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Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I am known in my local community (group of people that are involved in BDSM events and munches) as a switch. More often than not I am a femmedom. I was wondering...

What is your title, either to your partner or to your community?


(Some of these may seem the same but there are slight nuances)
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Submissive
Mrs.Sucio , Sundae Sparkles , - Kira - , Ukulele Guy , Vanille , Falsepast , Taylor , s3 , CaliGirl , Anne , Forever Hers! , KrissyNovacaine , padmeamidala
13
Furry
Pet
Danneh , Allstars316
2
Owner
Katelyn , Madsinner , SarafA , Oliver Gray , Sir
5
Owned
Madsinner , padmeamidala
2
Dominant
Katelyn , SarafA , Oliver Gray , Errant Venture , LoneOokami , Allison.Wilder , Sir , SydneyScreams
8
Master/Mistress
Katelyn , Loriandhubby , xcapricax , ChickenFeathers , SarafA , Oliver Gray , Anne , dv8 , Allison.Wilder , SydneyScreams , LadyRelentless
11
Slave
- Kira - , Anne , padmeamidala
3
Bottom
Dixiemomma , Vanille , solitudinarian , Falsepast
4
Top
Katelyn , SarafA , Oliver Gray , Lucifer the Cat , LoneOokami , Sir
6
Daddy
Forever Hers! , Sir
2
Babygirl
Madsinner , Vanille , Taylor , Forever Hers! , jennifur77 , padmeamidala
6
LeatherDaddy
Brat
KrissyNovacaine
1
Vanilla
Madsinner
1
Fetishist
Katelyn , SarafA , Allison.Wilder , SydneyScreams
4
Other- Say it below!
Vanille , solitudinarian , DeliciousSurprise , xOhxSoxScandalousx , Forever Hers! , Allison.Wilder , Mr. E , Miss Morphine , Sir , ViVix , KinkyKatieJames
11
Total votes: 79 (39 voters)
Poll is closed
07/12/2012
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Contributor: Madsinner Madsinner
I had no idea there were so many titles
07/12/2012
Contributor: ChickenFeathers ChickenFeathers
I'm the Master of a very rambunctious and frisky kitty. It's more like a play Master/Pet thing, though. Nothing too serious.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
lol sinner theres many many more than that.. amusing that she is a switch and yet that wasnt an option...

i was always the Dom in the relationships in my past .... However, with my current relationship i am a bottom to a very Dominate man, i'm NOT a babygirl (the little's frankly annoy me lol) but i am a princess and am treated as one even when being punished hehe (i tend to be bratty and get punished often)

i'm still very Dominate in my everyday life and only submit to Him, and typically only in the bedroom or during major decisions. i dont call Him Master (He's even admitted to me that it would upset Him if i did, He doesn't care for the arrogance of the title)

That being said, the list she made is relatively small and only starts to touch on the variety in the lifestyle.
07/12/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
We're not part of the community in our area because both of us are a little anti-social. Perhaps one day we will get involved. It would be nice to know other BDSM minded folks.

My husband is dominant and I'm sub. For most of our relationship it has been bedroom only, but we are working toward slave training in non-bedroom aspects as well.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Ukulele Guy Ukulele Guy
While I can be dominant, I certainly enjoy when the girl takes charge. It's a real turn on.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Madsinner Madsinner
Quote:
Originally posted by Dixiemomma
lol sinner theres many many more than that.. amusing that she is a switch and yet that wasnt an option...

i was always the Dom in the relationships in my past .... However, with my current relationship i am a bottom to a very Dominate man, ... more
It was new to me : )

Every relationship is different but I guess I would be a bottom
07/12/2012
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
I'm not part of my 'local scene' and don't choose to be, but I fall into a few of these 'titles', they're more 'roles' to me. Through and through I'm a submissive and a bottom when it comes to the sex play, however, in nonsexual situations I'm a kittygirl or a babygirl/little.
07/12/2012
Contributor: Oliver Gray Oliver Gray
Quote:
Originally posted by Katelyn
I am known in my local community (group of people that are involved in BDSM events and munches) as a switch. More often than not I am a femmedom. I was wondering...

What is your title, either to your partner or to your community? ... more
I'm mainly called master
07/12/2012
Contributor: Danneh Danneh
New to the scene but I'm a pet/submissive depending.
07/13/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
I'm not really part of the local community, but I identify as a masochistic bottom.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I'd be a sub/slave
07/13/2012
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I don't fit in a (ticky) box.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
You know, I was going to say I'm a Dom/Master, but I haven't actually been all that active, BDSM-wise, recently. We've both been going through a fair few things that have kept us busy, distracted. I've made myself sad, now . I'll have to make efforts to get back into it, properly.
07/13/2012
Contributor: Allstars316 Allstars316
I'm a pet to my owner!
07/13/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
Quote:
Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
I don't fit in a (ticky) box.
Same!
07/13/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
I'm a slave to my partner.
08/15/2012
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
I'm a Dom/Top
04/04/2013
Contributor: KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I am a Switch, but my current dynamic I am a Brat. We call me his sub but to outsiders I am his Brat. This is to let people know that I am not going to be subby to them at all.
04/05/2013
Contributor: Allison.Wilder Allison.Wilder
I'm a Pro/FinDomme.
04/05/2013
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
We are not in the BDSM community. I only play with my wife, but we both do like to switch roles. Dominant, submissive, top or bottom...it does not matter to us, as long as we are both having fun.
04/05/2013
Contributor: Miss Morphine Miss Morphine
I'm a switch.
04/05/2013
Contributor: Sir Sir
To the community: Sir, Dominant, Top, Sadist, Leather Sir.

To my girls/boys: Sir, King, Owner, Mister, Daddy, God.
04/05/2013
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
I love the spectrum! Titles are sometimes full of meaning and history
05/24/2013
Contributor: SydneyScreams SydneyScreams
I'm just a kinky bitch to most of the people in the community here.
05/24/2013
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Katelyn
I am known in my local community (group of people that are involved in BDSM events and munches) as a switch. More often than not I am a femmedom. I was wondering...

What is your title, either to your partner or to your community? ... more
I don't really know. Isn't that odd?
05/25/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I'm the Goddess.
05/25/2013
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
It's not uncommon to not have a title! Fuck it, give yourself a name, or don't ; )
05/26/2013
Contributor: LadyRelentless LadyRelentless
I'm a Goddess, and he is my Boy.
05/26/2013
Contributor: Katelyn Katelyn
Quote:
Originally posted by LadyRelentless
I'm a Goddess, and he is my Boy.
Aww, I love this one. It's very Venus in Furs
05/31/2013