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Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
So recently my first ever boyfriend (from high school) has been sending me e-mails and messages on MSN as a friendly gesture. To be honest, I find him very repulsive. Our break up was pretty bad. He was an asshole while we were together. I was really in love back then. For two years I imagined running away to an island with him and live there happily ever after.

Anyways, few years went by, he seemed more and more like an asshole. When I look back, I realize how naïve I was. I don't think I can ever feel any affection toward him every again. What about you? Are you still with your first love? Are you still in love with him/her?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I am still with my first love, and we are still happily in love.
7  (19%)
I am no longer with my first love, and I still love him/her.
2  (5%)
I am still with my first love, but I no longer love him/her.
I am no longer with my first love, and I no longer love him/her.
24  (65%)
I've never loved anyone.
Other, please explain.
4  (11%)
Total votes: 37
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02/18/2012
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Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
I was like you - my first love was a total ass but I was too young, naive, and ga-ga over him to see it. Best thing I ever did was leaving him but apparently a decade later he's still kicking himself for it because he just tried to contact me on facebook last week. Sucks for him!
02/18/2012
Contributor: HugsAndBites HugsAndBites
My first real love and i were together for about 3 1/2 years. its been about 4 years since we broke up and i must say i love him but in a different way then i used to. i love him and wish him the best but i will never be IN love with him again. the problem is that people change and not always for the better, which is why you follow your heart and make decisions right for you.
02/18/2012
Contributor: T&A1987 T&A1987
I fled the first girl I was with, there, there were many problems. I'm still with the first girl I fell in love with.
02/18/2012
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
I was like you - my first love was a total ass but I was too young, naive, and ga-ga over him to see it. Best thing I ever did was leaving him but apparently a decade later he's still kicking himself for it because he just tried to contact me on ... more
Oh, that idiot - I thought you were talking about the more recent one. I still stand by what I said.

As for my first love and all, it was never reciprocated on the level I wanted. He loved me as a soul sister, and I wanted more than that from him, so it drove him off. That was eighteen years ago.

He contacted me last year on FB. He and his boyfriend are doing very well and are very happy, and I found myself relieved that it wasn't totally me that was repulsive, he just had different tastes (and wasn't owning up to them back in the day). So, that burning candle's been snuffed gently.
02/18/2012
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I married my first girlfriend and we're still together - through better and worse and worst.
02/18/2012
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
My first love was an ass and cheated on me. That hurt, but eventually I got over it and don't really feel much of anything for him.
02/18/2012
Contributor: Tagmstr Tagmstr
I'm still with her
02/18/2012
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
No... he still is important to me, since we spent almost all of our teen years together and did so much together, and I do definitely care about him, but he was a complete fucking miserable asshole to me the last year and a half of our relationship. We haven't spoken since we broke up.
02/18/2012
Contributor: TheSlyFox TheSlyFox
yep and I'm married to him!
02/18/2012
Contributor: BobbiJay BobbiJay
My first love and I have a child together but are not together. Yes I am still in love with him but we just don't work together.
02/18/2012
Contributor: Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Oh, that idiot - I thought you were talking about the more recent one. I still stand by what I said.

As for my first love and all, it was never reciprocated on the level I wanted. He loved me as a soul sister, and I wanted more than that from ... more
Yeah, seems Im something of a jackass magnet...LOL
02/18/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
Still in love with my first love and happily married. ^-^
02/18/2012
Contributor: winterseve winterseve
Quote:
Originally posted by True Pleasures
Still in love with my first love and happily married. ^-^
Me too!
02/18/2012
Contributor: sweetcuppincakes sweetcuppincakes
I loved my first, and we're not together and not "in love", but we've remained friends. I still care about him, even though we both know we'd never work as a couple. lol.
02/18/2012
Contributor: klyte klyte
No longer with them.
02/18/2012
Contributor: ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
It's hard to say because I really don't know that I've been in love before. I know that sounds weird, but I really wonder now what is love? Has previous infatuation been love? Was that first crush love?
02/18/2012
Contributor: DreamWolf DreamWolf
Of course love must be meant here like being in love, because I still think kindly of my first love though he hurt me a lot, so nope, am not with him anymore and not in love with him anymore, but it is one of the reasons why I am with my Only Precious OtherHalf NyummmyMaster and I couldn't ever be happier than with Him!!! ~wwwwwwwwweeeeeeeeeeee eeeeeeeeeehhhhhhs happiestly
02/19/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
Not with them. And not in love with them.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
My first love/boyfriend, no. However, I am still in love with a best friend of mine, and probably always will be.
02/19/2012
Contributor: prttynink prttynink
I'm not still in love with him but it was easily one of my favorite relationships, I love the memories we made and I regret nothing about it
02/19/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Not in love, but we are friends still. We didn't speak for a while but started again this past year.
02/19/2012
Contributor: Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Missmarc
So recently my first ever boyfriend (from high school) has been sending me e-mails and messages on MSN as a friendly gesture. To be honest, I find him very repulsive. Our break up was pretty bad. He was an asshole while we were together. I was ... more
no and not with them
02/19/2012
Contributor: shcoo shcoo
It's been five years with my first. We have trouble but I'm still in love.
02/19/2012
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
It's funny, I'm not in love, but definitely obsessed. I think about him every day and look him up on Facebook. I don't know why I have such a hard time moving on.
02/19/2012
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
Heh. I fell in love with my first love's best friend. That helped me move on right quick.

I'm good friends with my first love, but it took a long time before we could really be friends again. Many huge fights too.

And I'm happily in love with my second love.
02/19/2012