It does nothing for either of us - we'll usually fast forward through it if the DVD we're watching has it.
Do hetero women find girl on girl porn arousing?
02/11/2013
Generally yes, though I admit to having some lesbian tendencies sometimes. I am a little picky though, it doesn't turn me on when they look very porn-starish, or if it looks like they are faking their orgasm. I love a natural looking girl having what I think is a real orgasm!
02/11/2013
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i'd like to know what leads to this thought. something about men who are anything but the typical arrogant, homophobic, insensitive...seeing men who are open and able to get beyond the societal understanding of what men are supposed to be...
Originally posted by
Ansley
It's not really my favorite porn, I prefer guy on guy stuff.
...or do you just find it funny?
...or was it sarcasm?
...or do you like to see men degraded?
or...does it just make you smile because you enjoy seeing people enjoy other people? i like people who like to see people enjoy each other, no matter what form that enjoyment may come in.
sorry. just thinking out loud.
02/12/2013
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you are not alone. i'm not so sure they know what they want most of the time. though, who among us does know what we want?
Originally posted by
Genderfree
No idea! I wish I knew that answer, too. I'm just waiting for the women to come in and pushing other until then.
I just realized, I know nothing about the wants of heterosexual women, at all.
I just realized, I know nothing about the wants of heterosexual women, at all.
02/12/2013
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i will take it. sometimes it's more complicated than yes or no. that's why other is always popular.
Originally posted by
RedGlitter
I chose "Other" because when you watch porn, more likely than not, there is a girl involved...
I don't get turned on by women, because I'm straight, but seeing a person have sex IS arousing...so, I really don't know how to ... more
I don't get turned on by women, because I'm straight, but seeing a person have sex IS arousing...so, I really don't know how to ... more
I chose "Other" because when you watch porn, more likely than not, there is a girl involved...
I don't get turned on by women, because I'm straight, but seeing a person have sex IS arousing...so, I really don't know how to answer your question other THAN "Other"! less
I don't get turned on by women, because I'm straight, but seeing a person have sex IS arousing...so, I really don't know how to answer your question other THAN "Other"! less
02/12/2013
I think it's hot.
02/12/2013
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curious. i wonder why you don't like seeing guys in porn. not that it matters. we all have our preferences. it's funny to think about though...wondering if a straight man would ever say the same; that man on man porn was the only kind he enjoyed. and how that would be taken by a community such as this.
Originally posted by
shorejen9
It's the only porn I want to watch so that's what we have. My husband doesn't mind. Girl on guy porn doesn't do much for me and I've never watched guy on guy so no opinion there.
02/12/2013
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i was going to do that as well, but she told me not to. that's kinda what brought up this question. i enjoy it, but figured that she would not. i was wrong.
Originally posted by
Sammi
It does nothing for either of us - we'll usually fast forward through it if the DVD we're watching has it.
02/12/2013
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for sure. i would bet this would be a much prefered porn that one with fake passion.
Originally posted by
jr2012
Generally yes, though I admit to having some lesbian tendencies sometimes. I am a little picky though, it doesn't turn me on when they look very porn-starish, or if it looks like they are faking their orgasm. I love a natural looking girl having
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Generally yes, though I admit to having some lesbian tendencies sometimes. I am a little picky though, it doesn't turn me on when they look very porn-starish, or if it looks like they are faking their orgasm. I love a natural looking girl having what I think is a real orgasm!
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02/12/2013
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i...think you are right.
Originally posted by
HushNow
I think it's hot.
02/12/2013
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Not aroused by it.
Originally posted by
misterazor
i'm just curious how common it is for straight women to get aroused watching other women have sex.
02/12/2013
It can be. most of it just seems so forced or fluff. most of it is for men, all showy and just seem so fake.
when you see girls having sex in a real way, where there not just probing with dildos hard core, but getting in there nice and easy and gentle and focusing on the CLIT.
when you see girls having sex in a real way, where there not just probing with dildos hard core, but getting in there nice and easy and gentle and focusing on the CLIT.
02/12/2013
Chick-on-chick can be hot, but I have to be in the mood for porn.
02/12/2013
It doesn't do anything for me. I only watch guy on guy or heterosexual porn. I really like seeing penises, which is why gang bang porn is awesome. So many penises!
02/12/2013
My GF hates it for some reason!
02/12/2013
Only guy girl works for me
02/12/2013
Sometimes. Depends on how skillful the ladies are performing.
02/12/2013
I hate FAKE sex in general, which is what a majority of lesbian porn is. I can be aroused by it but it has to be real and not this "let's find two semi decent looking women and have them lick pussies for 45 minutes."
02/12/2013
nope
02/12/2013
I like it
02/12/2013
not gonna lie, sometimes..
02/12/2013
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...or do you just find it funny? It can be comical, but all porn has a certain "schtick" factor to it.
Originally posted by
misterazor
i'd like to know what leads to this thought. something about men who are anything but the typical arrogant, homophobic, insensitive...seeing men who are open and able to get beyond the societal understanding of what men are supposed to
...
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i'd like to know what leads to this thought. something about men who are anything but the typical arrogant, homophobic, insensitive...seeing men who are open and able to get beyond the societal understanding of what men are supposed to be...
...or do you just find it funny?
...or was it sarcasm?
...or do you like to see men degraded?
or...does it just make you smile because you enjoy seeing people enjoy other people? i like people who like to see people enjoy each other, no matter what form that enjoyment may come in.
sorry. just thinking out loud. less
...or do you just find it funny?
...or was it sarcasm?
...or do you like to see men degraded?
or...does it just make you smile because you enjoy seeing people enjoy other people? i like people who like to see people enjoy each other, no matter what form that enjoyment may come in.
sorry. just thinking out loud. less
...or was it sarcasm? Not sure how why you would think it was sarcasm...
...or do you like to see men degraded? Not sure how two people having sex is degrading, regardless of their genders/sexes.
Nevertheless, I shall satisfy your curiosity. First of all, I wouldn't consider myself heterosexual, so much as I consider myself heteroflexible under a very specific set of circumstances. That being said, I have had sex with about a dozen women and been in a romantic relationship with one of those women. This was more than a decade ago and it's been quite a long time since I've had sex with a woman and the interest is minimal at best.
Like I would if the opportunity came up and hubby was cool and everyone was going to walk away happy but it's not something I fantasize about anymore. Women from my generation grew up in a time of the "bar-sexual". Chicks who would make out with each other to get attention from guys. (It almost always worked.) It was heavily fetishized (two girls being together) and I don't really find anything wrong with objectifying a person for sexual pleasure (if both people understand that is indeed what is happening).
A year into my first relationship with a man, I learned his first sexual experiences were with someone I knew - a mutual male friend. It didn't "bother" me. I wasn't turned off, I didn't think he was less of a person. In fact, it kind of made me realize there was so much about this person I didn't know. We broke up for unrelated reasons.
I started dating a guy who was about as vanilla as they come and by this point, I had seen every inch of the internet I could set my little eyes on - I had seen BDSM, rape play, hardcore sex, humiliation scenes, and some other things I won't mention here. I taught him the meaning of felching and he was quite a bit older than I. One thing led to another and we started exhausting fantasies left and right.
We're both dominant and submissive to the point where any BDSM play would be canceled out by the "I just can't do that to you". Due to the crash and burn scenario with aforementioned girlfriend, MFF threesomes were totally off the table. So we started having sex in public places - movie theaters, bar bathrooms, behind office buildings, off in a patch of trees in the city park, in front of friends' apartments...you name it, we did it. (We were busted by the cops, twice.)
After engaging in those things for awhile, they soon lost their luster and we started looking into other avenues. Womens lingerie (eh, it's okay, but not like OMG TAKE ME NOW), anal play, shaving...the list is long.
One night we were chatting online and I found a pic of two guys blowing each other and sent it to him. I asked him what he thought and he said it made him uncomfortable but "it's just a cock". And our love of all things guy on guy was born. We've been dabbling in it for the last six years or so. Attempted to fulfill the fantasy once but mostly use my collection of toys to satisfy the desire.
Okay, so if that gigantic wall of text doesn't explain anything thoroughly enough, the TLDR version is this:
I've done the girl on girl thing. It's boring. Most girl on girl porn doesn't involve toys, the girls aren't really into each other and it almost always becomes a competition of who can fake-cum the loudest and most dramatically.
Guy on guy? Well, I haven't had an overindulgence of this particular act. It's still considered taboo to a large majority of straight guys even if they are tolerant towards homosexual men. Taboo = hot. It's also, according to the CDC, one of the most risky behaviors a man can engage in, in this day and age. This adds another notch of 'hot' to the bedpost.
I wasn't being sarcastic, I don't think it's degrading, I'm not sure that I think it's empowering either. It's just something I haven't seen or done much of and I think it's incredibly hot to watch and way, way more exciting than watching two chicks together. I don't even get off on two girls and a guy together anymore.
If I had to put it in terms of alcohol consumption:
Two girls = a room-temp Budweiser
Two guys = Three jager bombs and a red-headed slut
02/13/2013
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Yeah, see that's how I feel about it too. I really dislike ALL of the main-stream, girl on girl porn I've ever seen. They do exactly as you stated - poke each other's vulvas with long dagger like nails and flutter their tongues on clits and then the receiver screams like a banshee and fakes an orgasm. Not hot. Not even in the slightest.
Originally posted by
Girly Juice
Only if it's non-mainstream. I'm not into watching blonde busty girls poke each other's vulvas with long acrylic nails and delicately flutter their tongues against each other's clits. That's not how real lesbian sex happens and it's not hot to me!
The only girl on girl porn I've ever watched and liked has been non-mainstream. Where it actually looks like the people involved know what the hell they're doing, are actually enjoying it, and actively paying attention to each other and what the other person likes and reacts to.
02/13/2013
I typically prefer guy girl porn, but many of my plot titles have girl on girl at some point. Most of the time, it's just too fake for me to really enjoy. I get off when I watch two people tear into each other like their lover is water in the midst of a desert. Every once in a while, I'll find a girl on girl scene where the same holds true. The girls are actually into each other, and the responses are genuine. When that's the case, I'm all about it.
02/13/2013
aroused by it
02/13/2013
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Honestly, I have tendencies towards women. I find them attractive but due to my upbringing I never acted on the desires or fantasies. I am married and adore my husband. When we started exploring our fantasies and such I revealed that I always wanted to be with a woman but never did. We are monogamous and have a fantastic relationship in all areas. I would NEVER do anything to jeopardize that. EVER! In another life I would probably have explored with women as well as men before meeting my husband. I wouldn't want to not be with him in any life.
Originally posted by
misterazor
curious. i wonder why you don't like seeing guys in porn. not that it matters. we all have our preferences. it's funny to think about though...wondering if a straight man would ever say the same; that man on man porn was the only kind he
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curious. i wonder why you don't like seeing guys in porn. not that it matters. we all have our preferences. it's funny to think about though...wondering if a straight man would ever say the same; that man on man porn was the only kind he enjoyed. and how that would be taken by a community such as this.
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Anyway, we decided to get into adult movie nights with toys and such and I really don't want to see other men. I have that at home all I want! But since I do like women and don't have that at home we watch all girl porn. This way I can picture myself as one do the girls etc. it's a way to to live out the fantasy without the danger of hurting our relationship!
Boy, I hope that made sense. Lol
02/13/2013
good to know
02/13/2013
The only reason I usually don't watch girl-on-girl porn is not because I am not interested (because I sure am!), but that it's just so fake and obviously created for a male audience. If there was more realistic girl-on-girl porn I'd love to watch! I also like girl-on-boy and boy-on-boy, depending on what I'm in the mood for
02/13/2013
It depends on the porn.
02/13/2013
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the questions were just a way of putting every possible option i could think of out there...not assuming that any one was accurate. certainly not trying to imply that you thought it funny or enjoyed degrading men. just thinking out loud of possibilities...even if improbable. i have little doubt, upon seeing some of your comments on here, seeing the respect that you've earned from the community, that you have a great appreciation and acceptance of most things sexual...
Originally posted by
Ansley
...or do you just find it funny? It can be comical, but all porn has a certain "schtick" factor to it.
...or was it sarcasm? Not sure how why you would think it was sarcasm...
...or do you like to see men degraded? Not sure ... more
...or was it sarcasm? Not sure how why you would think it was sarcasm...
...or do you like to see men degraded? Not sure ... more
...or do you just find it funny? It can be comical, but all porn has a certain "schtick" factor to it.
...or was it sarcasm? Not sure how why you would think it was sarcasm...
...or do you like to see men degraded? Not sure how two people having sex is degrading, regardless of their genders/sexes.
Nevertheless, I shall satisfy your curiosity. First of all, I wouldn't consider myself heterosexual, so much as I consider myself heteroflexible under a very specific set of circumstances. That being said, I have had sex with about a dozen women and been in a romantic relationship with one of those women. This was more than a decade ago and it's been quite a long time since I've had sex with a woman and the interest is minimal at best.
Like I would if the opportunity came up and hubby was cool and everyone was going to walk away happy but it's not something I fantasize about anymore. Women from my generation grew up in a time of the "bar-sexual". Chicks who would make out with each other to get attention from guys. (It almost always worked.) It was heavily fetishized (two girls being together) and I don't really find anything wrong with objectifying a person for sexual pleasure (if both people understand that is indeed what is happening).
A year into my first relationship with a man, I learned his first sexual experiences were with someone I knew - a mutual male friend. It didn't "bother" me. I wasn't turned off, I didn't think he was less of a person. In fact, it kind of made me realize there was so much about this person I didn't know. We broke up for unrelated reasons.
I started dating a guy who was about as vanilla as they come and by this point, I had seen every inch of the internet I could set my little eyes on - I had seen BDSM, rape play, hardcore sex, humiliation scenes, and some other things I won't mention here. I taught him the meaning of felching and he was quite a bit older than I. One thing led to another and we started exhausting fantasies left and right.
We're both dominant and submissive to the point where any BDSM play would be canceled out by the "I just can't do that to you". Due to the crash and burn scenario with aforementioned girlfriend, MFF threesomes were totally off the table. So we started having sex in public places - movie theaters, bar bathrooms, behind office buildings, off in a patch of trees in the city park, in front of friends' apartments...you name it, we did it. (We were busted by the cops, twice.)
After engaging in those things for awhile, they soon lost their luster and we started looking into other avenues. Womens lingerie (eh, it's okay, but not like OMG TAKE ME NOW), anal play, shaving...the list is long.
One night we were chatting online and I found a pic of two guys blowing each other and sent it to him. I asked him what he thought and he said it made him uncomfortable but "it's just a cock". And our love of all things guy on guy was born. We've been dabbling in it for the last six years or so. Attempted to fulfill the fantasy once but mostly use my collection of toys to satisfy the desire.
Okay, so if that gigantic wall of text doesn't explain anything thoroughly enough, the TLDR version is this:
I've done the girl on girl thing. It's boring. Most girl on girl porn doesn't involve toys, the girls aren't really into each other and it almost always becomes a competition of who can fake-cum the loudest and most dramatically.
Guy on guy? Well, I haven't had an overindulgence of this particular act. It's still considered taboo to a large majority of straight guys even if they are tolerant towards homosexual men. Taboo = hot. It's also, according to the CDC, one of the most risky behaviors a man can engage in, in this day and age. This adds another notch of 'hot' to the bedpost.
I wasn't being sarcastic, I don't think it's degrading, I'm not sure that I think it's empowering either. It's just something I haven't seen or done much of and I think it's incredibly hot to watch and way, way more exciting than watching two chicks together. I don't even get off on two girls and a guy together anymore.
If I had to put it in terms of alcohol consumption:
Two girls = a room-temp Budweiser
Two guys = Three jager bombs and a red-headed slut
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...or was it sarcasm? Not sure how why you would think it was sarcasm...
...or do you like to see men degraded? Not sure how two people having sex is degrading, regardless of their genders/sexes.
Nevertheless, I shall satisfy your curiosity. First of all, I wouldn't consider myself heterosexual, so much as I consider myself heteroflexible under a very specific set of circumstances. That being said, I have had sex with about a dozen women and been in a romantic relationship with one of those women. This was more than a decade ago and it's been quite a long time since I've had sex with a woman and the interest is minimal at best.
Like I would if the opportunity came up and hubby was cool and everyone was going to walk away happy but it's not something I fantasize about anymore. Women from my generation grew up in a time of the "bar-sexual". Chicks who would make out with each other to get attention from guys. (It almost always worked.) It was heavily fetishized (two girls being together) and I don't really find anything wrong with objectifying a person for sexual pleasure (if both people understand that is indeed what is happening).
A year into my first relationship with a man, I learned his first sexual experiences were with someone I knew - a mutual male friend. It didn't "bother" me. I wasn't turned off, I didn't think he was less of a person. In fact, it kind of made me realize there was so much about this person I didn't know. We broke up for unrelated reasons.
I started dating a guy who was about as vanilla as they come and by this point, I had seen every inch of the internet I could set my little eyes on - I had seen BDSM, rape play, hardcore sex, humiliation scenes, and some other things I won't mention here. I taught him the meaning of felching and he was quite a bit older than I. One thing led to another and we started exhausting fantasies left and right.
We're both dominant and submissive to the point where any BDSM play would be canceled out by the "I just can't do that to you". Due to the crash and burn scenario with aforementioned girlfriend, MFF threesomes were totally off the table. So we started having sex in public places - movie theaters, bar bathrooms, behind office buildings, off in a patch of trees in the city park, in front of friends' apartments...you name it, we did it. (We were busted by the cops, twice.)
After engaging in those things for awhile, they soon lost their luster and we started looking into other avenues. Womens lingerie (eh, it's okay, but not like OMG TAKE ME NOW), anal play, shaving...the list is long.
One night we were chatting online and I found a pic of two guys blowing each other and sent it to him. I asked him what he thought and he said it made him uncomfortable but "it's just a cock". And our love of all things guy on guy was born. We've been dabbling in it for the last six years or so. Attempted to fulfill the fantasy once but mostly use my collection of toys to satisfy the desire.
Okay, so if that gigantic wall of text doesn't explain anything thoroughly enough, the TLDR version is this:
I've done the girl on girl thing. It's boring. Most girl on girl porn doesn't involve toys, the girls aren't really into each other and it almost always becomes a competition of who can fake-cum the loudest and most dramatically.
Guy on guy? Well, I haven't had an overindulgence of this particular act. It's still considered taboo to a large majority of straight guys even if they are tolerant towards homosexual men. Taboo = hot. It's also, according to the CDC, one of the most risky behaviors a man can engage in, in this day and age. This adds another notch of 'hot' to the bedpost.
I wasn't being sarcastic, I don't think it's degrading, I'm not sure that I think it's empowering either. It's just something I haven't seen or done much of and I think it's incredibly hot to watch and way, way more exciting than watching two chicks together. I don't even get off on two girls and a guy together anymore.
If I had to put it in terms of alcohol consumption:
Two girls = a room-temp Budweiser
Two guys = Three jager bombs and a red-headed slut
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...as do i. i just like to see every angle. does that make sense? so, hopefully you did not think me to be implying...well, anything.
now, thank you for the wall of info. wicked. so, you like to explore, have done it all, and find gay porn to be still a bit of a thrill due, in part, to it's stigma...it's taboo. other porn just isn't thrilling anymore. a little desensitized, maybe? aren't we all...getting to that point anyway? porn, in general, leaves something lacking for me as well; although, i do still enjoy most kinds. have you ever watched people having sex in reality? i would if there were a safe way of experiencing it. i'm not even sure how much it has to do with needing to satisfy lust. i think a big draw in that is the taboo of it...that it would be considered wrong by society in general. blah, blah. one of my fantasys is walking in on my friends having sex, perhaps in the living room (not busting in on them in the bedroom)...and them just being cool with it, like it's no big deal if i watch. that's an intimate thing...to be allowed to witness such a thing would say something about how much they trust and love me as a friend. so, i would say that the fantasys has more to do with feeling included and loved by them, than it has to do with satisfying lust. boy, i went off on a tangent there...but i may have learned something about myself. good times. thanks for sharing, lady.
02/14/2013