Are you an organ donor? Why or why not? For what?

Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
And in all fairness, a lot of what is done during autopsy or even basic embalming can be pretty extreme to begin with. Once your blood has been drained and replaced with a chemical fluid, many of your internal organs are then 'cleaned out' ... more
Damn right! IMO, the organ harvest is actually more respectful and "nicer" than what goes on, in a very routine manner in most funeral homes to prepare a body for viewing.

Thank you for bringing that up.
12/29/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I would like to know if you are an organ donor. If you are not, what is your reason.

If you are, are their limitations to what you would donate?
I am quite willing to donate every organ useable as well as skin, bone, whatever. I am not willing to allow a doctor to decide that I am dead to get them. My family knows if there is no hope and I am gone to let me go and let them carve me up completely. I do not, however, have it on my drivers license. I realize this hampers speedy removal of critical organs but that is kinda the point. No I won't change my mind and no I am not uneducated about the process. I WANT papers to have to be signed and people to have to be consulted!
12/29/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by ToyGeek
Fears don't need to be rational to be fears.
Exactly...hell my mother has it in her will that there will be NOTHING placed over her face in her casket because she had a dream wherein she couldn't breathe while in her coffin! It's an irrational but valid fear in my case...and my Doctor knows my wishes, as well as my kids and guys. I trust he'll know if my time is truly up for the sake of my family he'll make damn sure there is no hope.
12/29/2010
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I am quite willing to donate every organ useable as well as skin, bone, whatever. I am not willing to allow a doctor to decide that I am dead to get them. My family knows if there is no hope and I am gone to let me go and let them carve me up ... more
Like P'Gell said, doctors won't declare you dead to get your organs. And you have to be brain dead but technically alive in order to donate most things. That doesn't happen very often.
12/29/2010
Contributor: ToxicHeart ToxicHeart
No, I am not a organ donor and probably won't be. No real reason really. Well there is a reason but it's really hard for me to explain.
12/30/2010
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
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Originally posted by Beaners
In the state where I live, they give you a form on which you can check limitations. I basically said take it all except skin, eyes, or corneas. I have a family friend who is a mortician, and he knows from experience that there's really no good ... more
I agree. I have a good friend who is a mortician as well. He told me how bad it is when they take the eyes, corneas & skin. He also told me that they charge $300 to stitch bodies up after their donation. I think that is horrible that the surgeons that are harvesting won't stitch you up. Supposedly they just use duck tape to keep you together afterwards. I'm not sure if that is just where I live or what but I think it is very dishonorable to those that donate their organs. I think they should at least stitch you back up. I really would like to donate my organs but not if they are just going to duck tape me, leaving my family with a few hundred dollars to fork over to finish the job.
12/30/2010
Contributor: ahammer ahammer
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Originally posted by Tuesday
Like P'Gell said, doctors won't declare you dead to get your organs. And you have to be brain dead but technically alive in order to donate most things. That doesn't happen very often.
they also will not try things that only have a 1% chance of working but would kill your organs if you a donor.

before I'm put in the ground I want them to try everything they can to keep my living no matter how unlikely it is. the point where they pull your organs is before the point they would keep trying if your not a donor.. so I say no thanks.
01/16/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I would like to know if you are an organ donor. If you are not, what is your reason.

If you are, are their limitations to what you would donate?
Absolutely. I am because I have friends who have needed transplants- and I am all for saving lives.
01/17/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I'm a donor and they have full pick of what they need after I'm gone.
01/22/2011
Contributor: Danielle1220 Danielle1220
I am an organ donor, but strictly interior body organs. I don't want to donate my eyes, bones, arms, legs, nothing like that. Just my actual life enabling organs.
01/22/2011
Contributor: buzz buzz
Well, I am one, and I don't understand why I'd ever not be. People spend so long waiting for that one transplant, and if the end of my life could begin/revive another, I say wtf not?
02/02/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by *HisMrs*
I agree. I have a good friend who is a mortician as well. He told me how bad it is when they take the eyes, corneas & skin. He also told me that they charge $300 to stitch bodies up after their donation. I think that is horrible that the surgeons ... more
You will NOT be charged for donating organs, and the doctors who do the harvesting DO stitch you back up.

There are so many urban myths about this.

NOBODY in any hospital anywhere duct tapes people's body closed after organ harvest.
02/02/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by ahammer
they also will not try things that only have a 1% chance of working but would kill your organs if you a donor.

before I'm put in the ground I want them to try everything they can to keep my living no matter how unlikely it is. the point ... more
@ hammer said: the point where they pull your organs is before the point they would keep trying if your not a donor

That is not true. Simply not true. All people, donors or not, are treated the same, unless they have a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate) order, and those people are not eligible to be donors anyway.

You CANNOT be brought back from brain death. There's no "1% chance" of surviving after the brain no longer works.
02/02/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I won't be using any of my organs after I die, so anyone that can use them is welcome to them.
02/03/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
They can have it all...
02/03/2011
Contributor: danellejohns danellejohns
I have always been a donor. Except I cannot donate my eyes or any part of them. I can't even use eyedrops,it is a weird phobia thing. I figure that they can have the rest of me-I won't be needing it. But just not the eyes.
02/03/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
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Originally posted by P'Gell
You will NOT be charged for donating organs, and the doctors who do the harvesting DO stitch you back up.

There are so many urban myths about this.

NOBODY in any hospital anywhere duct tapes people's body closed after organ harvest.
Actually,I have seen an organ harvest done (I'm a nursing student) and like I said the friend is a mortician and the funeral home he works for charges an extra $300 to stitch you back up.
02/03/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by *HisMrs*
Actually,I have seen an organ harvest done (I'm a nursing student) and like I said the friend is a mortician and the funeral home he works for charges an extra $300 to stitch you back up.
So have I. I'm a nurse. Where I live and where I worked, the doctors did as fine a suture on donor bodies as they do during regular surgery.

I have NEVER seen a doctor pull out a roll of duct tape during any medical procedure.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Envy Envy
I'm a doner. Anything and everything must go after I die, what do i need it for?
02/04/2011
Contributor: Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
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Originally posted by Lindz86
I hadn't thought much about donating organs, until recently...a friend of mine was shot and killed 7 months ago, and even though he was young, he had his organ donor card on him (here in Canada, or at least Ontario, I believe we get them with our ... more
I'm so sorry about your friend but I'm so glad to see that his ability to give transcended his life.

Kudos to your friend and to you for being willing to give.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
I am an organ donor for a sort of simple reason:

I am not the sum of my parts but someone else could be more because of my parts.

I have been able to see for my whole life. If I could give someone that ability after i die why wouldn't i? I want someone else to know what it's like to have your breath taken away by the sight of something, an experience that changes your whole self.

I want people to keep living with my beating heart in them so they can have those experiences, so they can hug a kid one more time, so they can do... whatever.

I think organ donation is the biggest and best gift you can give, and i am all about presents!
02/04/2011
Contributor: Alys Alys
I think that it is very sad that some people will never get an organ that they need. My neighbor is in her eighties and needs a kidney. She has been on dialysis for years, but she will never get that kidney because she is too old to be considered. The thought is that she wouldn't be able to get the same amount of "life" out of the kidney that a younger person would. Just this last Christmas my neighbor's pregnant daughter and son-in-law were visiting. In the middle of the night my neighbor, a former nurse, ended up delivering her baby granddaughter. She'll never get that kidney, but I definitely think that selection committees are wrong to discount the older people waiting on transplant lists.

I am a organ donor, and I have no problem with anything and everything that may be needed to be taken going to help someone after I am gone. I am planning to be cremated, anyways. I think that the topic of donating blood is just as important, and yet so many people overlook it. I, myself, have a very hard tome donating blood, from finding a vein to getting enough blood, but I am the only one in my family that can. My father's treatments for malignant melanoma in his 20s, my mother's hepatitis in her teens, and my sister's possible brain tumor all disqualify them as donors. It's something that can be done by the living to keep more people alive and we should be doing more of it.
02/04/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Alys
I think that it is very sad that some people will never get an organ that they need. My neighbor is in her eighties and needs a kidney. She has been on dialysis for years, but she will never get that kidney because she is too old to be considered. ... more
I know it's sad when someone isn't able to get on the waiting list, but with the small number of available organs, it does make sense.

If I were to have to make a choice between giving an 80 year old an other year or two (taking into account that she may not even survive the surgery) and giving a child an an entire life I would absolutely chose the child. A person who has already lived their life really doesn't "need" a few more years, but a child, or a young parent does. It seems almost cruel to think this way, but working in health care, it does make sense. There aren't enough organs for everybody. So, when it's between an 80 year old, most likely with myriad other health issues and a small chance of surviving either the surgery or the anti-rejection meds, or a child or young parent, or young person who will get decades out of the organ, and there is only ONE organ to give, who would one choose?

My own mother has severe kidney disease, being in her 70s and a lifelong smoker (which is most likely what caused her kidney disease) she is not eligible either. Honestly, I think it's a fair choice. I'd rather see the kidney go to a young person who will live a long life of health. When you work in health care, you have to make triage decisions every day. With so few organs available, it only makes sense to reserve them for the younger and healthier patients.

It seems cruel, I know. But, these choices have to be made.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by P'Gell
@ hammer said: the point where they pull your organs is before the point they would keep trying if your not a donor

That is not true. Simply not true. All people, donors or not, are treated the same, unless they have a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate) ... more
People with DNR orders can't be organ donors?
02/04/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
My mom is a nurse and has been in on some organ donations. I haven't checked the box on my driver's license but she has permission to make the call for me if something were to happen. I trust her experience and background to make the right call.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
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Originally posted by ahammer
they also will not try things that only have a 1% chance of working but would kill your organs if you a donor.

before I'm put in the ground I want them to try everything they can to keep my living no matter how unlikely it is. the point ... more
I don't know that you'll really want that heroic treatment with a 1% chance of success if it comes to that. My mother was a nurse. She's seen it happen many times where the family can't let go and authorize one painful treatment after another for a dying loved one when its clear the person's time has come. It really just results in needless suffering.
02/04/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
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Originally posted by P'Gell
So have I. I'm a nurse. Where I live and where I worked, the doctors did as fine a suture on donor bodies as they do during regular surgery.

I have NEVER seen a doctor pull out a roll of duct tape during any medical procedure.
Yeap I dunno but my clinicals are at one of the largest hospitals in Texas and I have seen it. It was last semester. The $300 charge is the main reason we didn't donate my aunt's organs. I think it is crazy. I will see if I can get a list of the costs from my friend.
02/04/2011
Contributor: Moein Moein
I and my wife have aggreament with health association to donate our organs for any one needs (after brain death)
02/04/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by *HisMrs*
Yeap I dunno but my clinicals are at one of the largest hospitals in Texas and I have seen it. It was last semester. The $300 charge is the main reason we didn't donate my aunt's organs. I think it is crazy. I will see if I can get a list of ... more
Quote from the MAYO CLINIC:

Myth: My family will be charged if I donate my organs.

Fact: The organ donor's family is never charged for donating. The family is charged for the cost of all final efforts to save your life, and those costs are sometimes misinterpreted as costs related to organ donation. Costs for organ removal go to the transplant recipient
.

FACTS about organ donation from the Mayo Clinic.
02/05/2011
Contributor: *HisMrs* *HisMrs*
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Quote from the MAYO CLINIC:

Myth: My family will be charged if I donate my organs.

Fact: The organ donor's family is never charged for donating. The family is charged for the cost of all final efforts to save your life, and those ... more
I never said you would be charged for donating. You would be charged by the funeral home for the extra care to prepare the body for burial. If you don't believe me that's fine this is just my experience.
02/05/2011