydezire , ms.anon , GravyCakes , Steve of Eden , Shellz31
15  (28%)
Let's get it DONE
DeliciousSurprise , SexyLilPixi , married with children , Ghost , indiglo , v23 , Gunsmoke , MJ1337 , Rossie , link82 , Redboxbaby , zeebot , The Mother of a SiNner , Errant Venture , Jimbo Jones , slynch , Petite Valentine , Kimmie1980ca , usmcwife99 , null , CAKES , M.H1 , lanky , Darling Jen , Miss Morphine , dv8 , bluekaren , The Curious Couple , Sir , Lummox , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , I'mNotYourToy , K101 , redstarr681
34  (63%)
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M121212 , P'Gell , Maeby , ThoughtsAblaze , ToyBoy
5  (9%)
Total votes: 54
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Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I am VERY much a doer. I do everything I say I'm going to do, even if I have to somehow make the impossible possible to do so. I've always had that determined fire in me.
07/05/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Hahaha, I couldn't tell you how many times I've given up on projects or ideas just because I was too lazy to get off my butt and do them. I'd get everything all planned out, get all excited about it, and in some instances spend a good deal of money, and then stop there. One day I'll learn to do what I say... one day...
07/05/2011
Contributor: Waterfall Waterfall
I'll admit it, I'm a talker... It usually has nothing to do with me being lazy though, more like not enough time and/or money to do what I really want to do.
07/05/2011
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
I think for most people its in our nature to be kinda lazy... so you are NOT alone!!!
07/05/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Mostly a talker
07/05/2011
Contributor: Pinkhare Pinkhare
I'm a little of both
07/05/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
both.
07/06/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Doer. My husband is a talker... drives me nuts.
07/06/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
I'm definitely a doer. I do not like to procrastinate, and I love the feeling of finishing a task.
07/06/2011
Contributor: v23 v23
If I say I'm going to do something, I do it. If I'm not going to do it, I don't say I will. =]
07/06/2011
Contributor: MJ1337 MJ1337
DO WORK!
07/06/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I take on both roles, depending on how energized I feel I also tend to do the opposite of what the person I'm with is doing, strangely enough. Like I'll take on a more active silent role if someone's just standing there talking a lot. Or I'll just want to chill out and chat if someone's running around getting everything done. It's a personality quirk I guess.
07/06/2011
Contributor: zeebot zeebot
Depends on what it is...if it's something I actually care about I'm definitely a doer. Schoolwork, on the other hand..
07/06/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by CuteDee
I find that Im a good talker but when it comes down to actually getting stuff done, I dont really want to... Is it human nature to be/feel lazy?
Im a doer
07/06/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
I'm a doer. Well, kind of. Sometimes I flounder about, not knowing what needs to be done, but when I do, when the path is clear to me, I do it - whatever it is.
07/06/2011
Contributor: Kimmie1980ca Kimmie1980ca
Quote:
Originally posted by CuteDee
I find that Im a good talker but when it comes down to actually getting stuff done, I dont really want to... Is it human nature to be/feel lazy?
I'm a little bit of both
07/06/2011
Contributor: Maeby Maeby
I go through phases. I might be a talker for a while, and then I'll go through a period where I want to get everything done.
07/06/2011
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
When I'm alone, I'm a talker. I am NOT a self-starter, I'm a terrible time manager, and I procrastinate like no other.

When I'm with other people, though, I'm a doer. I'm very logical, so I'm frequently the quiet one listening to everyone debate. And once I get frustrated that no decision has been made, I give a quick summary, assign tasks, and tell everyone to get a move on it.
07/06/2011
Contributor: M.H1 M.H1
I'm pretty active all the time
07/06/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
get it done
07/06/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I get things done so I can take a break and talk after.
07/06/2011
Contributor: ms.anon ms.anon
Wish i was a doer :/
07/07/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
i talk big all the time. very rarely do i go through w/ what i say.
07/07/2011
Contributor: Steve of Eden Steve of Eden
I am a huge procrastinator...
07/08/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Have to admit it, I'm a doer...in every sense! I'm the type of person that doesn't go to bed with a messy house. I start cleaning as soon as I'm up and ready and again before bed. I've always been that way, but I am so much less stressed when things are done and clean. I can't relax with a lot onmy to-do list. I also am the type that enjoys being very productive. I guess that's where I get my 'self worth in a way. I guess it's a good thing though.
07/08/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm a talker - mostly cause it takes me forever to do things, so I don't get around to doing most things.
07/08/2011