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misterazor
the questions were just a way of putting every possible option i could think of out there...not assuming that any one was accurate. certainly not trying to imply that you thought it funny or enjoyed degrading men. just thinking out loud of
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the questions were just a way of putting every possible option i could think of out there...not assuming that any one was accurate. certainly not trying to imply that you thought it funny or enjoyed degrading men. just thinking out loud of possibilities...even if improbable. i have little doubt, upon seeing some of your comments on here, seeing the respect that you've earned from the community, that you have a great appreciation and acceptance of most things sexual...
...as do i. i just like to see every angle. does that make sense? so, hopefully you did not think me to be implying...well, anything.
now, thank you for the wall of info. wicked. so, you like to explore, have done it all, and find gay porn to be still a bit of a thrill due, in part, to it's stigma...it's taboo. other porn just isn't thrilling anymore. a little desensitized, maybe? aren't we all...getting to that point anyway? porn, in general, leaves something lacking for me as well; although, i do still enjoy most kinds. have you ever watched people having sex in reality? i would if there were a safe way of experiencing it. i'm not even sure how much it has to do with needing to satisfy lust. i think a big draw in that is the taboo of it...that it would be considered wrong by society in general. blah, blah. one of my fantasys is walking in on my friends having sex, perhaps in the living room (not busting in on them in the bedroom)...and them just being cool with it, like it's no big deal if i watch. that's an intimate thing...to be allowed to witness such a thing would say something about how much they trust and love me as a friend. so, i would say that the fantasys has more to do with feeling included and loved by them, than it has to do with satisfying lust. boy, i went off on a tangent there...but i may have learned something about myself. good times. thanks for sharing, lady.
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I wasn't offended, I just wanted to make sure I addressed all of your questions. (And sometimes I end up being way more blunt than I ever intended so I was curious if I had given an impression I wasn't aware of.)
I think if you're into pornography on a level like I am, it is really easy to become desensitized to a lot of things. Pretty much the only sexual acts I've seen that absolutely disgust me are spitting in orifices (for any reason, just stop doing that!) and ass to mouth. Just ugh, it sets off my gag reflex in ways I shouldn't describe.
I've watched people have sex in real life, I've been watched by others in real life. I have had sex on cam, I've had numerous MFF threesomes and I've been surreptitiously videotaped. It's definitely a different level of intimacy, it's almost
too intimate in a way. You're ecstatic to be able to witness the passion and energy between the people having sex, but you see a little too much of their souls and that can be unsettling. Or at least, it was for me. But, there were other emotions involved which naturally complicates things anyway.
I think, at the end of the day, we're sexual beings by nature and by virtue. We should embrace every opportunity to fornicate proudly and wantonly and this should be the right of everyone. (So long as no children or animals are involved, blah blah official disclaimer that those things are wrong.)
If that means you want to jerk off while watching two people get it on, whether on your television or right in front of your face, by all means go for it. (So long as it's consensual blah blah blah.)
[Pardon my flippancy on the "disclaimers", but I feel like I say this at least three times a week and I'm tired of repeating myself as it should just be understood.]
I think people are way too hung up on what other people think about their sexual preferences, their identities and what fetishes they may delight in when they should be worrying about cultivating their own desires. It's ridiculous how much other people care about what happens in someone else's bedroom. Sad, really. Really, really sad.
